The Essence of the Aristocratic Woman

By Kathy Gibson

This is for the woman who is evolving to greatness. The essence of who she is, is to know the sophistication of her spiritual DNA. She unapologetically refuses to live her life beneath who God says she is. I reiterate, who she is. God saw all he had created and said it was good. She's the epitome of the purist's nature of the aristocratic woman.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Christian Faith Publishing, Inc.
• Release date: Apr 19, 2021
• ISBN: 9781098076832

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The Essence of the Aristocratic Woman

Kathy Gibson

Copyright © 2020 by Kathy Gibson

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Table of Contents

Predestined for Purpose

I Am That Woman

She’s Virtuous

She’s Radiant

Woman of Principle

She’s Fearless

She’s Classic

Eminent Authentic Nature

The Essential Woman

Entrepreneur, Wealth Builder

A Woman’s Worth and Value

Girl, Tell Yourself, I’m More Than Enough

Lady Posh

Her Priceless Qualities

The Sagacious Woman

The Refined Woman

Lady Has Heart and Soul

She’s Fulfilled

The Prevailing Anointing

Divine Invitation

God is in the midst of her, she shall not be moved; God will help her, and that right early.

—Psalms 46:5

Foreword

I have read many books about godly and empowered women, but this exceeds them. This book explores the creed, caliber, value, tenacity of the prosperous, innovative, and aristocratic woman. Her confidence is amazing; her loyalty unchallenged, and her worship riveting. So release the pause button because you are going to venture into a world poise, grandeur, and excellence.

Apostle Helen Saddler

Into His Chambers Global Ministries

Federal Way, Washington, 98003

Acknowledgments

I thank my God for his inspiration to write, who has given me all things to enjoy in Christ Jesus. Your grace, Lord, You are the best. You made all things possible, and I give you all the glory.

My mother Apostle Helen Saddler, my mentor, who always believed in me. Giving up is never an option; I am ever grateful for your encouragement, your leadership, and inspiration. Along with my heavenly Father, you are the reason I kept the faith and believed I can do whatever I put my mind to do. You taught me to soar and take the limits off. I love you, Mom. Thank you.

To my family and friends, thank you for your support and encouraging words, which also pushed me; all the when is your next book coming keeps me relentless to finish. The expectancy, love y’all for that. To Into His Chamber’s Global International Ministries, y’all are a blessing. Thank you.

Introduction

This has been my passion. In writing this book, God is revealing to us our authentic self. Her authentic nature as a woman is just that—authentic. She’s real; she’s a pedigree with distinct qualities that you will read about and so many qualities that can’t be written in a single book or two. No one has the same hand or footprints. Your identity is an original. You’re not created to be someone else; you’re created to be you. And your identity is in Christ.

The woman we’re about to read about is her intrinsic qualities, the essence of who she is. Some have these attributes already manifested, and some will, for the first time, discover what’s on the inside of them: designer potentials.

There’s a lot to God’s woman. The church is called the bride of Christ. Wisdom is called she. Love her like Christ loves the church, the carrier of life. Christ came through a woman. Proverbs 31 speaks so well of her.

What really inspired me true enough is the Holy Spirit; along with him, he allowed me to have and see illustrious women like my mother, grandmother, icons like lady Serita Jakes, Cicely Tyson, Diana Ross, Felicia Rashad, Jackie O, and many more just to name a few. These are women whose name carries weight and class because of their moral character; they’re women of such grace, never heard them loud and out of character, you know, or their names tainted. And I love it, don’t have to attach my name to any gossip or drama.

I remembered a scene from Tyler Perry’s movie with the late Dr. Maya Angelo, and they we’re having a family reunion, and one of the young ladies came into the room where Dr. Maya Angelo and Cicely Tyson were sitting, and Dr. Angelo asked her where was her mantle. She didn’t ask where is your fiancé; she asked her where is your mantle—the one who is to be your covering, shield of protection, and more. See, those are the ancient wisdom that means a lot. I say ancient because it carries weight and legacy like that of old money or deep pockets; it’s been around for years. That kind of wisdom has good roots. So it has sustained the fire. And we need that in our lives. We have so many now who don’t cherish wisdom and protocol because they haven’t been taught. Teachable spirit is powerful, whether it comes from the wisdom of someone or the experiences of everyday living.

