All of our relationships include some conflict, the big question is how skillfully we handle that conflict when it appears. Dr. Rick Hanson joins Forrest to walk us through some effective ways to deal with common forms of interpersonal conflict. They explore the four common disagreements, the subtle ways power shows up in our relationships, separating content from process, and how to stand your ground.The material from this episode comes in part from Rick’s new book Making Great Relationships: Simple Practices for Solving Conflicts, Building Connection, and Fostering Love. You can find it wherever books are sold.Watch the Episode: Prefer watching video? You can watch this episode on YouTube.Key Topics:0:00: Introduction and Rick’s new book1:25: Common conflicts Rick has seen in couples counseling3:40: The importance of the way something is said8:10: Disentangling tone from content9:45: Distinguishing intent from impact12:10: The unconscious functions of conflict17:50: Navigating differences in temperament, and cultivating enthusiasm25:05: Power tripping, control, and misinterpretation29:50: Primate politics, escalation, and identifying what’s really happening35:45: Trust39:15: How much are we willing to tolerate?41:10: Dealing with entitlement, and when to push back43:40: Peoples’ capacity to change, balancing harmony and truth46:10: Focus on communicating for yourself49:05: Recap Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link.Sponsors:This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp, and you can join over a million people using the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month!Want to sleep better? Try the Calm app! Visit calm.com/beingwell for 40% off a premium subscription.