Ever Happier

By Rida Hareem Madeeha and Sundus Shah

Ever Happier is a quirky guide on how to uplift yourself and work on yourself for your own good. This book will teach you how to deal with a heartbreak and rejection positively, how to take the right decision for yourself, how to stand and speak for yourself, how to be confident and not be scared of anyone, how to be bold and self dependent, how to not accept disrespect and prioritise yourself and your image. This book teaches you ways on how to take care of your well being, and ways to make you believe that the only person who is important for you is YOU. 

The book is a quick guide to motivation that will help you to be better mentally and emotionally so that you can help yourself as well as others. 

The book has all the answers to the questions stuck in your mind. 

A quote from the book, “Not thinking and letting it go is what makes life so sweet. Just close your eyes and hold your breath and everything will turn real pretty.”

• Language: English
• Publisher: Blue Rose Publishers
• Release date: Mar 11, 2024

Book preview

CHAPTER-1

What LOVE feels like?

-Rida Hareem

Love needs to be expressed just like a plant needs water and eyes need a sight to behold.

Love is a strong feeling that is tied by emotional whims. It’s a constant commitment to a person regardless of anything. It’s a commitment to a person who you understand isn’t going anywhere and will always make you happy. It’s a relationship in which you’ll meet that person who will need to rely on you at times, just as you will rely on them. This form of love is far more satisfying and meaningful and brings you happiness. It’s very hard to love a good man because a good man will not do easy things or convenient things or even the thing that he wants to do, he will do what he knows is best for you. He will never lie to you to spare your feelings or whatever, he will do things which will anger you and frustrate you but you cannot get mad at him because, after all, he is very good. And since you cannot get mad at him, you will not be able to get over him.

What kind of love is the love that you deserve? You deserve that one person who does not only make you feel better but makes you want to be better special or important. You deserve a friend or a partner who supports you and your goals and keeps you motivated like a cheerleader. In terms of a partner, you deserve someone who is utterly obsessed with you and who would call you at any hour just to make sure you’re okay. In terms of a friend, you deserve someone who will always be at your side no matter where you stand or in what situations you are and will never ever judge you and will listen to you forever and ever.

People say it’s very hard to continue a long-distance relationship. Still, it’s not unless and until your man is good enough to give you your privacy, understand your boundaries and never cross them, let you do your own thing and respect your friend circle, your ambition, your future and never get jealous of your success. It’s not necessary to chat every day, to be available all the time just to give updates of your day. The necessary thing is that you are sure your man isn’t going anywhere and is with you and will be. You are sure of his deeds and you both are mature enough to give each other space and talk when it’s necessary or when you are missing them.

The man who creates comfortable surroundings and is selfless is the man of your dreams. And the most important thing is that your man respects your feelings and lets you prioritise yourself.

YOU DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE A CHOICE NOT AN OPTION! THIS IS WHAT A TRUE LOVE IS!

Love

Love is about finding the person you can be your weird self with

Where you help her to be her and she helps you to be you.

About finding the person who no matter what,

keeping all the flaws aside, chooses you and only you.

In a hundred lifetimes, in a hundred worlds,

in any version of reality,

That person will find you.

Love is about finding the person who helps you

face reality and helps overcome your failures and says,

I have all the love to give you.

-Rida Hareem

CHAPTER-2

If it’s meant to be, it will be

-Madeeha Sundus Shah

We all go through the time when we find a person who we think we love the most. He/she becomes the centre of our world and our time and space start revolving around them. Love is a feeling which cannot be touched but felt in your heart, in your soul and your body. Your heart seems to be full of life and your mind feels content and peaceful, around them makes you alive. You prioritise them above everyone and everything. One look at that person and you think how lucky I am to have this one in my life.

When you are with them you feel like ‘’you are starving and your mother cooks for you, your favourite food and that first bite of your favourite food gives you a taste of heaven, you transform into a different world, you feel satisfied," being around that person gives you the feeling of fulfilment like you are hungry and you get your hands on your favourite food. Love evokes a wide range of emotions in our body and heart, it is a sense of connection which you feel with another person, it brings a sense of security and joy. When you start to know that someone is special, all their physical characteristics start to disappear. You begin to dwell in their energy, recognize