Be Strong Enough to Hear What I Have to Say Ii: Real, Raw, & Uncut

By Nurca Jones

In this book, the author gives readers a chance to self-reflect on self-love, relationships, parenting, growth, and being able to understand no matter what the circumstances. There’s light at the end of the tunnel.

Though life often seems like a roller coaster, it’s important to remain on the ride ’til the end. The end, not the beginning of the ride, is the focus. This book will help you with reflection, clarity, and acknowledgment.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Dec 23, 2021
• ISBN: 9781669804819

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Rev. date: 12/23/2021

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Contents

She Found Her

Wanting to Be Loved

What If

Stop Taking the Abuse

Broken Relationships

Single Mothers

Take Your Own Medicine

During a Storm

Forgiveness Is Where It Begins

Every Woman’s Tool

She Found Her

I do not understand when another woman comes into a relationship, she believes that she is the best person for the man she is stealing time with. I have seen women go against another woman but stay with the man who promised to love her without a problem. I know this may sound harsh, but this woman did not promise to be faithful to you. I am talking about married couples because when you are dating, that means that person is still on the market. I am going to go deep into this subject because I have seen women who have loved so hard that it leaves them broken. Going through a breakup with a person who promised to love and cherish you as you both stood at the altar taking your wedding vows. So he decided that he wanted someone else to spend his life with. Let him go with peace because you wanting to fight for someone who doesn’t wants the same thing is only going to hurt you more in the end. I know, as a woman, you are questioning yourself, being that you are educated, strong, a career woman, like what the hell did I do wrong? Let me say this to you right now: You did absolutely nothing. The man who you said I do to did not know the woman he had standing in his corner but was intimidated by your stature. So for the other woman who walked away with the man she thought she took, tell her thank you. Don’t worry, sis. She will eventually find out that he wasn’t worth taking. The funny thing about karma is she enters your life without an invitation. I would tell any woman to not fight behind a man who decided to make a conscious decision to take the time to place energy into someone on his level because you are standing on a stage that he doesn’t deserve to stand on. Don’t ever try to compete with another woman because at the end of the day, he decided to step out and move on. Take the time to turn to the new woman to let her know she won nothing. You won not a man but a boy who did not know how to control himself. I know she is thinking, This will never happen to me because his wife wasn’t doing what I was doing for him. Life comes with all types of life lessons that can make or break us down. I believe that when one door is closed, another will open with more possibilities. I love life and all the factors life brings because it teaches us how to navigate through the different circumstances we may go through. I am not saying to not fight for your relationship, if that is what you decided to do, but it takes two people to fight for a marriage. I am the first person to say that marriage is not easy, but if you want it to work, then you and your mate must be ready to put the work in. It is easy to go outside to get comfort from another person, but that’s a cowardly way out. Queens, if you cannot trust your mates, then you both should walk away. If you must look through his phone, put a tracker, or check the bank statement for movement, then you must ask yourself, Is this worth it? Queens, understand that you will forever be the prize, and you