The Game Of Seduction: How To Become A Modern-day "casanova" And Take Beautiful Women To Bed.
By John Lougan
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The Game Of Seduction - John Lougan
THE GAME OF SEDUCTION
HOW TO BECOME A MODERN-DAY CASANOVA
AND TAKE BEAUTIFUL WOMEN TO BED
John
LOUGAN
Copyright © 2023 John Lougan
All rights reserved
No part of this book may be reproduced, or stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without express written permission of the publisher.
ISBN-13: 9781234567890
ISBN-10: 1477123456
Cover design by: Art Painter
Library of Congress Control Number: 2018675309
Printed in the United States of America
WELCOME TO THE GAME!
If you want to be loved, you have to be deserving of that love
(Giacomo Casanova).
This is a book for men who desire to seduce stunning women. Here, you will find valuable insights, field-tested strategies, and practical advice to change your beliefs and enhance your seduction skills.
John Lougan, an expert in seduction, shares his expertise and experiences in the world of conquest in this book. He provides a comprehensive guide, filled with concepts and effective techniques to authentically and respectfully attract, engage, and conquer women.
Throughout these pages, you will discover how to boost your confidence, develop persuasive communication skills, and create meaningful connections. Lougan addresses different interaction contexts, from casual encounters to more enduring relationships, offering useful guidance for various situations.
However, remember that seduction is a two-way street based on consent and mutual respect. This book is not intended to promote manipulative or harmful behaviors. Its purpose is to empower readers to become more confident and skilled men in the art of social interaction, with an emphasis on consent, the well-being of the women involved, and compliance with the country's laws.
Therefore, dive into these pages with an open mind, learn from the shared experiences, and adapt the techniques to your own personality and values. Be aware that, as you enter this game, the responsibility lies with you to use these skills wisely and with integrity.
Are you ready to enhance your seduction skills and unravel the secrets of the game? Then, embark on this journey with John Lougan and enjoy the exciting possibilities that the book The Game of Seduction
has to offer.
Happy reading and much success with women!
Editorial Team
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
I am deeply grateful to Jack Player for being my first partner in the game, for all his assistance, and for our great friendship. I also want to thank High Speed for being my friend, for the seductor's poem,
for the camaraderie, and for the incredibly fun moments we shared together.
I extend my gratitude to Chameleon for our long-standing friendship and for writing the preface of this book. I thank William Nichele for the cover design and artwork. To my other childhood friends, I appreciate your support and charisma. I am grateful to my mother and father for believing in me and my success as a human being.
Ultimately, I want to express my sincere thanks to everyone who, directly or indirectly, contributed to the creation of this book. I appreciate all those who have accompanied me from the beginning of this journey and have become my friends. Know that everything I have done and shared with you has come from the heart. I also want to thank all the women and individuals I have conversed with and had relationships with. You are truly special. My sincere thanks to all of you!
John Lougan
PREFACE
I confess that I feel honored to write the preface for a book that I am absolutely certain will greatly contribute to male seduction in Brazil. I met John Lougan (his stage name) in October 2011. At that time, Lougan was known for being one of the few Brazilians who had successfully mastered the Mystery Method - the most renowned seduction method in the world. While thousands of Pickup students struggled to apply Mystery's strategy, Lougan seemed to effortlessly incorporate it into his persona.
However, he wanted to go far beyond that... In our first phone conversation, which preceded our physical meeting, I was amazed by Lougan's simplicity. I felt that a beautiful friendship could arise from there - and I was not mistaken: we became great friends. Lougan's commitment to his evolution in the game was evident. Whether in daytime or nighttime settings, Lougan never hesitated to approach. Whether the women were committed or alone, with family nearby or not, they were enchanted by his friendly, comfortable, and, of course, seductive manner. We played the game, had a lot of fun, and I felt a strong sense of empathy from him.
After our meeting, Lougan continued playing the game relentlessly. His reports became regular in the seduction community, and he meticulously described the step-by-step process of conquest, aiming to assist his colleagues and admirers. And yes, Lougan had gone beyond the Mystery Method and achieved a natural game, where he operated both directly and indirectly. The speed of his results also increased dramatically, and sometimes he would secure a kiss in less than a minute.
What you have in your hands are undoubtedly the secrets of a Brazilian master of seduction who had the kindness to compile them into a rare and unprecedented book. Use them wisely and utilize them for good. The international seduction community will be forever grateful to this great man, who, like myself and other players, has left a legacy and entered the history of Pickup. Welcome to the elite, Lougan... Improvise, adapt, and overcome! A warm embrace from your friend,
Chameleon.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
John Lougan, despite his stage name, is a Brazilian seduction coach and writer specializing in attraction, psychology, and social dynamics. In 2009, he fully immersed himself in this fascinating world, embarking on a transformative journey.
Determined to enhance his skills, Lougan dedicated himself to in-depth study of seduction, including renowned methods known worldwide. Immersed in the works of masters like Ross Jeffries, the pioneer of Speed Seduction, Alan Roger Currie, author of Mode One, and Erik Von Markovik, known for his infamous Mystery Method, he also absorbed valuable lessons from David Deangelo's 77 Laws of Success with Women and Dating.
