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207. Sit With Whit: Living Through Honesty with Dr. Whitney Goodman #FabulousFriends
207. Sit With Whit: Living Through Honesty with Dr. Whitney Goodman #FabulousFriends
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Length:
44 minutes
Released:
Oct 14, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode
Description
You open Instagram and it hits you right away, a sense of perfection or idealism that seems just a little too shiny, a little too great to be real. And guess what? Most of the time, it isn’t. Today's guest, Dr. Whitney Goodman, assures us of that much and more. She's the radically honest psychotherapist behind the popular Instagram account, @sitwithwhit, the book Toxic Positivity: Keeping It Real in a World Obsessed with Being Happy, and the owner of the Collaborative Counseling Center, a private therapy practice in Miami. She helps individuals and couples heal past wounds and create the life they've always wanted.
We spend this episode unpacking the false perception of perfection all around us, the world’s constant striving for “happiness,” and why finding center in your life is so much more complicated than that – and should be! Whether it’s content-friendly or not – feeling all the feelings, really embracing them and chershing them, can be as healthy for us as a diverse and nutrient-rich diet.
Dr. Goodman offers up a more diverse experience, more layers to really dive into and learn about ourselves and the people we love. We get tips on listening (it’s more than just hearing!), recognizing toxic positivity and understanding why it sells, the importance of values over happiness, and prioritizing focus time – even thirty minutes a day – to help keep your mind sharp.
It’s time to get honest about – well, everything! There’s no time to waste striving and stressing over goals that only move further into the distance the harder we work at them. Life is perfect as it is, we’re so glad Dr. Goodman took the time to share this message with us today.
You will learn about...
Pitfalls of toxic positivity
How to respond instead → Really, truly listening to someone
Finding room for validation beyond happiness
Seeing the world in black and white
Setting realistic goals to actually feel fulfillment
Values > happiness
Whitney’s personal experience and growth
Feeling all the feelings and that’s ok
The power of 30-minute focus blocks
Recognizing toxic positivity
How to give feedback to someone who’s “toxically positive”
Setting boundaries with friends/family in a compassionate way
How to find a therapist
The flaw with “time heals all wounds”
The “Good Enough” community
Unpacking the perfection trend
Social’s media place in all of this
The truth about most influencers
Resources:
Website: https://sitwithwhit.com/ (sitwithwhit.com)
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sitwithwhit/?hl=en (@sitwithwhit)
Twitter: https://twitter.com/sitwithwhit (@sitwithwhit)
Collab Counseling: https://www.collabcounseling.com/ (collabcounseling.com)
Read: https://www.amazon.com/Toxic-Positivity-Keeping-World-Obsessed/dp/0593418271 (Toxic Positivity by Whitney Goodman)
“Good Enough” Community: https://sitwithwhit.substack.com/ (sitwithwhit.substack.com)
Connect with Kelly:
https://kellyleveque.com/ (kellyleveque.com)
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bewellbykelly/ (@bewellbykelly)
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bewellbykelly/ (www.facebook.com/bewellbykelly)
Be Well By Kelly is produced by http://crate.media/ (Crate Media).
Mentioned in this episode:
Vuori Performance Apparel
https://vuori.com/kelly (Get 20% off your first order of Vuori AND free shipping on orders over $75 at vuori.com/kelly.)
We spend this episode unpacking the false perception of perfection all around us, the world’s constant striving for “happiness,” and why finding center in your life is so much more complicated than that – and should be! Whether it’s content-friendly or not – feeling all the feelings, really embracing them and chershing them, can be as healthy for us as a diverse and nutrient-rich diet.
Dr. Goodman offers up a more diverse experience, more layers to really dive into and learn about ourselves and the people we love. We get tips on listening (it’s more than just hearing!), recognizing toxic positivity and understanding why it sells, the importance of values over happiness, and prioritizing focus time – even thirty minutes a day – to help keep your mind sharp.
It’s time to get honest about – well, everything! There’s no time to waste striving and stressing over goals that only move further into the distance the harder we work at them. Life is perfect as it is, we’re so glad Dr. Goodman took the time to share this message with us today.
You will learn about...
Pitfalls of toxic positivity
How to respond instead → Really, truly listening to someone
Finding room for validation beyond happiness
Seeing the world in black and white
Setting realistic goals to actually feel fulfillment
Values > happiness
Whitney’s personal experience and growth
Feeling all the feelings and that’s ok
The power of 30-minute focus blocks
Recognizing toxic positivity
How to give feedback to someone who’s “toxically positive”
Setting boundaries with friends/family in a compassionate way
How to find a therapist
The flaw with “time heals all wounds”
The “Good Enough” community
Unpacking the perfection trend
Social’s media place in all of this
The truth about most influencers
Resources:
Website: https://sitwithwhit.com/ (sitwithwhit.com)
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sitwithwhit/?hl=en (@sitwithwhit)
Twitter: https://twitter.com/sitwithwhit (@sitwithwhit)
Collab Counseling: https://www.collabcounseling.com/ (collabcounseling.com)
Read: https://www.amazon.com/Toxic-Positivity-Keeping-World-Obsessed/dp/0593418271 (Toxic Positivity by Whitney Goodman)
“Good Enough” Community: https://sitwithwhit.substack.com/ (sitwithwhit.substack.com)
Connect with Kelly:
https://kellyleveque.com/ (kellyleveque.com)
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bewellbykelly/ (@bewellbykelly)
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bewellbykelly/ (www.facebook.com/bewellbykelly)
Be Well By Kelly is produced by http://crate.media/ (Crate Media).
Mentioned in this episode:
Vuori Performance Apparel
https://vuori.com/kelly (Get 20% off your first order of Vuori AND free shipping on orders over $75 at vuori.com/kelly.)
Released:
Oct 14, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode
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