The 12 Lists Men and Women Think They Know: The First Book on How to Build and Destroy Your Relationship

By Anise Ambrose and Moisaquw Blanc

This book was written to help the common men and women to understand one another. Majority of people out there, who reads relationship books, usually come out in the end with half the knowledge or none at all. They seem to forget what they have just read. The reason why this happen is either two things; first, the reader probably already knew about those topics, thus making it daunting for him or her to relate to the scenarios the book presented. Most relationship books may sound the same as the rest to the reader unless something new is introduced. Second, many authors want to sugarcoat everything. We believe the ultimate mistake an author can do when writing relationship books, is to treat readers like children by sugarcoating every word. We feel the readers have the right to know all the truth. The whole good, dirty, damn truth! With that said, we apologize in advance if any words in this book seem to be unmannerly. Our intention is not to enrage you. Nor is it to conceal what most authors are afraid to say in order to protect their prestige. You will notice that this may be the only book on relationships so far that is not afraid to tell it how it is. Sugar coating does not exist here!

• Language: English
• Publisher: AuthorHouse
• Release date: Feb 26, 2013
• ISBN: 9781481715898

Anise Ambrose

“Anise and Moisaque have hosted relationship seminars that helped many couples to open their eyes to what they have been missing. These two authors, travel from cities to cities in order to share their knowledge of what a healthy solid relationship really is. 11,000 individuals and couples have already benefited from their seminars, finally, a relationship book with a blueprint to true love.” - Jackie Pellot - Literary Agent

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© 2013 by Moisaque Blanc & Anise Ambrose. All rights reserved.

No part of this book may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted by any means without the written permission of the author.

Published by AuthorHouse 02/14/2013

ISBN: 978-1-4817-1590-4 (sc)

ISBN: 978-1-4817-1589-8 (e)

Library of Congress Control Number: 2013902897

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

INTRODUCTION

Why Write This Book?

How the Book is Organized

LIST 1, SEX

Lessons on Sex

1. Teasing during sex

2. Fantasies

3. Trying something new

4. Submissive and dominate

5. Applying the correct force

Mistakes during Sex

Women’s Mistakes

Men’s Mistakes

A Woman’s G-Spot

A Man’s G-spot

Open Discussion

LIST 2, LOVE

Relationships That Show More Love

Lessons on Love

1. When do you know you have found love?

2. Compatibility

3. Be fair and selfless

4. Love and lies

5. Avoid name-calling

6. Ego kills love

7. Couples that love God together, stay strong together

Let’s Take a Break

Death of a Loved One

Love and Objects

Differences in Age

Boring Marriages

Passionate Lovemaking

Being Supportive

Abusive Relationships

One-night Stands

LIST 3, SOME AND ALL

When to Use the Word All?

When Not to Use the Word All?

LIST 4, CHEATING

Why Women Cheat

Why Men Cheat

Consequences of Cheating

Effects of Finding out Your Partner Cheated

Cheating When You Have a Good Partner

LIST 5, MONEY

Joint Accounts

It’s Just Business

Financial Issues

Face Value

Who are You?

Moving in with Debt

LIST 6, THE MAN CAVE

Women’s Reaction inside the Man Cave

Rules of the Man Cave for Women

Rules of the man cave for men (Optional)

The Reason a Man Needs Their Man Cave

BAD WAYS MEN DEAL WITH THEIR PROBLEMS

BAD WAYS WOMEN DEAL WITH THEIR PROBLEMS

LIST 7, SAME SEX PARTNERS

The Story of Chelsea Kane

When a Man Wants to Turn a Female Straight

Losing Family and Friends because You Are Gay

Bisexual partners

Finding out Your Friend is Gay

Coping With a Gay Relative

Finding Out Your Soul Mate is Gay

The Story of Tina Ramirez

Difference between Gay and Lesbian

LIST 8, LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

Things are Not the Same

LIST 9, YOUR HEALTH

Your Partner’s Diet Plan for You

Discipline

LIST 10, THE LITTLE THINGS WE DO

Technology Love

Friend-Zone

Avoiding Tough Topics

Changing Him or Her

(FLTCFO) Fun List That Couples Fight Over

LIST 11, THE FORM OF ARGUMENTS

Wrong Ways to Argue

A List of What to Remember When Arguing

LIST 12, OUR SECRET INGREDIENTS TO A SOLID RELATIONSHIP

Communication

Understanding

Trust

Love

Respect

Support

Commitment

Honesty

Random Questions from our Interviewers

OTHER WORKS BY PRODIGY6

GLOSSARY

ABOUT THE AUTHORS

TO ALL MY LOYAL READERS

To all my fellow readers who have been a constant support of the works I do, I say thank you. I write this brief message to alert you all that the things in this book may cause awareness as well as conflicts. Everything I point out in this book is based on true stories, research, interviews, and some of my personal experiences. Note that none of what I say in this book is to enrage the reader’s mind. I simply created this book from seminars held with my co-writer to bring you good reading material. My goal is to help common men and women to understand each other, but most of all; it is to help you understand yourself. My true intention is to help couples learn the art of a great relationship and to understand why men and women do the things they do.

The topics that my co-writer and I will discuss are sex, love, money, cheating, same sex partners, business, and so on. Let me remind you: This book is not for the faint of heart. Also, I recommend that if you believe that the world is only in shades of black and white, then I strongly urge that you pick up another book filled with unicorns and butterflies. For those of you that want to learn something new about these topics, you have already made a wise decision. This book is a chrestomathy of lessons to help your relationship move to the next level. I wish you all the best.

