Emotional Intelligence: 3-in-1 Guide to Master Self-Awareness, Conflict Management, How to Overcome Fear & Anxiety
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SOCIAL SKILLS:
7 Easy Steps to Master Emotional Intelligence, Making Friends, Relationship Building & Interpersonal Skills.
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Copyright
Table of Contents
Book 1: Social Skills
Table of Contents
Book 2: Conversation Skills
Table of Contents
Book 3: Body Language
Table of Contents
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Book 1: Social Skills
7 Easy Steps to Master Emotional Intelligence, Making Friends, Relationship Building & Interpersonal Skills
Lawrence Finnegan
Table of Contents
More by Lawrence Finnegan
Copyright
Table of Contents
Book 1: Social Skills
Table of Contents
Introduction
Chapter 1: Step 1 - Work on You
Balance and Reciprocity
Basic Self Care
Drives and Motivations
Acquaintance, Friend or Lover
Date Yourself
Chapter 2: Step 2 - Understand Them
There Is No THEM
What Do You Stand For?
Demographics Vs. Individuals
Why Are They Here?
Follow Your Bliss
Scenes, Haunts & Social Locale
Beyond the Bar
Express Yourself
Chapter 3: Step 3 - Make Small Talk Big
Just Do It
Ice Breaker
Keep It Going
Break Away
Chapter 4: Step 4 - Make New Friends
Take a Chance on Me
Just
Friendship
There Is No Friend Zone
Hello, I Must Be Going
When to Call
Know No
Be a Friend
Help or Hinder?
Chapter 5: Step 5 - Keep Friends
Get In Touch
Shake the Family Tree
Besties
Make New Friends but Keep the Old
Forged In Fire or Bonded Over Time
Quick Tips
Be a Friend
Chapter 6: Step 6 - Go Deep
Observe, Consider and Decide
Run Toward Danger
Deconstruction
Complaining
Philosophy, Religion, and Spirituality
Existential Dread
Enrich, Explore and Enliven
Break It Down
Chapter 7: Step 7 - Build Strong Relationships
Go, See and Do
Take a Back Seat
Acceptance
Space and Boundaries
Accountability
If They Hit You, They Do Not Love You
Beyond Self Care: Self-Help
Nurture Your Nature
Conclusion
Book 2: Conversation Skills
Table of Contents
Introduction
Chapter 1: Step 1 - Engagement
Be Approachable
Setting
Smile
Empathy
Kindness
Mirroring
Composure
Chapter 2: Step 2 - Active Listening
Eye Contact
Let Them Talk
Body Language
Touch is Touchy
Back and Forth
Summarize
Chapter 3: Step 3 - Small Talk
Opinions
Open-Ended Questions
Processing or Problem-Solving?
Cognitive Bias
Conversation Piece
Interest Groups
Chapter 4: Step 4 - Know Your Audience
Locality
Cold Reads
Analytics and Data
One Of Us!
Monitor Feedback
Chapter 5: Step 5 - Reflecting & Difficult Conversations
Update and Adjust
Nobody Thinks About You the Way You Think About You
Feedback
Self-Reflection
Don’t Overthink It
Difficult Discussions
Chapter 6: Step 6 - Practice Alone
Multimedia
Limits and Dangers
Chapter 7: Step 7 - Educate and Enrich Yourself
Talk!
It’s Not What You Know; It’s Who You Know
Seriously, Just Go Up and Say 'Hi.'
Beyond Books
Conclusion
Book 3: Body Language
Table of Contents
Introduction
Chapter 1: Step 1 - Define Your Terms
A Code with No Key
Locality and Timing
Take Control
Moderation
Reflection
You Feel Me?
With Great Power Comes Great Responsibility
Cognitive Divergence
Chapter 2: Step 2 - Face & Posture
The Smile
Train Your Brain
Eyes, Brow, Chin, and Jaw
Cosmetic Interventions
Posture
Commanding Strides and Piercing Gazes
Chapter 3: Step 3 - Eye Contact
Novice, Practiced or Master
Seeing Eye to Eye
Embellishments
Know Your Audience
Chapter 4: Step 4 - Gestures and Personal Space
Where Do You Stand?
Professional versus Casual
Hand Wave It Away, Jazz Hands and Itchy Fingers
Gesture to Learn
Hands and Proximity
Let’s Get in Touch
Chapter 5: Step 5 - Touch
No Touch!
Unless…
Careful, I’m a Hugger!
