Today, I am blessed to have here with me Susan Bratton. Intimacy expert to millions, Susan Bratton, is a champion and advocate for all who desire intimacy and passion their whole life. She is co-founder and CEO of two corporations: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills, and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of organic and botanical supplements that enhance sexual vitality.  Susan is the best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs, including “Sexual Soulmates” and “Relationship Magic.” Learn more at SusanBratton.com and The20Store.com. In this episode, Susan speaks about her passion for turning sex into making love. Once you understand how to treat your partner the way they want to be treated, your love life will have vast improvements. Susan explains the differences between libido, desire, and arousal. Then, Susan dives into oxytocin and how this hormone is a game-changer for your mental wellbeing and sex life. Tune in as we chat about nitric oxide, and Susan gives recommendations for sex toys that will spice up your bedroom life.  Register for my upcoming 90 day detox program: http://www.ketokampdetox.com (2 SPOTS LEFT!) / / E P I S O D E   S P ON S O R S  Paleo Valley beef sticks, apple cider vinegar complex, organ meat complex & more. Use the coupon code KETOKAMP15 over at https://paleovalley.com/ to receive 15% off your entire order. Upgraded Formulas Upgraded Magnesium & Charge Electrolyte Supplements: http://www.upgradedformulas.com Use KK15 at checkout for 15% off your order.  Text me the words "Podcast" +1 (786) 364-5002 to be added to my contacts list.  [01:10] Transforming “Having Sex” Into Making Love Together  Susan’s passion is passion! She is an intimacy expert to millions. One of Susan’s focuses is turning sex into making love.  Plus, she stands for ageless sexuality.  Sex techniques and bedroom communication skills will be critical to spicing up your bedroom life.  There are a lot of myths and misunderstandings around our sexuality and how it works. Until you understand the opposite sex, you are going to be treating your partner the way that you want to be treated. However, you should treat your partner the way they want to be treated.  [10:40] Libido, Desire, and Arousal: Improving Your Passionate Lovemaking  Sexuality is an extensive and vast subject matter. You can improve your passionate lovemaking by understanding the differences between libido, desire, and arousal.  Libido is your lust for sex.  Desire is your self-worth and body image; do you feel desirable and do you desire your partner?  Arousal has to do with the human operating system.  The entire vulva can be activated to be as orgasmic as the tip of the clitoris. A good lover can expand the pleasure palette in the whole vulva.  Men should be chronically horny and have erections when they wake up. [23:20] The Love Chemical: How The Hormone Oxytocin Is Related To Sex Oxytocin is a hormone, and it’s generated by touch.  Birthing mothers emit oxytocin to bond their babies to them when the baby is born. Oxytocin is often called the love chemical and the bonding molecule.  Also, oxytocin gives you empathy and makes you like people better.  You can get more oxytocin through food, supplements, and touching.  [34:30] Regulate Blood Flow Throughout Your Body With Nitric Oxide  Nitric oxide is the gaseous signaling molecule that tells your vascular system to squeeze or relax and to send the blood where it needs to go.  Squeezing and relaxing begin to get brittle as you age from atherosclerosis or clogged arteries.  If you have clogged arteries and low nitric oxide production, then there will be sexual problems. You need leafy green vegetables, beetroot, cabbage, dill, arugula, romaine, and spinach shard.  Susan recommends taking FLOW. It is a blood flow supplement made from organic fruits and vegetables.  [45:20] The Very Best Sex Toys For Both Men and Women The firs