Eccentric Adulations: "Crazy Love"
By Jamil May
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Jamil May is actually a wordsmith. He enjoys writing poetically but when something resonates on his heart or his mind, he tells a story. He’s creative and innovative. A strong willed man who’s vulnerable enough to spill his real feelings, yet strong enough to remain dilligent in this life.
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Eccentric Adulations - Jamil May
ECCENTRIC
ADULATIONS
CRAZY LOVE
JAMIL MAY
Copyright © 2024 Jamil May.
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ISBN: 978-1-6657-4164-4 (sc)
ISBN: 978-1-6657-4165-1 (e)
Library of Congress Control Number: 2023905941
Archway Publishing rev. date: 02/01/2024
DEDICATION
This goes out to all the women I’ve ever loved. Whether it was correctly or incorrectly my heart needed to heal and learn to love itself. I pray yours does the same.
PREFACE
Most of the people I know have already troubled me with questions as to why I am writing a book about love. What do I know that hasn’t been told already? What could I spend fifteen chapters consulting about? Well for starters, experience is the one thing that I am discussing. Since the beginning of time; love has been in our faces with our loving parents or guardians. Then trickling down into our immediate to extensive families, but does love begin and end there? Does love have a limitation? Should you only love your blood relatives unconditionally? These minor questions are what opened the vastness that Eccentric Adulations embodies. What is love?
I couldn’t fathom the idea of love at first. I felt so stuck on the unhealthy ways that I felt. I grew accustomed to the toxic teachings of the generations before me. The woe is me
mentality that never looked surreal. I always felt that those kinds of thoughts couldn’t be considerate of someone else, which led me to a major stage in my life. The stage that is considered owning your faults and wrongs. "Accountability." When I hold myself accountable is when I truly notice the collateral beauty that love holds. When I held myself accountable, I realized the importance of my identity. As a person involved with another person it’s important to remember your role. No matter what position you hold in someone’s life it’s personally on you to uphold your end of the bargain. I noticed often that when it comes to love, people drop the ball. Mistakenly loving with fear of losing, which in reality creates the loss. Which led me back to the initial question at hand. What’s love? Is love a feeling? All I could utilize at the time; was the relationships I knew and that’s what made me call love, crazy. After careful consideration I couldn’t comprehend why I felt so many ways when considering all that I love.
As an adolescent you don’t differentiate between love or infatuation; you know they both feel good. As you mature though not only do you look towards your parents/guardian but the media, the television, the movies, even our peers. These various pressures help us see what the idea of love truly means. Most people stop there and fantasize. Pondering on prince charming fairytales and films with successful conclusions. The idea of love must always be this feel-good entity that absorbs negative energy. When you become an adult, and have a fair share amount of relationships, you learn the harsh realities that love comes with. Those sleepless nights hoping they answer a call. Those raged fights that ended with forgiveness in your hearts. What about those in-depth conversations that took natural releases? Those kinds of situations lead directly to love just as the scene where he kissed her in the rain. We learn over time that love has various lenses and the one we look through is how we notice what love is. Maturing in love means learning what love is, but a mature person in love knows exactly what it takes to unconditionally love.
That’s what triggered me at nineteen years old, maturing in love; seeking its truth. Love for me didn’t start beautifully. Since I was a child, really every girl I happen to like never liked me back. I took that kind of stuff on the chin until I met someone, I thought I could love forever.
I spent a good nine to ten years learning what forever truly meant, not just to myself but those I chose to love. It took a decade to comprehend the various extremities that come with love. Once I experienced enough at home and in the world when it came to love, I evolved my train of thought. I considered religion for love. I considered unborn children for love. I considered myself for love. These minor considerations made me think deeper. How does God want us to love? What does a respectful man look like for my daughter? What does a responsible husband look like in his marriage? I couldn’t find answers to most of my questions; so, I had to seek the answers within my life to draw some conclusions. This began as a search for love and ended up being a tale to tell many how to identify and healthily continue to love. I speak darkly throughout this story overshadowing the true beauty with the toxic energy we all seem to enjoy so much, including myself. The trauma written out is a culmination of a heart full of love and a mind full of rage. The story is called Eccentric Adulations
which dismantles the idea of this crazy love we all seemingly can’t live without. A love that would not manifest as beautifully if it didn’t begin and end with self. Welcome to the craziest love that stems from the internal and affects everything externally.
INTRODUCTION
The love that most people enjoy today is either portrayed or presented. Whereas, unconditional love; is worked on continuously. Here lies an open dialogue between two figurative heads and one whole heart. Metaphorically, those heads fuel your heart’s desires which then becomes the ultimate sacrifice. Eccentric Adulations is like a survival guide to the countless issues someone could face when dealing with love. Love
is considered crazy for numerous reasons but the main one is because it will make you stay even when you know you should leave.
Love is crazy because you could be so frustrated in the moment and still be madly in love with a person. As a human you can fault yourself for your mistakes, but it doesn’t mean you no longer love you. These are emotions and they sway from time to time and change your decisions. This makes love crazy because once its felt, you run into all these emotions. Love is a cycle but it’s a journey that you are supposed to venture through with a significant other. When you venture through love with yourself you begin to organize your life. Loving yourself means forgiving yourself, doing for yourself, being present with yourself. Loving someone else isn’t as important as loving yourself. You will notice that throughout the story.
This book is set up to connect to the world that surrounds me. This generation does not respect love. The world these days enjoy sex over love. Most people tend to fear falling in love because of the hurt or the need for someone else. My generation respectfully sucks at communicating for the purpose of understanding. The generation I come from are adult children begging to be heard. This makes the dating scene hard to trust these days. People do not fight fair anymore. The emotions run high, and the love becomes a loss. People nowadays tend to guard their hearts vigorously. There’s no growth or God and as