How to Have a Hard Conversations with People You Love 
In this week’s episode, Quinn teaches listeners 8 Steps to Follow when having a hard conversation. In it, Quinn shares how a friend called her about a family conflict and said these words, “Now before I tell you my side of the story, I reserve the right to be wrong. And I could not know what I’m talking about” which led Quinn to feel like this was a powerful topic to address before the holidays.? 
In the episode, Quin teaches listeners: 

What to say when reaching out for a hard conversation 
4 Family Communication Patterns 
8 Steps to Follow for Hard Conversations 
Specifically, Quinn gives tips that will help the listener understand: 
Reach out to them: I want peace.? 
Know that you can be wrong. 
Define a goal. Agree on terms before you sit down 
Set a time limit. 
Acknowledge your responsibility in the situation and conflict.? 
Listen and validate. 
Share your side – “This is my experience. These are my feelings.” 
Restate desired outcome.? 

Mind Renewal Tips
Always remember, “There is your side – my side – and the truth.” 
Scripture Renewal:
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7? 
Resources:
https://study.com/learn/lesson/family-communication-patterns-overview-theory-styles.html#:~:text=The%20four%20family%20communication%20patterns,low%20conversation%2C%20low%20conformity).