Sigma Male Mentality

By Chris Finley

If you were unsure about where you are in the social hierarchy as a man? And You're well aware that you're not an Alpha Male or a Beta Male.

This book might help you figure out who you are at your core:

• If you consider yourself to be self-sufficient.
• Self-reliant
• You appear to be on the periphery of the hierarchy.
• Take pleasure in being alone.
• And you prefer to think things through before acting.

The Sigma Male is introverted and avoids mainstream culture, but he is a successful man who is popular with the ladies
and successful in life.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Chris Finley
• Release date: Sep 21, 2022
• ISBN: 9798215042656

Book preview

Introduction

AS A YOUNG MALE, YOU go through life thinking being a nice guy is the best way to become a man. If you grow up as the only son of a single mother, you learn from men on television and from other guys in your neighborhood. While growing up, I watched television shows and movies that showed the man serving and pleasing the woman. I thought that's what you were supposed to do until I got older and started going outside to play with other boys and attending school. When I started interacting with boys my age, everything I learned went out the window. I had to learn several lessons the hard way. Luckily, I had ample time to spend with my father and grandfather.

As a child, I would often get the chance to spend time with my dad after my parents divorced. I mostly saw him on holidays and weekends. I was also lucky enough to stay with my grandfather for a few summers. I learned so much from my time with them and it changed the way I thought about them, myself, and the world at large.

I watched them as a little boy, observing them walking around the house, doing manly chores. There, I picked up characteristics that helped me carry myself as a man. What I gained from them was the confidence to walk around my own house as a man and out in public doing everyday things as a man would do. If I had been raised only by a single mother, a lot of things would have been different. I would have missed out on a lot of opportunities to grow into a man. I may not have had the chance to observe the men around me such as my father and grandfather. I would not know what it meant to be a man if I lacked the example of male figures in my life.

According to psychologists, young boys need a male role model to emulate (Wood & Brownhill, 2018). They say it doesn't even have to be your kin (Martino, 2008). As young men, we need those male figures. We need someone we can look up to.

We need to observe how a man treats the opposite sex and how he carries himself in certain situations. It allows you to understand what it is to be a man.

Instinctively, as young men, there are certain things we should accept and not accept, whether it’s how you handle yourself in a fight, how to solve a problem, or dealing with the opposite sex. Over the years, I’ve gained everything I know about being a man once I left home. I learned to walk to the beat of my own drum and stick to my conviction, even when I failed miserably. I have made the mistake of not following my gut and had to learn why I became dissatisfied when I didn’t trust my instincts. When I didn't follow my gut, I blocked out the primal masculine male within me. It wasn't until I started taking chances to improve myself in life that the masculine man within me started developing.

A man should try everything his instincts tell him to, whether it's sports, traveling, or skydiving. Even as an older man, I

Reviews for Sigma Male Mentality

[Bryant · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Great Book, great description, very well put together, 5 stars

[Benjamin Labriel · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

It's a wonderful tool to help men in their incessant search to understand themselves. Congratulations to the author.