Get Your Ex Back for Men: The Ultimate Guide on How to Start Dating Your Ex-Girlfriend Again and Get Her Back, Including Relationship Advice to Keep the Love Alive

By Kory Heaton

If you've always wanted to get back with your ex and start a happy and beautiful relationship again but don't know how, then keep reading…

Are you sick and tired of trying everything you can think of to get your ex back, but nothing seems to be working?

Do you finally want to say goodbye to the pain and sadness caused by your breakup and discover how to reunite?

If so, then you've come to the right place.

You see, getting back together with an ex doesn't have to be difficult. Even if a person has tried various methods and tips and failed. In fact, it could be easier than you think.

According to research published in the Journal of Adolescent Research, 44% of young adults reported having gotten back together again with an Ex after a breakup. Another study in 2009 by the Department of Communication Studies at the University of Texas, showed that approximately 65% of U.S. college students had broken up and gotten back together again with an ex. These and many other statistics show that when it comes to getting back with an ex-girlfriend and saving your relationship, you have a fairly good chance. Even better, with this book, you can discover the simple steps that can help you reconcile with your ex.

In this three-part book, we carefully dissect the anatomy of breakups, why they happen and how to cope better with a bad breakup. This book also details time-tested strategies and a step-by-step approach to try to win back your ex. You will discover, not just how to win back an ex, but how to keep her for good. 

Here's just a tiny fraction of what you'll discover in this book:
- Remarkable tips to get over the pain associated with breakups.
- Amazing methods and strategies that will help you get your ex back.
- Step by step guide on how to re-establish contact with your ex.
- Secret tips that will allow you to rekindle the flame of passion.
- 19 things you can do daily to keep your love alive
- 23 stunning relationship goals.
- Powerful methods that will help you rebuild your self-confidence.
- and much, much more!

Take a second to imagine how it would feel to have the love of your life back. Even better, the goal is not just to get her back, but to rekindle the flame of your love all over again and develop a much deeper emotional bond than you ever had. Amazing right? This book is just what you need to attract your ex and make her fall in love with you again.

So even if you're a person whose breakup is the stuff of legends, you can increase your chances of getting her back with this book.

No matter how bleak the situation looks now or maybe both of you are still very angry with each other and you are not on talking terms at all. Even if she seems to have moved on after the breakup. There's a very good chance that at some point in the future, you will talk and re-connect and there's still a possibility of getting back together. The lessons you have learned from this book could determine the success of your attempt to win her back.

If you have a burning desire to rekindle your relationship and mend your broken heart, then scroll up and click "add to cart."

• Language: English
• Publisher: Kory Heaton
• Release date: Mar 9, 2021
• ISBN: 9781393384564

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Introduction

Love is one of the sweetest gifts of life. Who does not like to love and to be loved? It is a wonderful feeling, a genuine and sensual emotional experience that is impossible to express in words. It is a dream that you never want to end. But unfortunately, many times, this dream does end, and sometimes, it may even become a horrifying, never-ending nightmare. This nightmare is known as a breakup.

Love endures, but breakups are extremely common. These breakups are harsh for everyone involved in them. They are particularly harsh for a couple who have been together for a while. Breakups can cause extreme pain and discomfort. The pain is not only mental, but it can even affect you physically. This pain sometimes becomes unbearable.

The pain of a breakup becomes even more unbearable when you were really in love with your girlfriend/wife. You realize that she was the one, and you let her go. This feeling kills you on the inside, and you want nothing more than getting her back in your life once again. But you don't know how and where to start. Is getting back with your ex after a breakup really possible?

The answer to the above question is yes. There are many ways to get back your ex. In fact, if you Google how to get your ex back, you will be bombarded with thousands of search results and web pages claiming that they can help you to get your ex back. You may excitedly try these methods only to realize they do not work at all! But don't worry; there is something that really can work. This book is one of the best resources to help you get back your ex in no time.

One of the important things that make this book different from any other similar resource is that it contains tried and tested methods. These methods have been tried many times, and they have succeeded almost every time. What makes it even better is that this book understands that no two breakups are alike. There is a significant difference between each break up because of the nuances of the relationship, the situations, the partners, their personalities, etc.; everything is unique. This is why many times, generic and stereotypical tips and methods of getting your ex back do not work. Such methods assume that all relationship problems can be solved using a basic framework. This is obviously false.

In addition, this book features methods and tips that have been tested multiple times in different scenarios and with different couples. While it is not foolproof, it is certainly better than any other method as it tries to incorporate many different factors. It considers people's personalities, their relationships, the circumstances, etc. This surely makes this book one of the best guidebooks for men who are trying to get their ex back into their life.

