A Wake up Call: Our Strenghts, Weaknesses and Our Downfalls

By Michael Paul

This book will have the answers to your dating, relationship and marital problems. This book will take you down roads you have been down before but you will emerge with new found knowledge. You will no longer lack the knowledge you need to arm yourself for dates, relationships and marriages. A wake up call that is very empowering

• Language: English
• Publisher: AuthorHouse
• Release date: Mar 6, 2012
• ISBN: 9781468544084

Michael Paul

Michael Paul, Dr. phil., ist Senior Fellow der Stiftung Wissenschaft und Politik (SWP) in Berlin, Mitglied des Arktisdialogs des Alfred-Wegener-Instituts, Leiter des Gesprächskreises maritime Sicherheit der SWP und war 2018-2019 Mitglied des Experten­teams im Themenzyklus „Meere und Ozeane“ des Runden Tisches der Bundes­regierung. Zahlreiche Veröffentlichungen, zuletzt über Russland in der Arktis sowie als „Grundlage­n­werk“ (taz): Kriegsgefahr im Pazifik? Die maritime Bedeutung der sino-amerikanischen Rivalität, Baden-Baden: Nomos-Verlag, 2017. 

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Contents

Dedication

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Dedication

This book is dedicated to my mom Mrs. Cynthia Baugh. She was my inspiration in writing this book.

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Hi to all my readers, I am about to embark on a topic that has already been trodded on many times before, but not this. The topic, men and women, mostly men. Our strengths, weaknesses and our downfalls? Some might argue the point, downfall.

Well read and you make the decision. To begin with no one is perfect, male or female, so let’s move on and talk about something more important.

From as far back as I can remember I came to the understanding that a man was to be strong, he was supposed to lead, take charge, know it all, can fix things. I could go on and on but you get the picture I am painting here. We grow up thinking, not wrong but all screwed up. If every man was like that, think how boring it would be. It is like a lady going to the store to shop for shoes and only has one kind to choose from. Humans like variety, something different but, that is not why I am writing this book.

Variety is not it; the reason is what happens in our relationships, how we chose, how we settle, also the lies, the games, the cover-ups and not being real. Let’s begin with an easy one, some men think or should I say some men believe that a woman’s place is in the house, notice I did not say home, because that would be glamorizing a primitive belief. I did not say it is wrong. It is just primitive. Some women still go for that, The Betty Crocker of the times. Like I said variety.

Then here is a scary one the prehistoric being not men being. He believes a woman should cook, clean, do as he says, don’t ask question just obey. She should also make him happy, no matter what. Him first at all cost… let me stop right there. You might not believe this but they are out there. Ladies avoid these creatures at