Skyrocket Your Charisma: Increase Self-Esteem, Improve Emotional Intelligence, Develop Leadership Skills & Attract Success

By Dr. Michael Ericsson

Skyrocket Your Charisma: Increase Self-Esteem, Improve Emotional Intelligence, Develop Leadership Skills & Attract Success

If you want to Develop Self-Confidence, Ged Rid of Fear & Shyness, Achieve Personal Goals & Live Your Dreams, then this is your book!

This book contains great tips and techniques on how to be happy and on how you can harness inner peace.

By the time you are done reading this book, you will have information you need to boost your self-confidence so you gain more friends and enjoy life again. This book will teach you how to re-channel your energy so you begin to empower yourself and be the person you want to be.

What You'll Learn in Skyrocket Your Charisma: Increase Self-Esteem, Improve Emotional Intelligence, Develop Leadership Skills & Attract Success...

How to Become a Minimalist and Declutter Your Life
How to Beat Procrastination Forever
How to Achieve Your Goals
How to Build Your Self-Confidence
How to Practice Mindfulness
How to Improve Your Self-Control
How to Become a Great Leader That Everyone Will Follow
How to Uncover Your Passion

What You'll Also Discover Inside...

Expect more from yourself than others. The good news - everybody believes in what you show. Nobody can read your thoughts to know your doubts. The bad news - you can interpret every people's speech in a wrong way. Any weird reaction and you start worrying without any reason. Psychologists recommend listening to your "inner voice". Make a small experiment: write down every thought while you are lacking of self-confidence. Every time you start worrying, do a two-minute break. Take the list and remind yourself how great you are. Show to your brain the material proof of your self-confidence.

Communicate with positive and confident people more. Positive people are not trying to pressure you. Choose or modify your social circle, as it directly affects your self-confidence. There is a right phrase - "Lives with the cripple, learns how to limp".

Take care of your health. If you feel good, you can achieve a lot. Regular exercises develop physical strength, perseverance and boost stress resistance. Choose a healthy diet and sleep a lot. Breaks for rest and meditation, your personal time should be as usual in your daily routine as, for example, brushing your teeth. Enjoy the fact that you look good, and try to take everything from life. Others will look at you with interest and respect.

This book will help you learn where to start in trying to pursue your passion.  

I would like to encourage you to begin the journey by looking at yourself and accepting what you see. There can never be another you so be all you can be for the time being.   

The next step is to apply the necessary information from this book in your daily living. You can also share it to your family or work colleagues who are in need of help on how to raise emotional intelligence and improve self-confidence.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Dr. Michael Ericsson
• Release date: Aug 25, 2018
• ISBN: 9781386635352

Book preview

Chapter 1 –  How to Start Your Day Right with Morning Routine

What do you do the moment you wake up? Do you start your day by checking messages on your tablet? Or by checking your news feeds from different social media sites on your laptop? Or by doing nothing because you don’t really have any time for any morning rituals because you’re late for work or school? Or you simply woke up late and have nothing to do but sleep again?

Sounds familiar, right? You may be a night owl but being a morning person is not so bad. According to researchers, whatever you do first thing in the morning actually affects the entire day ahead. You may be wondering how.

Let’s put it this way: you’re a writer and you’re starting a new book but you find it hard to start writing because you can’t seem to make up your mind or better yet you have no springboard. In another context, you’re a businessman and you’re starting out on a new venture but then you’re having a difficult time since you don’t have enough resources.

Just like a good book having an amazing springboard or a fortunate business having enough resources, you too must have an awesome springboard and enough resources so that your day would end up being an awesome one! Here are some of the springboards you ought to have:

Say a Prayer

Prayer is the best way for starting your day right. When you start and end your day with a prayer, you will have a peaceful heart and a peaceful soul. Your prayer does not have to be lengthy and full of sugar coated phrases. Just pray to be thankful for another chance in life and to pray for strength to hold on through all the challenges you are currently facing and for all the challenges that are to come. Pray with a genuine heart and surely you will be heard!

Exercise

Once you’re finished improving your spirit, why not exercise your body? Exercising is one way of keeping your body healthy and in shape. Health experts believe that there are many benefits you can gain when you exercise. Here are some: You get energized and surely you’ll shake off that lazy feeling. You will have an improved joint performance and reduced threat of arthritis. You would surely decrease the risk of high blood pressure, heart disease and other risky things that pop up. Those are just some of the benefits you would get when you work that body. So, start working that body and show the world what you have benefitted from exercising.

