F! Love: What’S It to You?
By Anne Mitchell and Maverick MD
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Dare to explore what F Love really means to you. The worst that can happen is
the truth will set you free.
Live, Love, Laugh, Pray, & Hope for the best inspite of the worst
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F! Love - Anne Mitchell
© 2012 by Maverick MD & Anne Mitchell. All rights reserved.
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Unless otherwise noted definitions and terms are from Webster’s Dictionary. All quotes are used with expressed permission and all interviews with expressed permission from each subject.
First Edition: December 12, 2012
Published by AuthorHouse 12/10/2012
ISBN: 978-1-4772-9244-0 (sc)
ISBN: 978-1-4772-9243-3 (e)
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Contents
Introduction
Chapter 1 F! Love What It Means To Me
Chapter 2 Love is . . .
Chapter 3 Freakin’ Love!
Chapter 4 Father’s Love
Chapter 5 Funk Love!
Chapter 6 Forced love
Chapter 7 Forever Love
Chapter 8 Faithful Love
Chapter 9 Feeling Love
Chapter 10 Free Love
Chapter 11 Friendly love
Chapter 12 Finding Love
Chapter 13 Fake or Faulty Love
Chapter 14 Forget Love!
Chapter 15 Fantasy Love
Chapter 16 Forbidden or For real?
Chapter 17 F Love—what’s it mean to you
image001.jpgWARNING! WARNING! WARNING! WARNING!
NOW THAT I HAVE YOUR ATTENTION, IF YOU ARE STRONG ENOUGH DO NOT READ AHEAD. READ THIS PAGE FIRST AND TRY TO FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTIONS TO THE LETTER. THIS BOOK IS INTERACTIVE WHICH MEANS YOU GET TO WRITE A FEW CHAPTERS OF YOUR OWN. BUT IT ONLY WORK’S IF YOU READ THE FOLLOWING IN ORDER:
1. Introduction
2. Chapter 1
I KNOW YOU WILL BE TEMPTED BUT TRY NOT TO READ ANTYHING AFTER CHAPTER 1 UNTIL YOU HAVE WRITTEN YOUR THOUGHTS FOR CHAPTER 1. YOU GET TO WRITE THE FIRST CHAPTER. IT’S ALL ABOUT YOU. IF YOU ARE READING BY E-BOOK THEN GRAB A NOTE BOOK OR PIECE OF PAPER OR DO WHAT EVER YOU HAVE TO DO TO EXPRESS YOURSELF IN A WAY YOU CAN READ IT LATER. AFTER YOU HAVE DONE THAT FEEL FREE TO BROWSE AWAY AND FIND THE TOPIC THAT INTRIGUES YOU THE MOST IN THE TABLE OF CONTENTS WITH LISTED CHAPTERS. AT THE END OF THE BOOK THERE ARE SEVERAL FREE PAGES FOR YOU TO WRITE THE FINAL CHAPTER IN YOUR OWN WORDS. LOOK FOR OUR WEBSITE TO POST YOUR THOUGHTS AND ENDING TO F LOVE!
SEE YOU THERE . . .
Join us a www.f-lovemeans.com
Introduction
L ove and hate are like hot politics and religion . . . everyone has their own take on it. One minute, you’re flying high above the stars lifted by love; the next, you find yourself falling like a hot sack of potatoes making a painful, pitiful splat on the highway to hell because of love interrupted . . . or betrayed. Let’s keep this simple . . . this book is not about politics or religion, it’s about F! Love!
This book is less about the author and more about the readers. I have dedicated the first chapter to you, the reader. Make this book your very own. You decide and design your thoughts on the first few pages. What does F! Love mean to you? Now if you want to make this interesting, resist the temptation of reading ahead or skimming through pages. Don’t look! Instead, write the first chapter of your thoughts and what this concept means to you. No matter what you write it, will not change what has already been written.
Take your time or go full steam ahead. Freestyle if you will. Just write whatever comes to mind. What does F! Love mean to you? Fill in the missing letters and meaning of "F as you see or feel it and write it as if you mean it.
For most people, it will not be complicated. If you’ve lived a day in this life, the meaning of F has already been defined in your thoughts and by your experiences. Honestly, what was the very first thing that came to mind when you saw the title of this book?
Go for it. Do what you do and write down how you really feel. F! Love was written for you. But before you do, a word of advice—KEEP IT REAL! What’s the point of saying what you don’t really mean or writing down what you don’t really feel? This is all about you.
Don’t be afraid to assault the next few pages with your thoughts and true feelings. Be honest with yourself about what’s really going on in your head. Let it out! Scream in silence what ‘F’ Love means to you and let the words flow effortlessly as you write. And when you’re done, I challenge you not to read what you have written for at least three days. If you’re strong enough, I challenge the more disciplined readers not to read it at all until you have finished the book.
Chapter 1
F! Love
What It Means To Me
Chapter 2
Love is . . .
N ow that you have gotten that out of your system, let me be the first to congratulate you for expressing your thoughts. It’s only fun if you kept it completely real and honest. Believe it or not, the truth will set you free.
Forget the logistics of right or wrong. Appropriate or inappropriate, the truth of the matter is getting stuff out of your system that doesn’t belong there. And if you’re harboring destructive lies or feelings internally, then you’re killing your own emotions from the inside out, and guess what... it affects everyone and everything around you. Hidden emotions usually manifest themselves in other ways.
Before I go any further, let’s define what love is:
Love noun
1. A profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person
2. A feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend
3. Sexual passion or desire
4. A person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart
Impressive! Love provokes feelings of tenderness, passion, affection, sexual, and desire. According to the definition, love can be all that and more. Who wouldn’t want that in their lives?
Love, by its true definition, is always something positive and inviting. However, like most things in life, people have a way of turning something so positive into something extremely negative.
Love is a very powerful emotion. It has been the catalyst for both war and peace. It has caused people to do good and bad things. I always wonder why so many bad things are blamed on such a good concept. Love is meant to be good. Too bad most people don’t understand how important it is to mean what you say and say what you mean. Especially when you say, I love you.
We all have our personal opinions of what love is but there is only one true definition. Love in my opinion, is the sum of all our fears, hopes, dreams, and aspirations combined. The fear factor in love is harmless. It’s more or less the question of what if? It’s the protective part of us that doesn’t want to get hurt, so we may become anxious or hesitant about expressing or showing love’s emotions.
Love should never be complicated by sex but enhanced by it. Making love, sex, or deep intimacy – however you want to phrase it, is another form of connecting with someone, this was never meant to be used as a barter, tool, or weapon. It was never meant to hurt anyone.
True love, fear’s no one and is anxious about nothing. Real love, not to be confused with carnal lust or misguided passion, penetrates us to the core. It’s more intoxicating than any drug and more liberating than any lie. Real love holds on, even when you let go. This should not be confused with obsession because obsession is not love.
Love is discipline at it’s best. Love always allows people who are attracted each other to put things in a proper perspective from the beginning and not