Are You a C*NT? - Life and Relationships: [C*NT: An Observation of a Mindset and Behaviors, Not a Judgement of Character]

By B. C. Finnie

Are You a C*NT? is about getting curious about what is behind the discord in our lives and relationships. Why do we experience repeated drama, stress, disconnection, and unhappiness in our lives? With some self-awareness, tools and skills we shift towards purpose, joy and happiness called our Inspired Flow. This requires unlearning old mindsets and behaviours that keep us stuck, while learning new perspectives and strategies that are in alignment with our authentic selves. More than ever we are all required to be more resilient. We need to make important decisions about our future and consider what our quality of life looks and feels like. This requires optimism and clarity. This book offers new perspectives that empower us to live our best lives regardless of who or what has been thrown our way.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Tellwell Talent
• Release date: Sep 27, 2021
• ISBN: 9780228861263

B. C. Finnie

As a successful strategist who "fixes" contentious situations and environments, my experience has been in transforming organizational negativity, narcissists, disgruntled leaders, government workers, community stakeholders, and unionized, unhappy employees. Throughout my career, life and relationships I began to see a consistent mindset and behaviours that would typically derail conversations and opportunities. I eventually described this negative outlook that would eventually appear as a person's C*ntitude, not to judge their character but to observe, without an emotional response, what mindset I was working with. I want to inspire people to shift their perspectives that will lead to a more inspired and joyful experience. This first book focuses on life and relationships, which are the foundations of who we are and how we see ourselves and the world. My next book will solely focus on the workplace, leaders, and employee experience.Using the word C*NT in some cultures, especially North America, may be controversial. Although it may be surprising to some, C*NT does not hold an insulting sting in many parts of the world. It is a creative expression used with a lighthearted intention rather than the intent of insulting women.Perhaps this work will inspire us to be open to a new perspective, and our collective mindset and thinking will shift towards Inspired Flow.

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