Today I am joined by Larry Hagner, the founder and CEO of the Dad's Edge. Larry shares valuable insights on personal development and the importance of investing in oneself for growth. He emphasizes the impact of being a better father and breaking free from societal expectations. The episode also explores the significance of being proactive in relationships, understanding love languages, and having a shared vision as a couple. Additionally, Larry highlights practical ways to improve connections with children and stresses the importance of being present and self-aware as a parent. Ultimately, the episode reminds us of the power of continuous self-improvement in shaping our own lives and future generations.   Key Points • Investing in yourself for growth has long-lasting benefits for future generations. • Society places unrealistic expectations on men as fathers and husbands, leaving them ill-prepared. • Taking action and seeking personal development opportunities is crucial for growth. • Waiting until the last minute can result in frantic and desperate attempts to salvage a situation. • Proactivity allows for a calm and strategic approach to life. • Understand your spouse's love language and learn to love them in the way they receive love. • Giving up certain habits or behaviors, like alcohol, can lead to self-discovery and improved relationships with children.   Best Quotes 16:38 - 16:44 • "It is crazy how we don't do that when it comes to parenting or relationships." 23:13 - 23:22 • "We have to learn how to specifically and strategically love that other person, not just in the way we need to feel loved." 28:07 - 28:12 • "One of the top five fights that married couples have is parenting." 40:04 - 40:13 • "You can always find the diamond in the coal no matter how bad the day was, what was something that was good that happened because you can train the brain to go into gratitude." 48:57 - 49:00 • "Anybody can be a father, but it takes a special man to be a dad." 59:42 - N/A • "Today is a new day and it can start now. So you knowing it isn't enough, it's time to do it. Make movement, action apply."