Love the Ultimate Emotion: Men, Women, Parents and Children

By Dave F. Shelnutt

Just to see outside oneself would be an epiphany to observe. Try putting into words how you explain your feelings is very difficult and risky. I chose to use my self reflection in order to encourage others to seize the moment before its to late for you and others. The highlights are some views of living, obeying, verifying, and everlasting ways to express your love to others

• Language: English
• Publisher: WestBow Press
• Release date: Apr 26, 2021
• ISBN: 9781664230200

Dave F. Shelnutt

As he has become on the downhill of a half century he has become humbled by what he missed out on by not being able to show love and receive love from others. Father, Son, Brother, and Friend he regrets having not shared this emotion while time provided. B.A. Degree in I/O Psychology everything became late in life and he desires to inspire others to not make this mistake. Live, Laugh, and most important to you and others LOVE while you can.

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Preface

This book was inspired from the loving encouragement of a close friend. The lessons described in this book are to inspire and encourage others to reflect on the love and passion they share or neglect daily. Over the layout of the book’s contents is a progressive flow of four segments with subsections that depict situations of a fresh perspective for your daily events in your life.

My intent is for all people who read the material gain some self-reflection and knowledge that all human beings have busy lives and lead past the most rewarding emotion possessed by all individuals. Men, Women, Parents and Children will enjoy the warm and loving feeling this author hopes to bring to the reader.

I dedicate the changes from my education and self- reflection to the loving memories of those I have lost. I could not have written this book without the love of the close friend and the friends and family members both passed and living. I hope that everyone who reads the book looks differently on the easy solutions to bringing a small ray of sunshine in your daily lives.

Daily Corruption

Daily routines are poison to the ultimate emotion. Love takes secondary position to the daily routine of people. Unless the people have just been introduced and are looking to be romantic together or a special day such as wedding anniversary or birthday the person will be thinking of the daily events.

The workforce is a need but not the comfort and re-enforcement that love can give. Ask yourself how often during your workday you think about the people you love or the animals. You will find your train of thought rest with the task at hand. Granted work has a place in a person’s life. The daily hustle allows a daily corruption or excuse to not display or acknowledge love to others.

The representative that is your persona in public does not act the same as you do in private. The image portrait of self becomes politically influenced and you show the politically correct person when you are among colleagues. The representative in all comes to the surface when you speak among other patrons.

Your bosses get to see what you want them to see which is usually what your interpretation of the person they expect you to be while conducting business. I am not saying to change your work life persona but compassion for the job should only involve a certain amount of your energy. The small glimpse to a meeting with someone you care deeply for or a spouse, child or loved one can break the political agenda and bring an inner peace to your mindset.

The good part about the brain is it cannot be tampered with unless you allow it to be. Your mind is more powerful than a computer. Even the best geek squad tech is no match. Daydreaming is a good thing as long as you process it quick and return to reality as though you were in thought about the daily events you should be concentrating on.

During the day imagine how many times you think about a loved one or significant other. Some people are so into their work they skip the chance of a quick message on the phone to say I Love You. The words do not mean as much as the show of affection but the feeling both parties receive from the message is consuming.

If you are in love with someone then show them mentally and physically. The human mind is receptive to both stimuli. Most healthy adults will respond in the same fashion or manner and even if it is just words on a paper or text in a message it will have a great impact and can make that time together at a later time frame more intense.

Time is not on our side. Rod Stewart has a song (Young Turks, 1981) that expresses that we do. I have found this is not true at least in my case. Both parents gone eldest sibling as well. I have only two siblings remaining a brother and sister. I find it hard to say the words