Additionally, Lougan explored Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), studying the significant contributions of Richard Bandler and John Grinder, along with other important authors on the subject.
With over a decade of studying and practicing the art of seduction, Lougan has become a reference on the topic in Brazil. His real-life accounts and active participation in the seduction community have propelled him to an extraordinary level of mastery. His name has become well-known throughout the country and internationally, as this book is already being sold in various countries.
In 2011, a pivotal moment marked Lougan's journey. He developed his own method
based on natural game. His practical experience and genuine reports inspired a unique approach, propelling him to even greater heights in the game. The demand for his knowledge grew, leading him to provide consultations and workshops.
Motivated by years of experience and a deep understanding of the art of attraction, Lougan decided to compile his vast knowledge into an unprecedented book in Brazil. This work offers a comprehensive view of the seduction universe and the Pickup community worldwide, with a focus on the peculiarities of the Brazilian context. His goal is to empower men to achieve success in their personal relationships while becoming authentic versions of themselves.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Introduction, 15
How It All Started, 25
Taking Care of the Garden to Attract Butterflies, 39
Inner Game, 45
The Alpha Male, 61
Appearance, 75
Body Language, Voice, and Facial Expression, 85
THE GAME, 91
Night Game, 121
Day Game, 139
Phone Game, 167
How to Always Be Ready for the Game, 191
How to take women to bed, 199
Social Circle, 213
Long-Term Relationships, 219
Glossary, 227
INTRODUCTION
"This is not just about seducing women...
but about building a life" (Mystery).
Welcome to the game! I'm John Lougan, and what you are about to discover within the pages of this book can change the course of your love life. Get ready to enter a seduction underworld that has remained hidden from your eyes but will now be revealed in its entirety. Understand that this is not a conventional book about relationships; it's about the game of seduction, and through it, I will unveil the complete path to transforming your personal life and success with women.
Prepare yourself to be captivated by the game, to feel an irresistible attraction towards it. The lessons you will learn in these pages will result in radical changes in your life to the point that when you look back, you will hardly believe the magnitude of this transformation.
The story that follows is real, it actually happened. To guide you into the seduction universe, I will first share a bit about myself and explain what Pickup is and how it originated, which is the main objective of this book.
Despite the Americanized stage name, I am Brazilian. I am the son of a military man and parents who are separated. I was raised under the care of my father since the age of two. The separation of my parents had an impact on my life, but it was only in adulthood that I truly realized the void I felt from not having a united family. We are four siblings, divided between the two resulting families from this separation. Like many others who have gone through this, I learned to adapt and overcome the situation.
Throughout my entire adolescence and until I was 24 years old, I lived immersed in religion, following in my father's footsteps and finding my compass in faith.
During this period, I devoted over a decade to an evangelical church, whose doctrine preached the isolation of the faithful from the pagan
world. This mindset kept me away from studies and secular society, resulting in stagnation in various areas of my life during those years.
It took several years for me to finally open my eyes and free myself from the religious mindset that held me captive. By making the decision to break away from dogmas, I embarked on a journey in search of a more balanced life integrated into society. Today, I consider myself agnostic, finding my peace in this way and in the pursuit of personal answers.
Despite all the forces pulling me in the opposite direction, I decided to forge my own path. I resumed my studies, attended a college preparatory course, graduated from a public university, and am currently a civil servant, writer, and enjoying financial independence.
This transformational journey was challenging, requiring courage to confront old beliefs and break away from a familiar, traditional, and comfortable
world. However, the fruits reaped along the way justified every step taken. Today, I feel free to explore new ideas, expand my intellectual horizons, and live a more fulfilling and authentic life.
No matter what baggage we carry from the past, it is always possible to reinvent ourselves and seek an existence that truly fulfills us. Freedom of thought and the pursuit of our own path are essential elements in this journey of self-discovery.
Although I don't consider myself extremely attractive, I don't think I'm ugly either. Some women claim that I'm attractive, but believe me, that is not the most important aspect, as you will soon discover. Beauty is common, and soon you will realize that having stunning looks is not necessary to seduce women.
My appearance is ordinary, nothing exceptional about it. I am tall, have fair skin, black hair with receding hairline, and a long, sharp nose - features that denote my Italian heritage. Some friends vehemently claim that I resemble the character Wolverine
from the comics and films of the renowned Marvel Comics' X-Men
series. That is the origin behind the pseudonym, where I added just one u
to the name Logan
and included the first name John
. I did this with the aim of keeping my personal life separate from the game.
My journey into seduction began by chance. It was the first decade of this century, and it all started after the tragic end of a three-and-a-half-year relationship. I decided to do some research on the internet with a simple question: how to attract beautiful women.
This research was not motivated by an exaggerated difficulty in dealing with women - since my youth, I did not face significant challenges in this area - but rather by the desire to elevate my level, that is, to seduce stunning women! Perhaps out of vanity or perhaps because I genuinely felt attracted to certain qualities and types of women - even today, I appreciate shaved vaginas, as long as they are on a beautiful body and face.
The first result that Google
returned to me was the website of a man who surprisingly became