How to Become a Real Man. Be an Alpha Male

By John Danen

This book teaches you how to be a real man. Confident, determined and satisfied to be what he is.

A strong man. A man who exudes masculinity. Because there is no better thing in life than being a man.

• Language: English
• Publisher: John Danen
• Release date: Jul 31, 2022
• ISBN: 9798201336660

John Danen

Me considero un hedonista. Disfrutar ha sido siempre mi meta. También me considero un cachondo mental. Licenciado en ciencias empresariales con formación en coaching, pnl, habilidades sociales, crecimiento personal, técnicas de visualización, liderazgo, seducción. Puedo decir qué he dedicado prácticamente toda mi vida a la seducción, la cual ha sido mi gran pasión. He plasmado en estos libros todos los conocimientos fruto de mis experiencias. Espero y deseo que os sirvan cómo inspiración y guía para todos vosotros.

Book preview

What is a male?

The simple fact of being born of a male gender unfortunately does not make you a male at all, as there is a difference between being born a male and earning the title. Just as in the animal world, there is an Alpha male in the herd and there are other beta males. In the life of men, whether we like it or not, it’s true as well. There are very few men among very many males.

Being a male is defined more by personality than anything else.

In the old days, men were taught to be alpha by their fathers. They would say things like- Boys don't cry, that's for girls, you have to be a man- and things like that. Nowadays I suspect that this education or at least transmission of these values, is no longer done and due to this way of paternal education, few males are developed.

It is also a genetic question; some are prepared to lead and to be true males right from birth. The physical constitution also influences a lot as being a hunk or a strong guy gives you a position of superiority over others. Although the character of the person makes it even more so. To be an alpha man is, to want to be one.

Nowadays we are witnessing a criminalization of being a man, especially being alpha, and the opposite is encouraged. The more feminine role a man has, the happier society will be. That is why I think it is necessary in these hard times for men, to understand this book in which the character of the true alpha is vindicated.

The true alpha male fulfills a leadership role and has full confidence and self-confidence. It has nothing to do with being homophobic or having alpha issues, on the contrary, he is a person who respects and makes himself respected and proud of what he is.

Being an alpha is a question of manhood, of being masculine. There are many men, but very few alpha males. For me, it is very sad to see men without alpha characteristics. These men are without personality, without character, and allow themselves to be influenced and dominated by anyone. They do not live the life they want to live and are manipulated by everyone.

But being alpha is something more than this. These characteristics can be shared by a girl or a gay man but we do not say he is alpha. Being alpha is something that we are going to discover throughout this book.

Characteristics of the true alpha.

This chapter is practically a summary of the whole book. For me, the most important characteristics that a true alpha man must have been as follows:

Mental:

Self-confidence.

Willingness to undertake necessary challenges.

Assertive attitude.

Calm and confident body language.

Appetite for risk and adventure.

Ambition.

Leadership skills.

Doesn’t avoid confrontations.

Addresses issues directly.

Commands respect.

Stands against any kind of abuse towards oneself or others.

Helps the disadvantaged.

Possesses great social skills and empathy.

Active lifestyle.

Physically fit and athletic.

Charismatic and attractive to others.

Convincing and persuasive.

Effective communicator.

Likable personality.

Doesn’t show signs of physical or mental weakness.

Doesn’t complain about the weather, especially the cold, and dresses appropriately for the temperature.

Rarely gets sick, if at all.

Skilled lover with sexual prowess.

Tolerates alcohol well.

Skilled in sports and excels in physical activities.

Broad general knowledge.

Solves problems confidently and with determination, even when others cannot.

Assumes leadership in extreme situations and completes projects.

Difficult to defeat in a fight due to physical skills, determination, or aggressive character.

Commands respect from others.

Brave, enterprising, and enjoys taking on difficult challenges.

Leads a group of people who trust their judgment.

Stands against any kind of abuse from anyone.

Remains optimistic and determined in the face of difficulties.

Inspires strength and determination in those around them.

Protects the vulnerable.

Encourages the discouraged.

Physical:

Deep voice (preferably).

Muscular physique (preferably).

All that I have said can be perfectly done by a woman as well but the difference between this woman leader and a male is that the male emanates masculinity, virile attractiveness, and does everything while being very manly, very masculine. He is highly valued and appreciated among women. Because let's not fool ourselves, the alpha man is very attractive.

The true alpha man is the heterosexual man who is very attractive to women. He is A man with very high alpha characteristics of security and leadership. A homosexual man with all these characteristics, well, I can't think of what to call him, but we could call him an alpha man after that Village People song. It is a very appropriate name.

A woman who also meets these characteristics of being very attractive and all the above mentioned, we would call her an Alpha woman. Which I think is great as I find them super attractive and super interesting. There must be more of them.

I am not going to deny that, I would like to see a man have a well-marked masculinity, to be an alpha man.

I like women whether they are betas or alphas. I have been with both and both are interesting. Some are tender and delicate and others are confident and determined and I am attracted to all of them. Let them be who they want to be.

Leadership is not about gender it's about mindsets.

- Woman + alpha characteristics = alpha woman.

- Woman + beta characteristics = Normal woman.

- Gay man + Alpha characteristics = Alpha men.

- Gay man + beta characteristics = Normal gay.

- Lesbian woman + alpha characteristics = Lesbian alpha.

- Lesbian woman + beta characteristics = Normal lesbian.

- Heterosexual man + beta characteristics = Normal man.

- Heterosexual male + alpha characteristics = True male.

Let's focus on alpha heterosexual males, i.e., true