Making Love with Love: How to Better Understand Us

By MD. Leonnardo Andre

"Making Love with Love" is an educational and motivational book for adults about love, sex, communication techniques, sexual health, and happiness for human beings. 

• Language: English
• Publisher: The Reading Glass Books
• Release date: May 30, 2023
• ISBN: 9781959151562

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Making Love with Love: How to Better Understand Us

Copyright © 2023 by Leonnardo Andre, MD.

ISBN:

Paperback: 978-1959151555

e-book: 978-1959151562

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The views expressed in this book are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of the publisher, and the publisher hereby disclaims any responsibility for them.

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Dedicated to my wife, who showed me that the content of this book is not a utopia but an achievable endeavor.

Table of Contents

I: Introduction

II: What is the importance of sex for the Couple?

III: Is it important to have knowledge about human Sexuality?

IV: Why is it important to do It?

V: The desire is gone

VI: Working together in the solution

VII: "Not today, …i have a headache"

VIII: The lack of sexual desire

IX: Beyond the external and superficial appearance

X: Essential components for establishing good Communication

XI: What do we mean by Making Love?

XII: Ingredients needed for a better understanding for the Couple

XIII: Suggestions and comments

XIV: Sexual anatomy and physiology

XV: Sexual Fantasies

XVI: Discovering your Body

XVII: Masturbation

XVIII: Oral Sex

XIX: Sexual Positions

XX: Sex Toys

XXI: Contraceptive Methods

XXII: Venereal Diseases

XXIII: Sexual Pathologies

XXIV: Suggestions about what a partner may like to have done to him or Her

XXV: Final Comments

About the author

I

Introduction

The purpose of this book is to help bring couples closer to each other.

This book is to be used as an instrument for the growth for couples in their better understanding of their sexual intimacy by:

Identifying the wrong information that the person may have received in their upbringing, that led them to think that sex is Dirty, Forbidden, or Something to keep hidden. Therefore, by doing so, we can get over thismisconception.

Understanding the true value of sexuality in the humanbeing.

Improving or developing effective communication skills for thecouple.

Opening the doors that can lead to a more intimate knowledge of yourmate.

Discovering each other, so you can, openly share your emotions, your feelings, and even to trust your body to yourpartner.

An invitation to get rid of the inhibitions, and to liberate yourself of the chains of sexual repression so you can give yourself fully, with love, to yourpartner.

Read about opinions, from men and women about their likes, dislikes, cravings, experiences, and fears regardingsexuality.

Review important aspects about anatomy and physiology of sex, sexual health, contraceptive methods, and sexualdiseases.

Make mention of how the use of accessories such as adult videos, sex toys, and others that could be introduced in the relationship of thecouple.

I reiterate that the purpose is: To make of this book an instrument to develop closeness, to promote growth, and to acquire a better understanding within the couple.

Information that can help to give the fire, the strength, and the passion to your relationship. Information that may allow you to surrender openly your emotions, feelings, and desires towards your partner.

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The knowledge that you can get with this book may get you closer to that wonderful experience of… MAKING LOVE WITH LOVE.

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II

What is the importance of sex for the Couple?

One of the pillars that holds our society is the union of the family, consequently, we could say the stability of the relationship in the couple is, indeed, one of the pillars that holds our society.

Unfortunately, today more than 50% of marriages end up in divorce. One of the main causes of divorce is the lack of understanding and bonding of the couple. Infidelity has as one of its main causes the dissatisfaction in the sexual intimacy.

Master & Jonson in their studies on Sexuality came to establish that:

IF THE SEXUAL CONTACT BETWEEN PARTNERS IS UNSATISFACTORY, THE UNION OF LOVE CAN BREAK, AND THE COUPLE WILL SEPARATE, EITHER PHYSICALLY OR EMOTIONALLY

Although good sex in the couple is not the answer for happiness of the marriage, it is most definitely, especially important.

Humans can relate to other humans in different ways by being friends, neighbors, colleagues, relatives, coworkers, classmates, etc. In all these relationships there can be positive feelings, including love, but the relationship with a spouse is different from all because with the spouse, is with whom the sexual intimacy is shared.

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The presence of physical affection and sexual intimacy has been shown to be a strong predictor of satisfaction, affection, and likability in the relationship. During sexual intimacy Oxytocin is produced and, this hormone promotes bonding, reduces stress and, boosts trust in the marriage.

When marriage is lacking this important intimate element (sex), it can lead to feel unimportant, underappreciated, and self-conscious.

Therefore, it is obvious to say that sex is particularly important in the life of a couple.

If you love your partner, if you want to preserve or strengthen the union with him/her, if your partner is valuable to you, then proceed to give yourself permission to fully enjoy each other in the intimacy.

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Take an active role and show openly your partner that you love him/her. Enjoy sexuality together to the fullest, enjoy that great bliss that making love with love brings.

III

Is it important to have knowledge about human Sexuality?

Some people may think that there are some things that are better left in the dark, in mystery, in ignorance. It may be so for other issues, but when it comes to human sexuality this does not seem to be a good idea.

The World Health Organization affirms that ignorance about Human Sexuality is one of the most important causes of sexual problems.

Sexuality (capacity for sexual things) has such an intense force for the human being that it is believed that hiding this information, pretending that it does not exist, or ignoring it, may negatively affect the individual as well as the relationship.

Ignoring sexuality in the life of a person can cause anguish, unfounded fears, pain, distress, and many other negative feelings.

Embracing and exploring sexuality can