What he’s saying about you doesn’t have to be your truth. Just because he says "You don't make me a priority" "You're crazy, you need to stop acting like I'm the problem, you're the problem" "You're a hypocrite" "You were the one that messed up" "You're just seeking attention" -- doesn’t mean it’s your reality. Nor does it mean you need to convince him otherwise.    In this episode: Learn how to let him have his own thoughts about you without it affecting YOU Identify your true identity How to not let your past dictate your present or future Productive disagreement