Forget Whatshername: The Truth About How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back

By Jason Spears

Forget Whatshername: The Truth About How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back is a must have ebook for any guy who has recently been dumped.

You'll learn exactly what you should and should not do if you want to have any chance of salvaging a relationship with your ex-girlfriend. This is a no holds barred approach to help you get your life on track after going through the numbing experience of breaking up, especially when you did not want this to happen.

Discover the COUNTER-INTUITIVE strategies that actually work, these aren't tricks or gimmicks.

You'll get actionable tips and strategies you can apply immediately to help you sleep at night and make it through the day without constantly thinking about your x girlfriend.

At the end of the day your life will not be the same after getting a glimpse of what's inside Forget Whatshername. You will be transformed to a better man who is positioned to never have to endure another heart-wrenching breakup again.

Why?

Learn what females actually want in a Real Man.

Turn everything around to have fulfilling long-lasting relationships with women. When love is on the line and the one you hold dear is about to walk out of your world, you must have Forget Whatshername.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Jason Spears
• Release date: Feb 14, 2013
• ISBN: 9781301727780

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FORGET WHATSHERNAME:

The Truth About How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back

By Jason Spears

SMASHWORDS EDITION

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Table of Contents

INTRODUCTION

CHAPTER 1: HOW TO GET YOUR EX-GIRLFRIEND BACK

The Gurus and So Called Experts

What Will Make Her Come Back

16 Questions to Ask To Determine If You Should Try to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back

Changing Who You Are

9 Reasons Your Should NOT Try to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back

Breakups and Statistics

7 Healthy Reasons For Getting Back With Your Ex-Girlfriend

CHAPTER 2: HOW TO HANDLE THE ACTUAL BREAKUP

The Breakup Script

CHAPTER 3: WHY HER REASONG FOR BREAKING UP DOESN’T MATTER

It’s More Than One or Two Reasons

It’s Her INTEREST Level That Matters

Don’t Ask and You’ll Be Better Off

CHAPTER 4: THE NO CONTACT RULE

You Can’t Be Friends Yet

Time to Clean House

Common Property and Each Other’s Stuff

Family and Friends

Ways to Maintain No Contact

Why No Contact

CHAPTER 5: AVOID WOMANLY ADVICE

CHAPTER 6: BREAKUP STAGES OF GRIEF

Shock and Denial

Anger

Bargaining

Depression

Was She Really the Best?

Spend Less Time Together

Love Abounds Everywhere

Suicide

Acceptance

CHAPTER 7: YOU’RE LOVE ADDICTED

Give Up Hope

Write Her Out of Your Life

How Often Will Your Write

Your Ex-Girlfriend is Everywhere

Avoiding Familiar Places

CHAPTER 8: STOP OBESSING OVER WHATSHERNAME

Dog and Vomit Analogy

Rubber Band Technique

Incorporate New Activities Into Your Life

Plan a Trip

Schedule Obsession Sessions

Stop Obsessing Over Your Obsession

You Control Your Thoughts

CHAPTER 9: WORKOUT AND GET BACK IN SHAPE

You Won’t Forget Your Ex-Girlfriend

6 Benefits of Exercise

CHAPTER 10: WATCH MOVIES TO BECOME A MAN AGAIN

Movies Are NOT Reality

CHAPTER 11: SIGNS YOU’RE NOT OVER YOUR EX-GIRLFRIEND

CHAPTER 12: WHATSHERNAME DECIDES TO CONTACT YOU

Are You Over Whatshername

Responding to Ex-Girlfriend

No Clouded Judgments

A Woman’s Worst Fear

CHAPTER 13: 6 ABSOLUTE MUSTS POST BREAKUP

INTRODUCTION

This book is for guys who are struggling with the fact they are newly single because their relationship has ended for whatever reason.

If you are hurting, in pain and need help with getting over your ex-girlfriend then you’ve come to the right place. My goal is to tell it to you straight…no sugar coating here. Sometimes you are not going to like what I have to say, but it’s what you need to hear.

Why?

Because I don’t want you to fall into depression or waste valuable time thinking you have a chance with whatshername. Yes I will refer to the love of your life as whatshername because for now on she is no longer on a pedestal and you don’t need to get emotional when you hear her name.

Life is too short to put all your hopes, happiness and wants in one person. Besides, there are over 3 billion women in the world so your ex-girlfriend is just one out of many when you look at the cold hard facts.

I know you’re hurting and you want help to ease the pain. Help is on the way.

I’m going to outline exactly what you should and shouldn’t do if you want to lead your best life going forward.

I like to remind guys that, You had a life before your girlfriend and you’ll certainly have a life after your girlfriend. Right now you are dealing with a lot of emotions that are clouding your rational thought processes but have no fear I will help you get your emotions in check.

What approach will I be taking?

Understanding your current state of mind I will not dive into highly technical or advanced arguments to make my point. Instead, I will be direct even to the point of providing advice you may consider basic or counterintuitive. But sometimes, the simplest advice is the most beneficial.

What you’re going to get is concise logical and factual information and advice. More importantly there are a lot of tactical steps you can implement immediately to help you on your journey to recovery.

If you truly study and follow what’s contained in this book you’ll under go an amazing transformation and realize how to live life whether whatshername is present or gone. You’ll come out a stronger human being who can handle any setback that life attempts to throw your way.

If you’re ready to reclaim your life and be a MAN then let’s get started.

No more crying, no more loss of confidence, no more clinging to the past…now’s the time to move forward to a better future with the best lady possible for you (and no it does not involve your ex-girlfriend).

Chapter 1: HOW TO GET YOUR EX-GIRLFRIEND BACK

There is nothing you can say or do to get an ex-girlfriend back. Let me correct myself, there is one counterintuitive tactic that may bring her back but ultimately it will be for her to decide. Stick with me and I will reveal to you what you should do to give yourself the highest chances of success in bringing whatshername back to you.

If anyone tells you they have a secret formula or system for getting your ex-girlfriend back they are not being completely honest with you. I understand you want what you desperately cannot have but as my high school sociology teacher stated, Life’s not fair.

The first thing I want you to do is get it out of your mind that you can get your ex-girlfriend back.

You have to accept the reality whatshername left and you are no longer a couple.

Do you know what plotting and scheming to get your ex-girlfriend does?

It only gives you a false sense of hope that you have a chance of getting back together. Also, it makes it a lot harder to move on with your life. Why spend all your time trying to convince someone to be with you when they have already said they don’t want to be with you in the first place.

Remember, you’re broken up for a reason.

Keep this at the forefront of your mind…you broke up because there was something so wrong in your relationship that forced whatshername to say she no longer wants to be with you.

Now’s the time for you to start crying, throw a fit and go into a rage because your relationship is over and there’s nothing you can do about it.

Just be sure that you’re not around whatshername when you have your emotional release. Shortly you’ll learn that you shouldn’t even be in touch with your ex-girlfriend once it has been decided to end the relationship.

Do you both want the same things?

All too often you’re approaching the relationship from your own perspective and not taking her into account. For example whatshername may be the love of your life, perfect in everyway possible, the one you want to marry and grow old with.

But what if she doesn’t have the same feelings about you?

She may see a man who she once thought was her knight in shining armor, her future husband and

Reviews for Forget Whatshername

[Satyam Mishra · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

It's a good read for for guys! Even though some words might sting, but they give a reality check. Must read if you're going through hard times.

[Stanley Wu · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

Absolutely helpful for readers to get over their ex and to focus on yourself to become an alpha male. Getting back or moving on is a matter of yourselves.