The book is deliberately written in a simple and lucid manner to avoid unnecessary confusion. It is easy to understand and highly interesting. It features trustworthy information and highly up to date data. If you have ever tried getting back together with your ex, then this book is a must for you.

Women are difficult to understand, especially for typical men. This book will help you become a mature person by providing you various tips that can surely help you to get back with your ex.

Do remember that your ex will not get back with you unless you develop yourself. This book contains various sections and elaborate methodologies that will help you with your cause. All these steps and sections are full of various examples that make this book easy to understand.

So, stop waiting and wallowing in pain! Read this book and get your ex back today!

PART 1 — Breakups: Reasons, Reactions, and Survivals

Chapter One: Why Women Leave Men

Breakups are painful, heartbreaking, and gut-wrenching. They are especially painful if you do not understand why they happened. Relationships are fragile, as they are based on many notions, ideas, and thoughts. Everyone desires a healthy and rewarding relationship. The success of a relationship solely depends on whether it is mutually rewarding for both the involved parties. For this, both the parties need to put in continuous efforts. Otherwise, the relationship may falter. Love is the base of any relationship, but it is not the force that can keep it alive. It is a seed that requires many things to become a large tree called a relationship. Shakespeare perfectly summarized love in his play, A Midsummer Night's Dream, when he wrote: The course of true love never did run smooth.

Love is unpredictable. It is often full of misjudgments, miscalculations, and misunderstandings. Many times, partners have left their significant others for some reason even though they were in love with them. They say that falling in love is difficult, but it is far easier than to stop loving. If it is so difficult, then why do people leave? Like love, the answer to this question is quite complicated. It is a mysterious phenomenon that needs a lot of deliberation to understand. But don't worry, this section will help you see the light and understand why your beloved left you. Here is a list of some of the most common reasons why women leave men. It should be understood that this is not an exhaustive list and sometimes the reasons may vary, but more often than not they will be related to one of the following:

Lack of Act

While it is true that people tend to grow up physically, many people do not grow up emotionally and mentally. Growing up is not only concerned with physical growth. Just because your body has gotten bigger does not mean that your mental capacities have evolved.

To grow up means changing your perspective and understanding the world around you. You need to learn how to act in situations and how to handle people.

Many women find childish behavior cute but being childish constantly will only lead to problems. If you refuse to grow up, your significant other will never love you forever and will soon leave you and move on.

Clingy and Needy

Being slightly possessive in a relationship is a positive trait, but if your possessiveness translates into being needy and clingy, then it will lead to a lot of problems. It will make you seem childish and immature. Your girlfriend wants to date an adult and not a baby. Attachment is necessary for any relationship to work, but if you act too needy, she will be turned off forever. If you do not know what clingy is, just check whether you do these while in a relationship:

1. Send texts all the time.

2. Call multiple times in a couple of hours without any crucial or valid reason.

3. Act excessively pathetic and weak.

4. Do not understand when to see your beloved.

5. Keep tabs on her all the time.

6. Encroaching on her personal space or not giving her space at all.

7. Begging and nagging.

All these factors make you unattractive and icky.

Co-Dependency

Co-dependency and excessive dependency are a weakness. It will make you feel unwanted, unloved, and you will seem to have a 'void' in your heart.

You need to learn how to be happy and independent while being single as well as while in a relationship. You should be stress-free and should understand how to keep your mind clear. Stay optimistic and positive and try to stay mentally stronger. Avoid becoming an emotional mess. You should be complete in yourself.

Never enter a relationship just because you need to get into one. Do not be desperate and weak. Avoid being too insecure or needy.

Relationships are not supposed to fill a void in your life.

Extreme Niceness

Being too nice can lead to a lot of problems. It can not only destroy attraction, but it can also lead to weakness and loss of strength. Having a balance between a cool, laid-back attitude and niceness is the way to go.

No one likes people who are too nice, especially your girlfriend. Any person wants to be treated in a normal way. No one likes being put on a pedestal. Being too nice can be nauseating. Being too nice is often considered to be lethargic and boring. It will never make your girlfriend feel the raw excitement that is associated with a cool and laid-back attitude. Being too nice will make her feel too much.

Pedestal

This is a continuation of the last problem. Modern girls want to be treated equally. They do not like being put on a pedestal. They want to be treated like normal people. Such women do not seek your approval, or they do not appreciate being superior to all other things in your life. They do not want to emasculate you.

When you

Reviews for Get Your Ex Back for Men

[John Kenneth Vertido · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

This book advice for getting back together or moving on for good. Helpful for both men and women regardless of why you broke up or who was at fault. It was likely a true to life story, because I can feel the same way.

