Dance With Life: Reflections on the Beauty on Being both Lost & Found
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Dance With Life - Samantha Heaney
DANCE WITH LIFE
SAMANTHA HEANEY
TGH: THE GOOD HOUSE
The views expressed in this book are those of the author alone and do not reflect those of TGH International Ltd.
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This work has been fictionalized to a certain extent in order to suit the narrative's needs and to protect the people involved in the recollections. The author recognizes that their recall of events differs from others involved, and acknowledges that their perceptions of experiences are distorted by inevitable imperfections in memory and unconscious influences on their interpretation of them. No harm of defamation is intended.
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Dance With Life
Copyright © Samantha Heaney, 2022
First Edition
ISBN (paperback) [978-1-914447-59-4]
ISBN (ebook) [978-1-914447-60-0]
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I want to dedicate this book to my father, John, who now watches over me every day and became such a big part of this book.
I love you dearly Dad.
CONTENTS
Introduction
1. My Journey Home
2. Grief Stricken
3. Pandemic Life
4. A Deeper Awakening
5. Saudi Arabian Adventures
6. A Feeling of Disconnect
7. Hello Hormonal Imbalance
8. Thailand Adventures
9. Taking Risks, Flying Solo
10. Behind the Masque
11. Feeling Free and Wild
12. Soul Connections
13. The Highs and Lows of Dating
14. Making Difficult Choices
15. Seeking Love and Validation Outside of Myself
16. Making Friends with Sally, aka The ‘Ego’
17. Expressing and Welcoming All Emotions
18. Opening Myself Up to Receive Love
19. Stepping Out the Comfort Bubble
20. Finding Joy
21. Letting Go of Doing Life Alone
22. Becoming the Alchemist Through Rituals
23. Being in Flow
24. Embodied Life
25. Surrendering to Life
The Beauty in Being Lost and Found
Acknowledgments
About the Author
INTRODUCTION
Dear Reader,
First of all thank you for purchasing this book, Dance with Life; A collection of stories of being lost and found.
Throughout my own journey so far, there have been many moments where have I felt lost, but that gave me the opportunity to find myself, and then lose and find myself again and again.
Through this awareness, I have come to the conclusion that being lost isn’t a bad thing and, really, being lost and found are both good. It’s what makes life more of an adventure. I have also realised that I will never get to a destination point and that life will continue to unfold with some surprises along the way.
Throughout the stories in this book, you will feel an array of emotions; there’s moments of joy, of sadness, grief, adventure and love.
At the end of each story, you will find a prescription; something you can do (act upon), think and feel, which you can choose depending on how you are feeling on that particular day. Or maybe some days you’ll feel like diving into all of them.
There is also a journal prompt at the end of each story. Journaling has been such a therapeutic way for me to process what I am feeling. By asking myself prompt questions, I have been able to get out of my head and put my thoughts onto paper.
I wanted to give you a little taste of everything that may help you on your journey too.
I trust that this book will offer you some inspiration, hope, self-reflection, and some joyful moments as you journey through and perhaps offer a little TLC whenever you need it.
Samantha
1 MY JOURNEY HOME
EVERYTHING I AM SEARCHING FOR, IS ALREADY INSIDE OF ME
Here I am. I’ve arrived in another country. Although this time it isn’t just to travel… I packed up and moved here. I have landed in Lisbon and something inside of me feels really overwhelmed. A sense of Is this what I really want? What the F am I doing here? Am I meant to be here?
I feel fear creeping in and I feel very vulnerable, but there’s also a sense of excitement and an openness to new opportunities, new friends and new adventures. Despite having been on a self-discovery journey for many years now, these emotions still surprise me and there’s still a part of me that wants to disconnect from what I have labelled ‘bad’ emotions. Yet I must welcome it all and not run away from myself. It’s just me and my dog, Bear. Going home now won’t change anything.
So I decide to stay put and see what happens.
Since I was very young, I’ve lived away and had a real curiosity of exploring the world and seeing different places. I love the thrill and expansion I feel when I travel, when I meet different cultures and learn about different ways of living. I love the feeling I get when I go out in nature and hike in different places, connecting to the land wherever I am. So I definitely feel that adventure and travel is a part of me and is definitely a part of my soul. However, since arriving in Lisbon I’ve felt myself wondering, Am I moving around just for that? Or am I running away from something, myself? Running away from certain things in my life? I’ve found myself questioning, what is it that I am seeking in other places? What is it that I seek that I feel I can’t find in my home country, Scotland? Was it just a desire for some adventure? Or, perhaps, it went a bit deeper than that.
When I sat with this final question, a couple of things came up for me that may be why I didn’t feel at home in Scotland. The first one being connection. When I was younger, I didn’t feel much connection with others and I felt I didn’t really fit in. Somehow when I moved away it seemed easier to make friends that I could have a genuine connection with.
Another thing that I remembered was when I grew up in quite a small town and had thoughts like Is this it?
as though I had this deep yearning for more, to see more; something about home just didn’t do it for me.
I found myself questioning, What if all I am seeking is already inside of me and everything else is just an extension from that?"
As I witnessed all the emotions that arose since my arrival in Lisbon, it made me realise deeply, that I can’t run away from myself. No matter where I am in the world, no matter where I go, I am still with me. I still have all the thoughts, the emotions, the feelings. It never goes away. I have had a huge realisation that home is me and, perhaps, I could find home in Scotland.
So, if home is me, can I find internal peace and happiness? Anchor deeply within and from this grounded space, then explore the world, but from a place of curiosity and adventure rather than running away from anything.
So much awareness crept up for me here in Lisbon, reflecting back on all the times I have been seeking happiness, joy and acceptance externally. Yes, to some extent I can find those things through experiences, but the true essence of it all is feeling that inside of me. Lighting up my world from the inside, and then allowing that light to shine outside.
Something about Lisbon has awoken