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    Fool Me Once: Should I Take Back My Cheating Husband?
    Blindsided By His Betrayal:: Surviving the Shock of Your Husband's Infidelity
    Audiobook series2 titles

    (Surviving Infidelity, Advice From A Marriage Therapist) () Series

    Written by Caroline Madden

    Narrated by Cathi Colas

    ()

    About this series

    You've discovered that your husband has cheated on you. Your world is crashing down. You feel like a nuclear bomb just decimated your entire world, and you are trying to shield yourself from the fallout. You've been sucker punched in the soul. Infidelity in marriage makes you doubt everything, including your own judgement.

    You've built a life together. You have a home. You have children. He seems sincere in wanting to work things out. You want to stay married. But then you think to yourself, "Only weak women stay with cheaters.Strong women walk!" Then you loop and want a divorce, until you think of your kids being spilt between two homes and now you want to stay married. Lather, Rinse, Repeat.

    You will never get unstuck until you develop criteria around if your husband is sincere in wanting your marriage to recover after infidelity. 

    In Fool Me Once, Dr. Caroline Madden a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist shares the criteria she uses in to determine if a man is truly remorseful and determined to save his marriage or if he is likely to cheat again. 

    Here is some of the information she shares: 

    • 5 Things That Look Suspicious (But Probably Aren't)
    • 5 Signs You Should Consider Giving Him Another Chance 
    • 7 Signs He is Going to Cheat Again (And You Will Be Hurt Again)

    Infidelity in marriage is traumatic and you need to take time to assess the situation. Fool Me Once will give you the tools you need to evaluate your relationship. It will help you determine whether you should trust your husband or not and decide if your marriage is worth saving. 

    As they say "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." 

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherTrain of Thought Press
    Release dateMay 18, 2018
    Fool Me Once: Should I Take Back My Cheating Husband?
    Blindsided By His Betrayal:: Surviving the Shock of Your Husband's Infidelity

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      Blindsided By His Betrayal:: Surviving the Shock of Your Husband's Infidelity
      Blindsided By His Betrayal:: Surviving the Shock of Your Husband's Infidelity

      Blindsided By His Betrayal:: Surviving the Shock of Your Husband's Infidelity

      Caroline Madden
      4/5 - 7 ratings
      4/5 - 7 ratings

      Your husband cheated on you, and now you don't recognize yourself. You used to be so together, so trusting. Now you're falling apart and doing things you would have never even considered doing, such as: Obsessively checking your husband's cell phone while he is in the shower-Facebook, texts, emails Freaking out if he is 10 minutes late (or if you text him and he doesn't reply right away) After a rare happy moment with your husband, getting angry and raging at him out of nowhere You're scared. Angry. Obsessive. Devastated. One minute, you hope your marriage will make it. The next minute, you want to kill him. (And the other woman, too.) All of this makes you feel like you are losing it. Sometimes you worry that you are going crazy. You wonder if you'll ever be the same again. You are NOT crazy! You are having a normal reaction to being blindsided by your husband's betrayal! Your reactions are completely rational and expected responses to such a painful experience. This book will help you figure out what to do as you deal with these explosive emotions. It's important that you understand that your feelings--erratic and unpredictable as they may be--are normal. You need to understand why you feel the things you feel and what to do with those feelings. Dr. Caroline Madden, infidelity recovery expert describes: Post-traumatic Affair Syndrome (PTAS) 7 Actions you want to take but should NOT (as They May Backfire!) Understand the thoughts that plague you 12 Actions that will help you get back to the woman you were The stupid things your husband says and why he says it BONUS: Two quizzes to help you determine why he cheated (will be available in your Library along with the audio) Buy "Blindsided by His Betrayal" and take back your sanity and power!

      Your husband cheated on you, and now you don't recognize yourself. You used to be so together, so trusting. Now you're falling apart and doing things you would have never even considered doing, such as: Obsessively checking your husband's cell phone while he is in the shower-Facebook, texts, emails Freaking out if he is 10 minutes late (or if you text him and he doesn't reply right away) After a rare happy moment with your husband, getting angry and raging at him out of nowhere You're scared. Angry. Obsessive. Devastated. One minute, you hope your marriage will make it. The next minute, you want to kill him. (And the other woman, too.) All of this makes you feel like you are losing it. Sometimes you worry that you are going crazy. You wonder if you'll ever be the same again. You are NOT crazy! You are having a normal reaction to being blindsided by your husband's betrayal! Your reactions are completely rational and expected responses to such a painful experience. This book will help you figure out what to do as you deal with these explosive emotions. It's important that you understand that your feelings--erratic and unpredictable as they may be--are normal. You need to understand why you feel the things you feel and what to do with those feelings. Dr. Caroline Madden, infidelity recovery expert describes: Post-traumatic Affair Syndrome (PTAS) 7 Actions you want to take but should NOT (as They May Backfire!) Understand the thoughts that plague you 12 Actions that will help you get back to the woman you were The stupid things your husband says and why he says it BONUS: Two quizzes to help you determine why he cheated (will be available in your Library along with the audio) Buy "Blindsided by His Betrayal" and take back your sanity and power!

