Stained

By Bernard Kelvin Clive

Stained! Lessons from Grandma.

A journey of learning and growth.

 

In this book, you'll learn why and how these lessons helped shape my life and how they can positively influence yours. You'll also get some interesting stories about my grandma and how they practically relate to everyday life, as well as what they taught me that every parent wants their kid to know.

 

I have always been intrigued by Grandma's practical wisdom and that's why I wrote down the lessons of life she shared with us in no particular order, just for the sake of making sure we all learn from them.

 

Through clever analogies, unexpected situations, and practical wisdom, readers will discover a guide to navigating life's changing and challenging circumstances. Whether dealing with fear or facing life's curveballs, Stained! has something worthwhile to offer everyone.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Bernard Kelvin Clive
• Release date: May 10, 2023
• ISBN: 9798223909538

Bernard Kelvin Clive

Bernard Kelvin Clive is an Author, Speaker, Trainer, and Ghana’s foremost authority on Personal Branding. He hosts the monthly Masterclasses — Book Publishing Masterclass, Podcasting Masterclass, Church Branding Masterclass, etc. His weekly podcast is ranked #1 in the Business & Career Podcast in Ghana & Botswana. A Personal Branding Coach and Brand Strategist at BKC Consulting with over 10 years of experience in digital publishing, Bernard has offered consulting services to hundreds of writers, poets, pastors, authors locally and internationally to self—publish their books and build brands. He is an Amazon bestselling author of over 40 published books and a familiar face and voice on TV and radio stations in Ghana. A husband to Cynthia Clive and father to Thelma Janis Clive.

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Stained!

Lessons from Grandma

Bernard Kelvin Clive

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Dedication

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to mum,

Nana Afua Adubea I

(Queen Mother of Tutu Abooso Nketiem)

Contents

Dedication

Why I wrote this book!

The Joys of Childhood Hawking

The Boy who Couldn’t Read

Simple Pleasures of Life!

Unplanned Blissful Moments

Don't lose the Music

The Roots - Don’t rush the process!

Stained Wedding Dress:

The Wisdom of the Aged!

The Scary Family Reunion

Traditional Tea

ALL SHALL PASS!

Conclusion

About the Author

Books by Bernard Kelvin Clive

Why I wrote this book!

Drawing inspiration from the rich tradition of African folktales, I have come to realize that no one has all the answers or all the wisdom in life.

As I reflect on my life experiences, I am grateful for the invaluable lessons and insights passed down to me by my mother and grandmother.

I believe that our mothers have a remarkable ability to impart life lessons through clever analogies, unexpected situations, and practical wisdom that can help us navigate life's changing and challenging circumstances.

This book is my humble way to capture and share some of the timeless wisdom that my mother and grandmother imparted to me in diverse ways.

I believe that their teachings are not only relevant but essential for future generations to learn from and apply in their lives.

I hope that this book will serve as a simple companion for those seeking guidance and inspiration in their own lives, just as my mother and grandmother's wisdom has done for me.

Finally, in the Akan language, there is a proverb that says, Those who ask for directions, never get lost. This means that seeking guidance and direction can prevent one from becoming lost in unfamiliar territory. As you navigate the storms of life, may this book serve as a guide to help you find your way and stay on course.

The Joys of Childhood Hawking 

Lessons Mama taught me about Sales and Money!

My childhood was quite an experience. My family's humble beginnings taught me the value of hard work, perseverance, and many other skills that are serving me well today.

Though we weren't affluent or poor, perhaps we were a middle-class family. We had a beautiful backyard garden that we cultivated with love and care. It was filled with all kinds of fruits and vegetables, providing us with a bountiful harvest all year round.

We were able to eat healthy and nutritious meals daily, and we never went hungry. We had so much produce that we were able to share our abundance with our neighbors, spreading joy and kindness throughout our community.

It was a point of pride for us that we hardly needed to purchase anything from the market because we had all we needed right in our backyard. We would spend hours tending to our garden, nurturing the soil, planting new seeds, and eagerly anticipating the next harvest.

During school vacations, my mother would send my siblings and me to hawk some foodstuff around the community. At first, I thought it was a chore, but I grew to enjoy it. We would wake up early, pack our baskets with fresh produce, and set out on our daily adventure. We would sing, chat and play games as we walked, making the experience not just about work but also about bonding as siblings.

Over the day, we kept track of who sold the most and set up a friendly competition for the next morning. This added a bit of excitement and motivation to our sales pitch, making us even more determined to do well the next day.

Occasionally, we would have days where our sales exceeded our expectations. It was as if