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Never Here, Always There | Learning to Live in the Present Moment

Danielle Bertoli, Never Here, Always There, present moment, photograph by Peechaya Burroughs
Photograph by Peechaya Burroughs

Embracing the present moment takes conscious intention and yields great rewards

As I was attempting to meditate this morning, sitting on my bed and facing out toward the open windows, I composed a smile on my face — giving myself an imaginary pat on the shoulder for finally taking the time to sit in silence for 10 minutes. A whole 10 minutes after months of repeating to myself that I finally just need to do it!

And there I was, after much anticipation, sitting up straight and smiling in all my glory, thinking about how I forgot to wish someone a happy birthday on Facebook and how I needed to respond to two emails by the end of What a state of peaceful serenity I was in.

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