"A Successful Relationship" 50 Guaranteed Ways for Fulfilled Life Together

By Ilona Cizewska

Exceptional, Explicit and only one on the market - like her author - book about relations.
You will learn from it what to do in order to make your relationship satisfying, happy and exciting and how to be a fulfilled woman and a full- fledged man.

"Luxury means TO BE and TO HAVE" - Ilona Cizewska
"Luxury is a state of cohesion between mind and body. It is a relationship between the mental and material world. It is the art of harmony, peace of mind, passion, satisfaction and fulfillment. It is the capacity to stimulate senses, seek beauty, celebrate regular activities. It is the wealth of the experience. And finally – it is the art of becoming a better and more aware person, every day." - Ilona Cizewska
Discover how to live luxuriously.

This eBook is the publication about building a satisfying relationship. Here You find more information on how to look after your relationship and guarantee its durability. You will learn from it what to do in order to make your relationship satisfying, happy and exciting and how to be a fulfilled woman and a full-fledged man.

The man will be able to understand:
- what "coffee" means to a woman
- when "no" means "no" and when "yes" means "yes"
- what a woman wants and how she shows it

The woman will find out:
- what kind of magic sex has for him
- how to speak to be heard
- what the partner expects from her

• Language: English
• Publisher: Ilona Cizewska
• Release date: Mar 28, 2020
• ISBN: 9780463845554

Ilona Cizewska

Luxury Profiler, a great fan of travelling and recognised psychologist with many years of professional experience. The creator and dedicated promoter of Psychology of Luxury, a fully innovative approach.Professional lifeProfiler, trainer, profiler and consultant. Many years of experience in a range of professional areas eventually led me to the place where I am now. In 2012 I founded IC Luxury Profiler LTD, which constitutes the tangible expression of the Psychology of Luxury.In the last several years, I have established a working relationship with the media, giving interviews and conducting consultations for the leading magazines. I also work with foreign travel and lifestyle portals.These professional and personal steps I treat as little stop-overs. They are my sources of energy and knowledge. Each interaction constitutes a real experience of being a part of this the world and existing next to another human being. These interactions provide us with opportunities to discover ourselves and other people in this contact. We can then learn our shared language, despite the fact that we come from different cultures and worlds, or even from the same world but different backgrounds and ways of perceiving the world. Every interaction is a unique initiation and the beginning of the new “I”, enriched by these new elements.I believe that there are no coincidences in my life. Everything that has happened and is happening is the work of creation of the universe. In the life style that I represent, I believe that we invent and create our universe. The thought or feeling becomes the origin of our action and our ideas become reality.All my individual elements and experiences have led me here and created me as I am now. They built my approach to the world, created my expectations, dreams and behaviour.We do not always welcome all our life experiences, at least at the moment when the initial evaluation is done. But as we move to other places in the world we also grow more mature and the evaluation also changes. Now more and more often I leave a lot of things as they are, try not to evaluate their meaning as evaluation is subjective and depends on many factors, and all I want is to be free. I want to preserve the freedom of the mind. This state can only sustained without emerging in assessments, suggestions and other stimuli , but focusing on ourselves and own evaluation-free perception.

Book preview

1.

Unity or individuality?

Who are you? Much is said that after marriage or during engagement, both of you are just one. In my opinion, such a statement is nonsense. You create a system, and as you know, each system consists of separate elements. Each element brings something to the whole system, it is at least to a certain extent necessary, and certainly very useful. How the elements interact depends on many factors. Therefore, treat yourself as elements of such a system.

Do not demand from the other person that they give up important elements of their lives, for example passions, behaviors taken from the family home, habits, diets etc. See what the other side has to offer, propose other solutions and approaches, and then work out a partnership with the partner based on mutual respect, without giving up yourself for a moment.

Remember that each of you had and has a different world and the common part is not dominant. The relationship was established at some point, and before and during the relationship there were and are individual passions, acquaintances, habits and rituals. Do not take personal space of each other. When you deprive the other side of her/his intimate world or voluntarily give away your part, you will lose a lot. You will become less attractive to yourself, and if there is ever a crisis in a relationship, there will be no space that would be a safety valve for each of you. The harmony between I and we is a necessary condition for the success and satisfaction of the relationship.

2.

Him or her?

There are as many tales of love as there are people. Men and women are very different in defining love, but not only in it. It's like a story about a house: for one person it's walls, windows and roof, and for the others house means close people creating something called a home.

Each of us has two sexes in us, one of which is dominant and determines our life. It is worth using the features that each of them brings. It may happen that a woman will wear pants in a relationship, not a man. It is important, however, that this knowledge becomes available before entering into a relationship, and not after getting married. Unless it is a system that is appealing to both sides. Then you can feel safe and a important, regardless of the rules prevailing in it and since the time of their disclosure.

Basically, however, the partners are often unaware of who is a man and who is a woman in a relationship. We discover this on a regular basis, which usually means conflicts, the inability to communicate and define this fact as a lack of support from a partner. It is necessary to get to know oneself and open communication, especially regarding difficult areas. Look not at what you lack in your partner's behavior, but what is valuable to you and what you can learn from it. Thanks to this, it will be easier to agree between you and thus to see differences that show how valuable, diverse and beautiful your relationship is.

3."Deadline": is it neccessary?

How many times did you say and he heard: The garbage needs to be taken out, The garage has to be cleaned, We must visit the parents. If something is failing on deaf ears results in the fact that there is no response from the partner. If we care about the outcome and not only about the process, we should set goals according to the What?, When?, How?. Exactly in this order. The most important thing is to determine what we want to do, then - when the effect will happen, set a final date and then deal with the development of details, like the process and action. Nobody has the same pattern of action, so if you expect something to be done according to your pattern, it should be presented to the other person. I suggest, however, that you leave the initiative to your partner. Limit yourself to saying what you expect and when, and leave the decision how it will be done to the other side.

He/she will feel like a partner then, not like a child. Be partners for each other.

Example - taking out trash. Have you ever thought about how many activities are related to the mundane task of taking out garbage? Is this one activity or are there 3-5, 5-8, 11-13? The answer is below.

11 activities. What? Taking out the garbage. When? Now. How? Get up from the couch, go to the bin, open the door, pull the trash bag, tie the sack, close the door, go outside, throw the trash in the bin, return home, put in a clean sack and return to the couch.

4.

Quantity or quality??

Did you feel guilty that you spend little time with your partner? Or maybe you repeatedly asked him/her to devote more time for you? How much time is required to determine that the relationship is valuable, satisfactory and wonderful? The limits are deeply coded: every weekend, one hour a day, on Fridays for minimum of 3 hours. There is also a specific scheme of behavior: dinners that you eat together, watching the match, being together on the couch, sex, etc. It is not the amount that is important, but the quality of the time spent with each other. However, there is a condition: you must have an idea how to spend this time together. You also need to have knowledge, which of the things we do make us happy. However, there is one significant detail - how to spend time is the idea of one person, not a common one. How many times do you use excuses like: I do not want to, why now?, Why there?, Why?, Maybe we can do it some other time?, Let's do something else. ". Make an experiment. Write down how much time you want to spend together from Monday to Friday and during the weekends