494: SEX BEFORE DATE NIGHT

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494: SEX BEFORE DATE NIGHT

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Jun 25, 2019

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Date nights have a lot of expectations. Learn what you can do to set yourself up to have sex before you go out on your date night. | "Life is uncertain. Eat dessert first." —Ernestine Ulmer

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Jun 25, 2019

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Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind-blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!

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024 – When It’s Not On The Radar Screen: What does your marriage look like when intimacy is not on the radar screen? We had a personal case study last week and it wasn't pretty. It is never too late to make intimacy a priority in your marriage, it just takes making a decision and making the e.. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
47 min listen
001 – 60 Days of Sex: Eleven years and our marriage had gone through a lot and yet the pain we endured didn't have to be there forever. So on a fateful day Tony & Alisa began an adventure that would forever change their lives. - by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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013 – The Difference One Week Can Make in Your Marriage: Can 7 days really make a difference in your marriage? We are placing bets that it can. Decide that for one week your spouse is going to be your number one priority and see what happens. Celebrate as you rediscover the communication in your marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
37 min listen
010 – Can You Admit When You Are Wrong?: Can you admit when you are wrong? Or are you quick to jump on the defensive when your spouse brings up an issue? Listen in as we share our less than perfect week. I (Alisa) was moody and irritable, quick to dismiss anything that Tony had to say. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
34 min listen
017 – Are You too Tired to Try?: Have you worn yourself down? Are there too many "things" demanding your attention? In this weeks podcast we tackle the issue of fatigue in our marriage and how it has the ability to wreak havoc on our marriage and your relationships. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
52 min listen
006 – Power of Prayer: The Power of Prayer...change is possible, are you willing to ask for what you want and wait for it to happen? - In our microwave society we want what we want RIGHT NOW! The reality is this: we can't change our spouse or their actions no matter how muc... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
31 min listen
041 – Is Your Marriage an Adventure or a Burden?: Have you taken the time to think about how you view your marriage? Every relationship has highs and lows but the difference is all in your mindset. Do you choose to look at the future wondering what is around the corner or do you dread every day. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
59 min listen
019 – God Wants You to Make an Impact: Small acts done with great love can transform the world. -Jill Todd - Do you realize the power that you have? Every day we are presented with opportunities to change someone's life be it through a conversation, a situation, a prayer. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
53 min listen
008 – Eyes Wide Open: Are you able to communicate your desires to your spouse? How do you react when he/she suggests trying something new. In this podcast Tony and Alisa talk about one of Tony's ideas and how it played out in the bedroom. - by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
35 min listen
018 – Interview: Facebook and Your Marriage: We are pleased to have had the chance to interview Jason & Kelli Krafsky authors of Facebook and Your Marriage. - Jason & Kelli have been married since 1994 and been on Facebook since 2008. They have written a number of articles, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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012 – Fireproof: "Never leave your partner, especially in a fire." - We are a little behind the times but better late than never. This is an amazing movie that will dramatically impact you wherever you are in your marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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081: I WANNA LEAVE A LEGACY: One of these days we are no longer going to walk this earth. - We'll be in heaven with our Father enjoying the good life. - Those left behind though will live on with the teachings we showed them. - by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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016 – An Attitude of Service: Do you have an attitude of service in your marriage? You can make a difference in your marriage, in your life, in the world. By choosing to serve, without expectation or requirement of a return, you free yourself to fully enjoy intimacy. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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003 – Rejection: Our McDonald’s Theory: Have you ever given any thought to the power the word NO has on your marriage? What might be a minor decision for a wife/husband (do we or don't we make love tonight) can have a larger impact on our marriages, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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052 – The Christmas Story: Have you ever stopped to think about the couple behind the Christmas story? Mary and Joseph faced incredible challenges in their young relationship, but they had God the Father and God the Son at the center of their marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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011 – Our Beginning…How the Romance Started: We step back in time to talk about how it all started for us. It was the summer of 1994 when Alisa came to the University of Colorado at Boulder on an internship program. I was a student, cook, and maintenance man around the fraternity house where she ... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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007 – Pornography: A Secret That Can Destroy Your Marriage: Are you aware of the destructive force that pornography can have in your marriage? 28,358 individuals are viewing porn every second Internet porn generated $2.84 billion in 2006 70% of porn is viewed between the 9-5 eight-hour workday (LJ INdex, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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032 – Home Sweet Home: We spent last week in Morro Bay on our family vacation. We had a lot of fun together and a few not so fun times. Just goes to show that we are still a work in progress and that this thing called marriage takes on-going effort. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
59 min listen
030 – Sex In The Bedroom: Are you able to share your sexual passions and desires to your spouse? What's keeping you from having meaningful conversation about this area of your life? There are so many distractions pulling us in so many directions that we forget that God has give... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
59 min listen
022 – Is It Safe To Share My Emotions: Have you created a marriage where it is safe to share your emotions-both the good and the bad? Are you willing to let the person, who is supposed to love you the most, in on what is truly going on with you? by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
54 min listen
043 – I Don’t Want the World, I Want YOU!: Have you stopped to think about what your spouse and family really want from you? Do you know that most of them would be willing to have less “stuff” if it meant more of you? Part of making your marriage extraordinary is investing in the relationsh by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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047 – Getting On the Same Page: We are almost to 2011 and it’s a great time to be thinking about your goals for next year. So often we focus on our individual goals but it’s time to sit down and work through the goals the two of you have for your marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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050 – Shhh! I’ve Got a Secret: We had two "We Did IT!" this week! And an awesome number of listener emails that we talk through as they deal with family boundaries, make up sex, and your encouraging words. - Secrets can destroy your marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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004 – Listener Feedback: In this episode we answer a number of questions from one of our listeners about ONE Extraordinary Marriage. Click here to read the email. Some of the questions we answer are: - Who we are? Why we are doing this? Where did ONE come from? by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
55 min listen
020 – Shaking Things UP!: Has your marriage fallen into a rut? Do you want to break out of the routines both emotionally and sexually? Join us for the 1st Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge. Today we talk about the details and how this can be transformational for your marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
56 min listen
027 – The Whole Enchilada: Are you loving your spouse with your whole self, serving them in all areas or are you just giving them a part of yourself? Intimacy involves more than just the physical intimacy we think of most the time. There is emotional, intellectual, recreational, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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031 – Queen Size Bed: This week we are not in the studio aka the garage, but instead podcasting from a rock overlooking Morro Bay. We used our digital recorder and Tony's portion is a bit crackly. Sorry about this and we'll make sure to have this corrected the next time. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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058 – Are You Looking to Score? Shoot For the Goal!: We’ve heard that life is like a “box of chocolates” but after watching kids play soccer tonight I think I might have to change it to marriage is like a soccer game. It’s interesting to see how much of what we learn and experience as children r by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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025 – Getting Away: It's time to get away with your spouse and reconnect. Getting away gives you the opportunity to have those deep conversations, to sleep late and explore new places with your one and only.Getting away allows you to refocus your priorities and make your ... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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034 – Can We Talk?: Week 2 - Stripped Down 13 Keys to Unlocking Intimacy in Your Marriage Small Group Podcast - Communication is vital to any marriage and it's importance cannot be overstated. You need to work past the surface conversation and learn about what is really... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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494: SEX BEFORE DATE NIGHT

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