Spice up Your Soul: Relationship

By Jenny Cailing Pugh

The objective of this book is to inspire and to remind us of our true nature and value as human beings. The author, Jenny Cailing Pugh had spent decades and most of her life searching, researching. introspecting and studying the essence of being human and she had come to the conclusion that the soul is the link that catapult human lives from any misery that humans experience in the material world to the Higher Self and Purpose of life. The book shows the way to create miracles in your individual life when you feel like your situations become so difficult and beyond your control. Once in a while if not often most people would find themselves entangled in life’s various problems in any areas such as financial difficulties, relationships in family and loved ones, failures in career and business and many more as you continue to journey in life. Many people just exist and drift by in life without direction because they are disconnected from the essence of their being, they forget, worse have no idea that they have a power within them that is all-knowing and that could create miracles in their lives if only they had learned to reach deep down within them, to the powerful essence of their existence.
Read my book and be blessed.

• Language: English
• Publisher: iUniverse
• Release date: Apr 8, 2020
• ISBN: 9781532098987

Jenny Cailing Pugh

Jenny Cailing Pugh is a retired College Professor teaching various subjects from Business Management to Social Sciences and the Philosophy of Man including Logic. Her three Master’s degrees in, MBA, Educational Management and Social Sciences plus the 7 years in teaching High School at first then College for 30 years plus her Spiritual background as a Bible Woman at an early age and a Motivational Speaker in National Steel Corporation (the largest steel corporation in Asia at the time) in the Philippines boost her authority to discuss the concepts of the soul and humanity that are the basic subjects of this book. Her authority to present the matters of the soul is indubitable. She now lives in Marion Indiana with her US Army Veteran white American husband Greg Pugh. She is a proud mother of two beautiful children, son and daughter respectively, who are both married and professionally successful in their respective chosen field of specialization, careers, and family lives. Her eight beautiful grandchildren are the precious gems in her crowning glory, eldest of whom is now a licensed Architect at the age of 24.

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iUniverse rev. date:  04/08/2020

Contents

Introduction

Chapter 1 A Perspective in Relationships

Chapter 2 Relationships

Chapter 3 Relationship with Yourself

Chapter 4 Relationship with God

Chapter 5 Relationship with Nature

Chapter 6 Relationships with Natural or Imaginary Beings

Chapter 7 Relationship with Other Humans

Chapter 8 Family Relationship

Chapter 9 Relationship with Other Blood Relatives

Chapter 10 Searching for a Romantic Relationship

Chapter 11 Husband and Wife Relationship

Chapter 12 Harmony in Marriage Relationship

Chapter 13 Keeping the Love Alive in Marriage

Chapter 14 Relationship with Peer Groups

Chapter 15 Relationships with Friends and Best Friends

Part 2 Featured Best Friends of My Whole Life

Chapter 1 Ofelia Mulawan

Chapter 2 Neneng Janulgue

Chapter 3 Rebecca Beronilla

Chapter 4 Best Friends, Featuring Mina Mendoza and Violeta Tuto

Chapter 5 Best Friends Featuring Engineer Veronica Malano Miguel

Introduction

T his is the third book in my general title Spice Up your Soul. The first book is in that title alone, the second is Spice Up Your Soul with the subtitle Beautiful Soul Beautiful Life and now I am publishing my third book under the General title Spice Up Your Soul with the subtitle Relationships.

My main objective in writing all these books is to share with people of all ages and all walks of life and in all cultures my experiences in handling any situations in life, may it be a dream to come true and most important to solve problems that we come across as we continue to live the life that God and Nature has intended us to enjoy.

There are so many areas in our lives that we should deal with. Even in our dreams and wishes to change our life situations to something that we surmise to be a better life for us as a person and for our family, if we fail to achieve them will makes us feel so bad that we tend to forget that we have a very powerful soul deep within us who is able and willing to make our dreams come true. My main objective in my writings is not only to remind us of such powerhouse within each of us but most important to help the readers see, familiarize and use such power from within to work in our every day lives hence keeping us alive and enjoy a beautiful and wonderful life that God and Nature has intended for each of us to enjoy.

Relationships with everything and everyone around us is a significant aspect in life that we have to deal with in a very personal level. In this book I discuss about the various types of relationships that we encounter as we journey on in life. This reminds me of an old adage which says Tell me who your companions are and I will tell you who you are.

The objective of this book is to open our minds to these various relationships to work harmoniously in our lives and to remind the readers that each person is what he/she as a result of what kind and quality of relationships he had been through and whether these relationships cause him to become a better person and to improve the quality of his life and/or do these relationships pull him down to the abyss of hopelessness and despair.

Everything that is happening in our lives is a result of the quality of relationships that we had learned to embrace; are you generally happy in your relationships or otherwise?

Have a comprehensive introspection using the contents of my book Relationship.

Are you Happy?

Are you happy? This simple question is often asked by a friend or love ones in various occasions; whether they mean to know exactly the answer or not, the fact remains that the answer could mean a meaningful life if we take it seriously.

Let Me Cite Some Very Good Reasons to be Happy;(I am speaking for myself; see if it works with you too).

1. I am happiest ever since the moment I had sincerely accepted myself as beautiful and had started to love myself unconditionally.

I used to see myself as an ugly duckling feeling like I was born a mistake. I felt like everything about me was ugly; too wide face, too tiny nose, too big eyes and eye bags, too curly hair, too thick lips, too long and skinny legs; and so forth and so on. It was really a very disturbing feeling which prevented me from pursuing my dreams.

Then one day I had decided to do something about it before I could ever start on whatever pursuit