Never Good Enough: Escaping the Prison of Perfectionism
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There are two sides to just about everything in life and perfectionism isn't any different. Most perfectionists care so much about the things that are important to them and care about how they do these things. We want our projects, our homes, relationships, and lives to be the best they can be.
If we use our time wisely we can bring into reality—through effort or ingenuity—all of the potential we envision.
Okay, so we tend to be tough on ourselves. We're often filled with stress and anxiety. We can procrastinate, big-time. And far too often we feel we've fallen short of our idealized goals.
This hyper-focus keeps us staring closely at everything we believe is wrong rather than seeing what's right. This is especially true when it comes to our self-perception where we measure our accomplishments, our looks, finances, education, career, or anything else against others. And, for most perfectionists, we find that we need to do better. We should do better. We must do better!
We become over-achievers and over-thinkers and over-controlling and lose all sense of flexibility and happiness. Life soon becomes a strait-jacket we can never free ourselves from.
I want to show you how to recognize when your perfectionism is hurting you and your relationships then rein it in. You want to get your perfectionism to work for you rather than against you, and by getting it to take a backseat at times, you'll find that you're more productive, there's more time in your days, you feel more relaxed, more comfortable, and a whole lot happier.
Kelly Wallace
Kelly Wallace is a best selling multi-published spiritual and self-help author, radio show host, and has been a professional psychic counselor for over twenty years. She can see, hear, sense, and feel information sent from Spirit, the Universe, and a client's Higher Self. Whether your problems or concerns are in the area of love, finances, family, career, health, education, or your path in life, she offers affordable professional intuitive counseling, caring guidance, and solutions that work! More than just a typical psychic reading or counseling session, you will feel you've found a real friend during your time of need--whether you simply want answers and guidance to your current worries or concerns, or you're interested in learning more about your soul mate, spirit guides, past lives, or anything else. Visit her site today and book a reading! DrKellyPsychic.com
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Never Good Enough - Kelly Wallace
Books by Kelly Wallace
10 MINUTES A DAY TO A Powerful New Life
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Breaking The Worry Habit – Stop Your Anxious Thoughts And Start Living!
Chakras – Heal, Clear, And Strengthen Your Energy Centers
Clear Your Karma – The Healing Power of Your Past Lives
Contacting Your Spirit Guides – Meeting and Working with Your Invisible Helpers
Creating A Charmed Life – Enchantments to Attract, Repel, Cleanse & Heal
Dream Work – Using The Wisdom Of Your Sleeping Mind To Change Your Waking Life
Energy Work – Heal, Cleanse, and Strengthen Your Aura
Everyday Miracles – Powerful Steps to Wonderful Experiences
Finding Your Life Purpose – Uncover Your Soul's True Goals
Healing the Child Within – Rewrite Your Early Childhood Life Script
How to Cure Candida – Yeast Infection Symptoms, Causes, Diet & Natural Remedies
Intuitive Living – Developing Your Psychic Gifts
Intuitive Tarot – Learn the Tarot Instantly
Is He The One? Finding And Keeping Your Soulmate
Master the Art of Picking Up Women
Master the Art of Dating Women
Master the Art of Sex and Seduction
Never Good Enough – Escaping The Prison Of Perfectionism
No-Sweat Homeschooling – The Cheap, Free, and Low-Stress Way to Teach Your Kids
Psychic Vampires – Protect and Heal Yourself from Energy Predators
Reprogram Your Subconscious – Use The Power Of Your Mind
Spirit Guides And Healing Energy – Worth Your Guides, Aura, and Chakras
Spirits I Have Known – Haunted Places, Haunted People
Spiritual Alchemy – Transform Your Life and Everyone In It
The Art Of Happiness – Living A Life Of Peace And Simplicity
The Love You Deserve – Release Toxic Relationships and Attract Your Soulmate
The Mended Soul – Healing Your Mind, Body, & Spirit From Anxiety & Depression
The Overwhelmed Empath – A Guide For Sensitive Souls
The Power of Pets – How to Psychically Communicate with Your Pet
Transforming Your Money Mindset – From Broke To Abundance
True Wealth – Reprogram Your Subconscious for Financial Success
Upgrade Your Life – Small Changes, Easy Actions, Big Success
Working With Your Angels – Learn To Contact Them and Recognize Their Guidance
About Kelly Wallace
KELLY IS A BESTSELLING spiritual and self-help author, former radio show host, and has been a professional psychic counselor for over twenty years. She can see, hear, sense, and feel information sent from Spirit, the Universe, and a client's Higher Self.
She offers professional psychic counseling, caring guidance, and solutions that work! More than just a typical psychic reading or counseling session, you will feel you've found a real friend during your time of need—whether you simply want answers and guidance to your current worries or concerns, or you're interested in learning more about your soulmate, spirit guides, angels, past lives, or anything else.
Contact her today for an in-depth and life-altering reading!
Website: DrKellyPsychic.com
Email: Dr.Kelly.Psychic.Counselor@gmail.com
What This Book Covers
INTRODUCTION
What Type of Perfectionist Are You?
Pitfalls of Perfectionism
Three Beliefs Holding You Back
Your Perfectionist Programming
A Cover For Fear and Insecurity
Different Viewpoints
Your Inner Critic
Perfectionism Obstacles
Perfectionist Self-Talk
How To Quiet The Voice of Judgment
Perfectionism and Procrastination
Getting Things Done – At Last!
Making Healthy Changes
Unlearning Perfectionism
Calming Your Inner Perfectionist
Ask If Perfection Is Really Needed
Finding Balance And Being Happy
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Introduction
I'VE BEEN A PERFECTIONIST for as long as I can remember. Even in Kindergarten, I wanted to draw better, write better, and skip rope better than any other kid in my class. They weren't my greatest competitors though...I was. To this day I'm always trying to one-up myself, regardless of what the task or project is. And you know what? It's stressful!
I'm doing a lot better and not nearly as hard on myself as I used to be, and certainly not as anxious or high-strung. Some days I do pretty well then other days I have to fight my automatic tendencies to battle against this negative trait.
There are good sides to my perfectionism though. It helps me run my online psychic business and write several books a year. The downside is that I often face burnout—which is common with perfectionists. I'll spend many hours seven days a week working on a new book, get it done and published, then spend a week or so where I can't focus