[Tolits Mendoza · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I highly recommend this book. I was touched by the email response Kory provided. I was in tears by the detailed explanation he wrote. I just regret not getting the book sooner. I have sent the letter and I am applying the social media suggestions Kory recommends.

[Lancy Lass · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

You know, getting your ex back can be challenging, especially if you screwed up big time. This guide is empowering and demonstrates what is feasible. Maybe not always, but in most situations, if you do it correctly, you will get another opportunity. This is the most comprehensive approach to reconciling with your ex.

[Daisy Regala-Ando · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

This book is interesting and eye catching. Rejection and heartbreak is hard for someone who experience this and be able to stand and face it then your strong enough and if you decided to came back to it even it hurts you already then this book is for you. This book can help you in every step of the way for your happy ending this time. Highly recommended!

[Antoniette Luarez · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

What I like this book is the step-by-step method to getting your ex back. I think the most applicable here is when you try to clear your mind and follow the steps given. You have to work on yourself, too. Relationships can be exhausting but you have to keep the flame burning. Get helpful tips from this book, too.

[Cathy Malubay · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Many men experience being rejected when trying to win back their ex’s. I find this book interesting for it will give the reader some useful tips on how to build confidence and set goals. For me, it does not only apply for men but also to women and to other gender. Love is not limited to our nature but how we feel. Either you’re a male or female, this book will help you realize that keeping someone you love requires commitment and loyalty. It is difficult when facing this situation so this book is a big help for people who are losing hope or experiencing extreme sadness. Cheer up! This book is for you.

[Scotty Voltaire · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I would highly recommend this book!!! It is easy and informative. You can’t beat free either it’s a win win! I have to say this is one of the best books I have ever read. The step by step guide book or as you can say formula to get an ex back.

[Revi James · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

This book provides insight into what is going on in a woman's head, and is crucial in attempting to regain her. Much of what is said makes sense, and it has some very useful advice. This book may be of assistance to you if you are trying to win her back or are on the brink of a breakup.

[Julius Brigades · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

The no contact rule is a very powerful tool and definitely works if there is a slight interest/attraction remaining. Very useful info! I don't know how it's gonna turn out but I agree with the advice! I would recommend

[Jane Del Rosario · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

This book catch my attention because lately I've been thinking of if my ex boyfriend had another girl or did he atill miss me. By reading this book this gives me hope what if he will find a way to get me back. I also had an idea if i could send this link to him hahaha so that he will know some steps and advise how to wine back. Kidding aside, this book is a helpful one so that men can boost theor confidence in case they are breaking by their girlfriend. Kuddos to the author.

[Hestia Selin · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

The book got me interested by just reading the title itself and I think it got me hooked up. As the book say it’s for men to get their ex-girlfriend back, but it also gave me tips as a girl if situations like these come and my ex would want to get together again; I'll be mentally and emotionally ready. It's for men not for girls, but it can also serve as a way for girls to control over and have an advantage, a few steps ahead of the boys. I also recommend this book for girls not just for boys because it will help them tremendously.

[Karl Angelo Gil · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

This is a good book and kept me so occupied that it motivated me not to call or text her. It have great advice! I've just finished reading the book and haven't started the steps yet and already SHE CALLED ME.... Well I guess when u think about it I did start a step. The "no contact" rule... I think this is going to be fun and I'm praying it works! LoL *fingers crossed*

[Ella Perdigones Carilla · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Maybe some people would think that men doesn't need tips on how to get their ex back again because they already have their own tactics to easily win back a woman. But no, your usual tactics may not be effective the next time you use it, so you need to step up on your game. So maybe this book I just read is what you are looking for. This actually contains the most basic and effective techniques you can learn to use with your plan on taking your woman back. But also make sure that when you finally get your woman with you again, you will treat her better this time. That you won't lose this chance ever again. Make this book as your essential guide for good and reason not a bad one. If you are having a problem with your ex? Grab this book now.

[Niebby Barez · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

To me, this is a kind self-help book that will help any men to not only understand women but also themselves. It also supports its reader by allowing them to reflect about breakups and how to cope with it. And as much as the book gives tips about how to get an ex back, it also tell you the importance of self love and building confidence while staying respectful. I've read a few with this type of topics but it's mostly about women. So it's interesting to find a book like this.

But if in any case, you want to know how to keep a relationship, this book has an in-depth insight about it too. I highly recommend this one.

[Romelyn Castro · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Although the title of the book is getting your ex back for men, it does not just focus to that topic. I love how it gave a list of the probable or related cause as to why women leave their partner. Through knowing such, it'll make them reflect and improve those traits for the betterment of themselves. Thus, the fact that the author included such assessment on why you would want your ex back, and it is unbiased since it took consideration of both good and the bad. Good work, Author!

