What Will "They" Say?
 
PODCAST #423
 














What will "they" say is often part of the internal self-talk that can keep you sidelined from your dreams. This podcast episode explores who "they" are and how to get their voices to quiet down and even go to "mute" so that you can get on with your life and go do big things. It's time to stop caring so much about what "they" think and this podcast pep-talk will super-fuel you to take massive action and to go be audaciously bold. Get the full show notes at ww.trishblackwell.com/423In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we're talking about:



What "they" voices are holding you back in life?What is it that you are so afraid they will say?What happens if you quit or if you stick to something with fierce determination? How to know which to do and how to make sure you quit the right things in 2021 and stick to the things you really want. 








 
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What "They" Say About Me?
 


First off, who is "they"?



An elusive group of people that you can't nameA large category of people that intimate youA small group of specific friends / bullies from 10 years agoA collection of your own thoughts of self-doubt, small-thinking and shame



Are they really even talking about you?



Are you going to give them the right to reign in your life?



And, if they even do say something - so what. 



Do you want to live cautiously or courageously?



Do you want to make an impact or protect yourself?



Do you want to come alive or do you want to live half-heartedly?



Prenez vie, prenez vie. 


 
Feeling and Failing - The Two Things To Go After
 


If you're good at feeling, you'll stop self-sabotaging.



If you're good at failing, you'll stop procrastinating.



Feeling will give you resilience and self-awareness. Your increased awareness will give you higher quality thoughts and a better self-concept, enabling you to see yourself capable of things far beyond your previous emotional intelligence.



Failing will give you courage, perseverance and a stick-to-it-ness / scrappiness that results in the confidence that there is truly nothing that can stand between you and the results you want in life. 


 
When Quitting Is Good
 


-Stopping something is powerful, not always weak



-Have the courage to do what is right for you - to pivot



-Break up with past behaviors 


 
How To Stick To What You Want
 


Increase self-trustHave a higher standard of integrity (keeping your word to yourself)Start telling a different narrative about what "they" sayPut more value on what "you" say and what you wantStop worrying about how you look doing it and just do it 


 
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