It's Up to You: A Practice to Change Your Life by Changing Your Mind
By Karen Casey
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Seven morning and evening practices to revolutionize your life, from the bestselling author of Each Day a New Beginning.
This small book can change everything if you let it. It’s Up to You is based on the twelve principles in the author's Change Your Mind and Your Life Will Follow: tending to our own gardens, focusing on solutions not problems, letting go of preconceived solutions, changing our minds, acting instead of reacting, giving up judgments, giving up trying to control, discovering our own lessons, doing no harm, quieting our minds, treating every encounter as the holy, and discerning our mind’s own truth.
It’s Up to You invites readers to do three simple things: meditate, pay attention, and make choices to change their lives—for a few minutes each morning and evening, one principle a week for twelve weeks. As we reflect on Casey’s insight into the insidious ways we create misery or drama, try to impose will, and suffer needlessly, and as we follow her gentle prompts to make different choices, we begin to see that we can change just about anything in our lives by taking these small steps. As Karen Casey puts it, “Progress is guaranteed. Perfection isn’t expected.”
Karen Casey
Karen Casey has sold over 3 million books that draw upon meditations, motivations, and religion to guide and support women throughout the world. Based in Minneapolis since 1964, Casey is an elementary school teacher turned Ph.D. Casey published the first of twenty-eight books, Each Day a New Beginning: Daily Meditations for Women, with Hazelden Publishing in 1982. Casey has spoken to tens of thousands world-wide over her forty years as a writer. Through each new experience, her gratitude and commitment grow to continue doing what brings joy to her life. Additional notable works from Karen Casey include 52 Ways to Live the Course in Miracles: Cultivate a Simpler, Slower, More Love-Filled Life, Let Go Now: Embrace Detachment as a Path to Freedom, and A Life of My Own: Meditations on Hope and Acceptance.
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It's Up to You - Karen Casey
Introduction
Welcome to It’s Up to You, the companion book to Change Your Mind and Your Life Will Follow. It’s Up to You grew out of discussions with a number of people about how to take the ideas presented in Change Your Mind and apply them, incrementally, a week at a time. There are twelve weeks’ worth of messages, two for each day of the week—one for the morning and one to close the day—based on the specific principles contained in each of the twelve chapters.
My own journey in Twelve Step rooms has taught me that all change is incremental. I have also learned that the willingness to change is the necessary first step anyone must take, or nothing changes at all. No one turns to a book like this one, or its companion book, unless they have felt blocked by old behavior patterns. The good news is, you have already shown your willingness to try something different.
I am convinced because of the miracles that have happened in my own life that miracles will happen for you too. The shift in our way of thinking, a shift that makes everything more joyful and peaceful, can’t be avoided when we begin to apply the principles contained in this little book. Even applying one principle occasionally benefits us in ways we’d not imagined possible.
When taken one day at a time, one week at a time, life will become different. It will be more manageable, more productive, more purposeful. It will be more hopeful. And it will be more peaceful. That’s a promise I can safely make.
Now it’s time to begin. You may want to keep a notebook or journal to record your thoughts about the daily messages. Enjoy every step of the way. This is a journey you will treasure because of its simplicity, and it’s one that will affect you for the rest of your life.
Day 1
Morning
Having anyone else as the focus of our attention will prevent us from doing the work that is ours to do.
It’s so easy to sit in judgment of others, silently (or sometimes even audibly) criticizing them for their actions. Remembering that every person alive has a specific journey that includes a legion of activities has a way of eluding us. It’s only our activities that deserve our attention.
We can learn from others, and that’s why we share the path with so many. But we are not here to serve as judges; rather, we are here to be expressions of love.
I will literally count the number of times I reach out with love today and will write them down at the end of the day.
Day 1
Evening
Am I feeling good as I turn in for the night? Did I express my love for others by my actions? I will take a moment to remember the details of my day. Whom did I treat with kindness? Let me name them. Did they feel my expression of kindness? How could I tell?
Who didn’t get my better self in our interactions? If I could redo these exchanges, what would I do differently? Do I owe any amends? If I do, I will make them tomorrow.
Day 2
Morning
Our attempts to control others are futile.
Wanting to control someone else usually grows out of our personal need to feel more secure. If they
—whoever they might be—would only fulfill our will, it means they love us or honor us or accept our superiority,
thus making us worthy. How absurd, our attempt to control. How destructive this thinking is.
For today, let’s remember that our security and worthiness come from our Higher Power, not someone else’s behavior. Ever.
If someone does what I am hoping they will do today, it’s because that person has chosen that action. Will I be able to see this idea revealed today? Taking time to write down an example will help me remember what to look for.
Day 2
Evening
As I reflect on the day, do I feel good about letting go of what others were doing? It’s not easy, but it is possible. Every time I let a friend or stranger do something their way, I was relieved of a burden. Their success or failure wasn’t tied to me in any way.
How many burdens did I let go of today? Can I name them? Every time I let go, my life was made more peaceful.
As I turn in for the night, I will thank my Higher Power for helping me let others be themselves today.
Day 3
Morning
Everyone we meet reveals something about ourselves.
Everyone on our path is divinely appointed. No one is present by accident. And how we choose to see each person is determined by the level of fear or love we are feeling in the moment. Our perception reveals our strengths, but also those traits that need correcting in ourselves.
Each person is a mirror of who I am. Making the decision to see as God would have me see is the assignment. Today will present many opportunities to see people as God would have me see them. I will savor and remember those times I fulfilled God’s will by writing them down.
Day 3
Evening
What did I learn about myself today? How I saw others on my path will supply the information I now seek. Am I pleased with who I was in most encounters? I’ll list some examples. Which areas of my behavior need addressing? Naming them will keep me honest. Did fear rule me in any situation today? I will re-vision
that situation for a