Thanks,

Moisaque Blanc (Mo)

TO ALL MY LOYAL READERS

To my loyal readers, you have been my greatest supporters. My journey for writing this book, was one of the most challenging, yet interesting, unique informative tools to those who wish to expand their horizon on relationships, and more. I hope after reading this book, you will feel more guided like footprints in the sand for the first time. Thus, reading it over is a good way of digesting what is important. I have made it my goal to share the art of building and enjoying a great relationship. Thank you all in advance for your support. It is greatly appreciated.

Sincerely,

Anise Ambrose

A Dedication to:

1. Andrea Martinez is a strong-minded officer of whom I will always give thanks for her support of always being there for me. As a best friend of mine, she is the most courageous person I have ever met. She is committed to being the number one mom to her two daughters. I admire her for always maintaining a cheerful and positive attitude throughout her daily tasks.

2. Angie Martinez is the most wonderful person I have ever met. I admire and appreciate her with all my heart. She is a hard worker and dedicated to helping people with a bubbly personality and positive attitude. From motivating someone toward achieving their goals to simply offering them a job, Angie is a phenomenal woman.

3. Arlette Thadal is the most loving aunt I could ask for in my life. She has never pointed me in a bad direction where I would regret my decision. She has been through so much hell in her life, yet here she is with a smile upon her face. She taught me how to stand my ground and showed me how to move on when times are tough. If any of my readers have ever met someone that so loving, and gives you the strength to press forward, then you know how my aunt makes me feel. I love you, and I wish you many more smiles upon your face. 27773.jpg

4. Carmela Smith has a gentle heart and a bright smile. She helps me through the hard times and I am not sure what I would do without her. She is a great listener and works hard for what she wants. If you ever need someone to help you through dark times, I love that about you. Thank you, Carmela, for everything.

5. Dr. Margaret Barrow, thank you for your guidance. It helped me become a better student. You taught me to have faith in what I write. Your past career was the inspirational guide to my continuing a higher learning of achievement.

6. Eric Recchia, CEO of LBC. Inc., is a motivational speaker. I want to thank him for inspiring me to learn as much as I did from a leader like him. Never have I meet a boss with the intelligence such as his. When things get rough for people, he neither, pities them nor does he tell them a story about his life. He tells them Figure it out. These small three words alone have the power to force someone to think for himself or herself. It allows you to get up and… figure it out. Thank you, Eric for the motivation. I will carry that with me throughout my life.

7. Fassinou Ange J. Vincent, founder of Sky Ange Works is a hard worker. I do not believe he knows the definition of sleep. He encourages me to push as hard as I can. Fassinou does not live in America and yet he works harder than most Americans that live in this great nation. If there is one thing I could wish for, it is to meet him earlier in my life. Thank you, Fassinou, for sharing the knowledge of business connections with me.

8. Gladys Geter, to whom I will I always be grateful, you have been one of my greatest supporters. You are a great listener, and very inspirational and trustworthy person. Your friendship means everything to me. You are very thoughtful and loving. I appreciate you as the person that you are, a hardworking and extraordinary woman. Thank you.

9. Greg Sommerer is one of most interesting human beings that one can come across. He is able to keep a professional demeanor, while remaining funny and positive. Did I mention how funny he is? He has taught me the tools I need to be a survivor. Thank you, Greg for being a great role model.

10. Horatien Blanc is a hardworking music producer and founder of 1Hope Entertainment and one of the best team members of Prodigy6. He constantly supports me when others would not. He shows people that it is not the end of a journey that makes the man, but the middle of the journey that makes you. He will forever be a great person for the transition he has gone through to transform himself into the man I know today. Thank you from the heart.

11. Hussein Abdallah, you have made me proud of you in many ways. I love you with all my heart, and will support you throughout your career always. Be all that you can be, as I will always be there for you.

12. James Ambrose, thank you for supporting me through my most precious times of need.

13. Mary Hamblin, is perhaps one of the most spiritual, yet down to earth people you can meet. She is always looking for a brighter tomorrow. She constantly checks up on me to make sure that I am doing well. Thank you, Mary for always being the great person that you are. Your personality and big warm heart keeps me smiling every day.

14. Madonna Zhong, her diligence and honesty are what drive her to achieve her goals. Thank you for being there. I love you with all my heart and we will always remain true friends.

15. Michael F. Jean, account representative of LBC. Inc., is always a positive man. I have never seen this man in a bad mood and that is what I will carry with me always. I learned so many things in the short time I have known him. I hope that one day his wish to have his own business comes sooner than later. He deserves it. Keep up the positive attitude and keep high-fiving. Thank you.

16. Michael Espinal, is a true friend since childhood. Never has a friend like him put up with me for so long. I want to say thank for keeping my compass pointing in the right direction. Thank you for remaining a true and positive friend, and a co-founder of Prodigy6.

17. Michael Straker, thank you for your support. You are the most inspirational person in every way. Mike is all about the expansion of horizon. His positivity in being creative, skillful, not to mention his brilliance are beyond an admirable word of success. He has been devoting his time to helping people to achieve their goals and never once ask for anything in return.

18. Monica Emmanuel, my former classmate, I thank you for always being dependable. We have known each other for quite some time. We will always remain true friends. I wish you the best of luck with your career.

19. Rosemary Ambrose, I love you with all my heart. I am happy to have you as my sister. You are the most wonderful and easygoing person ever. Thank you for being there.

20. Sellina Curbello, you are amazing and caring in your own special way. I know we have not known each other for as long, but you are someone I can count on. You have shown a great amount of caring and compassion for the