Did sex ban make him leave?
Q Two months after my awful divorce, I met someone new. But I didn’t want to rush into intimacy so asked him to wait before we had intercourse. At first he agreed, but eventually he said he couldn’t put up with not having sex. And when I kept asking him to wait, he left. Now I’ve lost all confidence. How am I going to find a partner again if I can’t be intimate with a man?
SUSAN SAYS
A The issue here isn’t that you can’t be intimate with a man. It’s that at first you didn’t want to be intimate because you felt vulnerable after your divorce.