I don’t want to sound naive, but sometimes when a girl goes down on me, she sounds like she’s gagging, and her eyes water. Is that just part of the whole thing, or am I doing something wrong?
PAUL N, CAPE TOWN
MOUSHUMI GHOSE: While this isn’t necessarily part of it, some girls like the gagging/eyes watering thing because it’s a symbol of submission that, for some — not all — men, is hot and arousing.
If she’s okay with “deep throating”, as it’s called,