[Elizabeth Lasibal · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Frst of all, the material tells the truth about the problems men could possibly have by having relationship unprepared. The shallowness of love a guy could have, untruthful and nonsense immaturity. Being too much or too less of a person, and everything else. I love how the author list down the inferiorities and the positive mindset that must a person or a guy have when going through break up. And a lot of informative things are in here, understandable and relatable for all gender. A great book.

[Troiii · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

This book provides questions about break-up and discusses about the reasons of break-up. It will guide you on how to reflect about the actions you took that could've been the cause for the relationship to end. A set of options on how you can heal or develop a much better mindset is also waiting for you inside the book. But what I like most about this book is that it is not solely about break-ups and getting your ex back, it is also about knowing oneself deeper and learning how to be a better person. It is also about developing the best version of yourself so that you will be deserving of the second chance.

[Tony Simon · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

This book might help me gain back the love of my life. Great read and looking forward on a favorable result for me.

[Mark Roel Esponilla · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

Even though I've never been in a relationship or dated, but I found the guidebook interesting. I'm so curious to know if it's really possible to get your ex back. And after reading this, my perspective on break up has been changed.

I like the fact that it features methods that are tried and tested which makes it reliable. It also elaborate different factors so you can understand thoroughly.

[Ian E. Daguplo · Rating: 3 out of 5 stars]

Honestly, I couldn’t relate with this topic since I did’nt experience any romantic relationship. I have no girlfriend since birth. But one thing pick my interest was the eagerness and persistent to get your ex back. I love how the book shape the art of getting relationship into new love in interesting ways. I commend the writer bringing helpful tips and ideas that could possibly made.

[Theodore Hurts · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

We all have "the one that got away" a girl that always cling back from your past, this book might be the one that will help you. I myself have a girl from my past that I want her back. will try this book. Thank you for this.

[Wonderweiss Roslo · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

I have an relationship which is in a verge of breakup and we fight a lot on small things, so much information that is applicable in my current relationship state, hope this help cause I really love this girl. Thank you author on giving me a chance to fix this relationship.

[Castañeda Del Rey · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I love how this books explains the different reasons why women commonly left their other half. One of those reason is being clingy or needy, a man who doesn't know personal space is a big no for most of the woman out there. This book also contains various effects of breakup in an individual, breakup is a hard thing to do especially if you really love your other half. Breaking up means losing one important thing you have and it brings pain to anyone who does that. It also tells us that we need to build our confidence since breakups are difficult to handle. This confidence will help you later in getting back your girl. All in all this book is great and I would highlyrecommend it to men out there who's trying to win back the love of their life.

[Maria Clarissa Navarro · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

As I read this book. I thought about the guy I went back to in the past, how can I get my ex back. Also because of this book I had time to think and understand every tips stated in this book. I can say how much the book can help especially for people who want to try to have a relationship again or fall in love again. You will get tips and not just tips but lessons from what you read in this book.

Giving a chance to someone or having a relationship with someone is like having a open door for someone who is always in your side...

[Marlon Devera Gumboc · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

This book is really amazing! Worth to commend the artistic and timely effort of the author to create a book under this issue.
You can easily relate to this since I know each and everyone of us experience to love and to be loved. This book will teach you on how to be an ideal man or woman for your special someone for you to win his/her heart. In my case, I've learn the most important things; setting goals and having a positive mindset. By following these things, I know that I am now in a stable and long-term relationship.
A big thanks to this book and to its author, you kinda changed my love life as of the moment hehe.

[Eduard Salvador · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

"Love is one of the sweetest gifts of life. Who does not like to love and to be loved? It is a wonderful feeling, a genuine and sensual emotional experience that is impossible to express in words. It is a dream that you never want to end. But unfortunately, many times, this dream does end, and sometimes, it may even become a horrifying, never-ending nightmare. This nightmare is known as a breakup."

I love this introduction. It is very straight forward. If you're that person that haven't move on from your ex and you still want her back then you should read this. It has many do's and don'ts that you should follow if you really want to get her back. I would like to thank the writer for sharing his thoughts about how to get your ex back.

[Camille Manalese Gonzal · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

As I have read this material I must say that it has a diverse topic about relationships, also step by step guide on the said topic. It is detailed and informative for men also women that needs advice to cope up about having their past relationship back. It is excellent over all and an interesting book to read.

[Jefferson Baniqued De Guzman · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I love this book so I give 5 star. It was kind of fun to make a love-resume, to learn about what are mistakes that you have done before that we could improve. Once you read the book, you will understand a lot about fixing and keeping a good relationship. I really liked this book.