Don’t forget to Eat

Experts say that breakfast is the most important meal of the day, so don’t ignore breakfast. It is important because it helps give you the energy you need to start your day and because it is linked to many health benefits. Also, eating breakfast helps you feel less tired and helps keep you focused on the tasks you need to accomplish within the day. You may be conscious about your body which is why you may be focused on dieting, but you still should eat breakfast each morning.

Show that Smile 

While you say your prayers and be intimate with the Creator, why not try to smile? Aside from being grateful for another day, smiling to a new day actually helps you start your day with a good mood. It helps you feel good and ultimately makes you happy. It reduces all that stress in you and replaces it with a secured morning. So smile but don’t just smile; show the world your best smile!

Go Crazy

One of the best ways to have that extra special cup of happiness is listening to your favorite song. Music helps relax your mind and helps you feel good about your day. It motivates you to be magnificent and to be who you want to be. So turn the volume up, sing your heart out and shake that body to the beat of the music!

Simply You

Simple joys in life are worth more than the happiness you get from having fame and money. You may be rich and famous but somehow there would come a time that you won’t be happy anymore and all that fame and money would somehow cease to exist. Don’t miss out on all the things that make you happy. What matters most is how happy your heart is and how your happiness infects others.

Meditate

Meditation is a way for you to increase peace and to lengthen your patience. It is a way of being one with the world and to feel the stillness of it all. It is a way for you to pause even just for a couple of minutes. And by meditating, you get to harness your inner legend and be that inner legend within yourself.

These are just some of the simple things you should do as you start your day. They may be tough to do but you might be surprised. They are just simple things you need to do so that you would be able to survive the day and to make your day as awesome as ever.

Chapter 2 - How to Uncover Your Passion

What differentiates passion from talent? Or are they congruent to one another? Passion is an inspiration - a dynamism that drives you to do something while talent is inherent in a person. Passion needs rationalization and verification while talent only needs manifestation. Talent exists without us comprehending the why and what of its presence. Passion is what fuels or motivates skills. Passion is what gets you through in this world when talent is not enough. Doing something that is already second nature to you and loving every minute of it would likely motivate you to have success than completing something difficult and uninspiring.

So what are the ways to finding your passion in life?

Meditate. Passion is a big force. It is unseen when it's not propelling something forward, such as talent. Thus, passion can be more difficult to see than talent. You might have several innate talents such as writing, singing and carving. One of these skills could be your passion in life.  It isn't easy to decipher our multitude of wishes and pursuits into passion or just momentary obsession. You have to think from your internal core. To be able to access your internal core, you need to meditate. Find a place where you can be still and be at calmness with your environment. Dive down to your inner core to draw on your deepest and truest aspirations in life. Consider these questions:

a. What's my goal in life?

b. What takes up the majority of my time?

c. What do I love doing?

d. If I will get the chance to do one thing for the rest of my life, what would it be?

e. What would I do even if I don't get any payment or received anything for it in return?

f. What is it that I do that animates me?

g. What makes me forget everything else except for what I am doing?

When you can answer these questions in all honesty then you would discover important clues that will help you define your passion in life. You will need to really concentrate on your inner self, before you try to answer these questions. If you're in touch with this self, you would be able to perceive the case more clearly and answer these questions without bias.

Make a list of what you want to do. Before you start your list, you should consider things that you've imagined doing but never got around to. You may not have done such things because of some factors such as - you didn't have courage to do it; you do not have the money for it; your family was against it; you were too worried to fail hence you never even tried it or it was way beyond your comfort zone. To make this specific list though, you will need to include all those things you have dreamed of doing without concern of the factors which have hampered you from doing it in the past. Go over your list in case you might have missed out on something that had interests you before. Include all you have dreamed of doing even though you think it's highly impractical, high-risk or vivid. Maybe it isn't really your passion but who knows? While doing it, you might suddenly find your true passion in life, that something which ignites a raging flame in you.

Try to experience at least five of those included in your list. At the soonest possible time, you should try to do at least ten of those that you've included in your list. Personally experiencing it will give you a hint of what really interests you, what lights you up more than anything else. Passion is what makes a usually silent person talk animatedly in regards to a particular subject; about his passion in life. You can't ever know very well what drives or excites you most if you have not done a great deal of interesting things in your life. Have a firsthand experience of the probable things that would make your adrenalin going. Have a shot and who knows? You may realize just what it is that you would want to do for the rest of your life.

Experiment with a new sport or take up a new hobby. You may not realize it yet because you have not attempted doing it or taking it up, but your passion could be skiing or scuba diving. There are several sports which you can try on your own such as mountain biking, dancing, archery or running. You can