And a lot of the dissatisfaction we have is because we desire it but don’t know why we desire it. Why do I say that? Because the search is what is already on the inside of us and that is who/what our purpose is—our true identity. Due to life and distractions and the course of life that we have, taking it has gotten us away from what we so desire or what our instinct is telling us. Our divine instinct and nature is our driving force. So now God has to teach us about ourselves and what and who he has placed on the inside of us. Ladies, it’s your time.

Back to the examples of the women of distinction I mentioned above, I didn’t say they haven’t made mistakes, but you don’t hear their names associated with distasteful acquaintances or conversations.

Our true nature really don’t like mess. Once you peel off all the dead stuff and weights, you find your appetite is for something greater. My mother always said, Let your name be one that carries greatness, and as God elevates you, kill that pride. Every day I seek him for greater and do just that. God said he will make your name great.

And let’s also remember great men like our father, grandfather, some near, some afar; we have great leadership examples like Bishop Jakes and more. They carry such richness in wisdom, and when they speak, it’s with such wealth and oil. I love it. When Oprah did the Legends Ball, I loved it.

That’s when you see them and say to yourself, I want to be like them or you know deep down inside, you possess those type of qualities and character just waiting to be tapped into and discovered; it’s in you waiting to come out.

When greatness is on the inside, you seek for greater, then you attract it.

What that attraction becomes is a magnet, then information comes to you; it may be by way of a person, book, a statement someone makes, social media; however, when the attraction activates, what you need concerning that information will magnetize to you.

This is when we really begin to understand our true nature, our true identity and the essence of who were are and whose image we are.

There is no stopping you in becoming the essence of the aristocratic woman that you are. The difference is you are God’s woman and that’s what makes you authentic without apology. It’s the truth of who you are, your true authentic self, nature, identity of who God created you to be and what he himself has put in you.

We have to remove the layers of false identification caused by various reasons, backgrounds, culture, deceptions, and lies. That’s why the process is necessary because He begins to remove through Him all the lies that has shaped us illegally and tried to strip us from our true identity. And that’s what our main focus should be which is God’s original intention for you being here.

Deep down in every woman, she knows there’s something greater on the inside of her. She knows there’s more to her. Sometimes, that is why we always seem to compare ourselves to others who we think are greater, better, and sometimes who we feel are superior than ourselves. And that’s because our authentic self and the potential that we possess on the inside of us is always screaming that there’s more and needs to be discovered.

We have the intentions of doing greater or seeing ourselves in business or we see ourselves as movie actors or on big platforms speaking. I used to see myself as a world ice-skater. Now tell the truth; we all when we were young always dreamed of being someone important or being someone we look up to. Being a talk show host, you know, fantasizing, dreaming dreams that, in reality, we see happening for others but not ourselves, yet it’s still something pulling on you that there’s more to me that meets the eye. And someone that’s always striving for something greater, but sometimes we don’t have the push or the encouragement or the surroundings for us to tap into our greatest potential which dwells on the inside of all of us.

I hope this book will encourage you to discover what has always been a part of who you were destined to be.

If I can encourage you not to look back but look ahead because what’s before you is greater than what was behind you. A lot of times, we can sit back and say where we have been, and if I knew what I know now, I will do it differently; yes, that’s a true statement, then there are some things that I wouldn’t change because it helped me to grow and mature, some good and some horrific, especially learning about myself and the diversity of people. You know how you sit back at the park, airport, and yes, church folk, and just look! Just a little a humor, kingdom comedy.

What hurts us is the trauma and bad experiences that we won’t get healing for, so we choose to stay in those uncomfortable places and yet have made them our comfortable