ARE YOU GETTING IN YOUR OWN WAY? THIS IS HOW TO STOP SELF-SABOTAGE...
PODCAST #317
This week on The Confidence Podcast we're chatting about:

How to know if you're getting in your own way or if life is getting in your way
Understanding the real root of self-sabotage 
3 ways to stop getting in your own way


REVIEW OF THE WEEK:
Emwarrxox

I am so blessed to have come across your podcast one day searching for something to help build up my confidence and I've been listening to it religiously every morning while I get ready for work to get in a good confident headspace. During your podcast, you mention asking for topic requests from your viewers and something I struggle with daily is that I find myself making excuses for people that treat me badly and accepting it. I struggle with standing up for myself and realizing when it's OK to stop making excuses for other people's actions and to stop over apologizing to those people when in fact they are the ones who should be apologizing. I just always feel like I'm in the wrong Trish, and I'm tired of it. I hope this makes sense. I love your podcast so much, thank you again for everything you do and for being so open and honest about your life and your struggles. I can't thank you enough - Em


SPONSORSHIP NOTE: 
FREE WORKSHOP: ALL HAPPENING THURSDAY NIGHT, MAY 9TH at 8:30 PM EST!

The Supermom's How-To-Guide to Living With Less Stress and More Joy. ??‍♀️

I can't tell you how many conversations I've had with moms who have INCREDIBLENESS within them and I'm clapping ?? and saying "YES, you are killing it as a mom; your kids won the mom lottery!!" and they're like, "Okay, but ... how do I stop feeling so overwhelmed, so STRESSED and so LESS THAN??!" "How can I just know I'm doing enough and actually relax and give myself permission to have less stress and more joy - my life feels too hectic for that to be realistic!"

"Feeling enough" might as well be one of Jupiter's moons when you don't have a mindset strategy and simple plan to stay in your own lane of mom life. I GET IT.

Then, I challenged myself to simplify my "to-do list" as a mom and everything changed.?‍♀️ 4 years ago, as a new mom with a new baby and a new business, my life was a mess. I had exactly zero ideas about

how to stop comparing myself to others and how to step out of stress and "not-enoughness" into the true joy of motherhood.??‍♀️ Fast forward and now, I run a six-figure business from home while being a mom to two littles, and loving my life. I have learned how to let go of the pressure to be everything-to-everyone and have learned how to be a super-me so that I can be all I want to be to the people I most love. ️

Learn the steps I use all the time to manage my time, my priorities and my mind so that I can mom at a higher level and actually have time to be myself, grow my business, be a wife and be a mom.
In the FREE workshop you'll learn how to:
✓ eliminate comparison from your life
✓ give yourself credit for how well you are doing, instead of focusing on where you are feeling overwhelmed, inadequate or behind
✓ figure out what your supermom power actually is
✓ the secret strategies to doing less so that you can do more
✓ and more

Join me? --- Grab your set here! http://www.trishblackwell.com/supermom
Preston Pugmire's TEDx Talk
Mindset is More Important Than Strategy, YouTube Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YiQQ1EWMFHg

HOW TO KNOW IF IT'S YOU OR IF IT'S LIFE
You may not like this answer, but it's always you.

Where there is a will, there is a way.

We overcomplicate success, often driving us to get in our way.

There are a thousand ways we get in our own way, but here are a few to get your mental juices going > procrastination, poor time management, overeating, overdrinking, over-exercising, perfectionism, waiting to be more prepared, over-committing, overthinking, having mixed priorities, being too obsessed with control.

Be the man in the arena.

I would rather live life all in,