Your Body, Your Choice
Vulnerable and Non-vulnerable
Non-Vulnerable
The Reality
Chapter 6: Step 6 - Voice
Intonation
Pitch
Speed
Facial Expression
Articulate, Enunciate and Project!
Chapter 7: Step 7 - Beyond Communication
Differently Abled
Keepin’ It Real
Subtle but Tangible
Conclusion
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Introduction
Welcome to Social Skills
. In this guide, we'll teach you how to put some of the final pieces of a happy, healthy life in place. Humans are social creatures, and ignoring the sense of belonging
is like ignoring your sense of smell.
Modern life is pretty splintered in the 2020s. More so than any other point in my life, people are holed up in their homes, factionalized and isolated. Since the modern age, the industrialized world has always had a lush, thriving collection of subcultures. The term subculture
itself is a misnomer, as any group identified as sub-
most likely doesn't think of itself as beneath. Indeed, due to the before mentioned splitting, even the middle seems strangely at odds with itself.
The time has never been better to look at what binds humanity together and how we can apply that to our lives. When people concern themselves with better social skills, society benefits as much as the individual; take these lessons to heart, think of socializing as a skill you work out like a muscle group, and let's get physical.
Let’s get started!
Chapter 1: Step 1 - Work on You
Beyond the basics, grooming, posture, and body language, you have to ask yourself what exactly you want from society at large. What do you hope to achieve by sharpening your interpersonal communication skills? Of course, we will be going over a few specific goals, namely casual, intimate, and business, but you might have something in particular in mind. Wherever possible, I have attempted to be as conceptual as possible, deconstructing the lessons to make sure you can use parts, if not the whole. Social skills are the most far-reaching and foundational of all the life skills you can learn. Humans have demonstrated again and again that we are stronger together.
Balance and Reciprocity
You don’t have to be beautiful to be attractive; it helps, of course, but if you can't captivate or at least engage, no amount of grooming and good genes will create lasting bonds. I have heard it said, you have to love yourself before anyone else can love you,
and that's garbage. It is perfectly possible to love someone who doesn't love themselves, but the danger there is an asymmetric love, a lopsided relationship of all take, no give
or all push no pull.
Balance and reciprocity are the rules of a solid social bond, fleeting or lasting.
Inspire people to assume the best when meeting you by always having your best foot forward. Let's make sure you are someone people want to approach or be approached by!
Basic Self Care
It may be through no fault of your own that these lessons got skipped. Maybe you were like me and raised by a wolf, er, hard-working single father, who loved us and supported us but may have missed a few finishing touches. Maybe your hard work has pushed some of these simple steps aside. Whatever the case, take a moment to consider your daily routine and how it leaves you in the world.
No vanity, egotism, or any kind of mirror gazing is required. Get enough sleep, wash, eat and clothe yourself reasonably and call it good. If make-up and fashion are essential to you, you might dedicate as much energy to it as you like, but any more than an hour tops is pushing what is expected of a mere mortal. If you do indulge, either for professional or personal style, just be aware of how the time required affects your relationships: people will only accuse you of being high-maintenance
or a diva
if they are inconvenienced by it.
Sleep
Sleep is so darn important that I have to assume you know if it's a problem for you. If you are not getting at least seven to eight hours of sleep a night, erring on the side of eight, you are selling yourself short. Re-form a nighttime routine to get that needed rest. Not only do you get energy for the next day, but long-term memory and learning are improved, too; remembering names and details from the past are all keys to lasting social connections.
Sleeping together undoubtedly makes people closer, though how the rest of the relationship progresses will depend on how you deal with intimacy.
Eating Well
Eating good leaves you with enough energy and focus to last an entire conversation. Again, this is a simple thing, but adults just love to think the time saved by not eating will be well spent. Some hunger symptoms are tight-lipped tension (hangry
) or being overly chatty and friendly. Unfortunately for the overly chatty and friendly
one, your social filter is usually dropped as well, and you have to consciously remind yourself not just to say whatever comes to mind; I know that one all too well.
Of course, eating together is as famous a friend-maker as drinking together, so don’t be afraid to make lunch groups if asking a single person feels weird.
Grooming
Grooming is about how it makes you feel as much as it makes sure you're not stinky or messy. Standards have shifted toward low upkeep, so observe the basics and consider the rest optional. Same with clothes; you have to be part of the in-group before telling the difference between punks and artists versus the homeless or transient. Most folks get by with one shower or bath a day, and as long as you're not working up a sweat, that's fine. Deodorant or antiperspirant will make sure the