    • 2

      Fool Me Once: Should I Take Back My Cheating Husband?
      Fool Me Once: Should I Take Back My Cheating Husband?

      Fool Me Once: Should I Take Back My Cheating Husband?

      Caroline Madden
      1/5 - 2 ratings
      1/5 - 2 ratings

      You've discovered that your husband has cheated on you. Your world is crashing down. You feel like a nuclear bomb just decimated your entire world, and you are trying to shield yourself from the fallout. You've been sucker punched in the soul. Infidelity in marriage makes you doubt everything, including your own judgement. You've built a life together. You have a home. You have children. He seems sincere in wanting to work things out. You want to stay married. But then you think to yourself, "Only weak women stay with cheaters.Strong women walk!" Then you loop and want a divorce, until you think of your kids being spilt between two homes and now you want to stay married. Lather, Rinse, Repeat. You will never get unstuck until you develop criteria around if your husband is sincere in wanting your marriage to recover after infidelity.  In Fool Me Once, Dr. Caroline Madden a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist shares the criteria she uses in to determine if a man is truly remorseful and determined to save his marriage or if he is likely to cheat again.  Here is some of the information she shares:  5 Things That Look Suspicious (But Probably Aren't) 5 Signs You Should Consider Giving Him Another Chance  7 Signs He is Going to Cheat Again (And You Will Be Hurt Again) Infidelity in marriage is traumatic and you need to take time to assess the situation. Fool Me Once will give you the tools you need to evaluate your relationship. It will help you determine whether you should trust your husband or not and decide if your marriage is worth saving.  As they say "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." 

      You've discovered that your husband has cheated on you. Your world is crashing down. You feel like a nuclear bomb just decimated your entire world, and you are trying to shield yourself from the fallout. You've been sucker punched in the soul. Infidelity in marriage makes you doubt everything, including your own judgement. You've built a life together. You have a home. You have children. He seems sincere in wanting to work things out. You want to stay married. But then you think to yourself, "Only weak women stay with cheaters.Strong women walk!" Then you loop and want a divorce, until you think of your kids being spilt between two homes and now you want to stay married. Lather, Rinse, Repeat. You will never get unstuck until you develop criteria around if your husband is sincere in wanting your marriage to recover after infidelity.  In Fool Me Once, Dr. Caroline Madden a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist shares the criteria she uses in to determine if a man is truly remorseful and determined to save his marriage or if he is likely to cheat again.  Here is some of the information she shares:  5 Things That Look Suspicious (But Probably Aren't) 5 Signs You Should Consider Giving Him Another Chance  7 Signs He is Going to Cheat Again (And You Will Be Hurt Again) Infidelity in marriage is traumatic and you need to take time to assess the situation. Fool Me Once will give you the tools you need to evaluate your relationship. It will help you determine whether you should trust your husband or not and decide if your marriage is worth saving.  As they say "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." 

    Author

    Caroline Madden

    Caroline Madden, PhD is Los Angeles based pro-marriage therapist and internationally known author and lecturer. Her writing focuses on difficult relationship topics such as: parental death, emotional affairs, another types of infidelity in marriage.Madden graduated in 1993 from Cornell University with a BS in Labor Relations and worked for a number of years in Labor Relations/Human Resources in the private sector and government. She believes that her extensive training in conflict resolution and collective bargaining gave her tools to later help even the most difficult couples.In 2001, Madden earned her Master of Arts in Psychology from Phillips Graduate Institute. Her training covered all areas of psychotherapy but centered on relationship dynamics. Since opening her private practice, Madden has focused her couples counseling on helping people save their marriages after infidelity.Since opening her private practice, Dr. Caroline has focused her couples counseling on helping people rebuild their marriages after infidelity. In addition to helping men explore why they have gone outside their marriage she helps women deal with the symptoms of trauma related to the affair.In an effort to better help women reduce symptoms without psychotropic medication, Dr. Caroline returned to school and earned her Doctorate in Holistic Counseling. Her dissertation explored the use of meditation as a way to reduce trauma symptoms in wives who have been cheated on.Dr. Caroline is the married mother of two young boys. She's been in the same loving relationship for almost two decades and understands first-hand that even the best relationships take work.

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