Polygamy If God Wills It, It Should Not Be a Form of Slavery Then!

By Ruth Aj

My book entitled Polygamy, If God Wills It, Should Not Be a Form of Slavery Then! is written to warn people of how they shouldn’t let anyone take advantage of them if they should decide to do polygamy and if polygamy is thought to be the solution to the problems of female loneliness.

The book of 1 Corinthians 14:1 King James Version (KJV) says, “Follow after charity, and desire spiritual gifts, but rather that ye may prophesy.”

I hereby state that only if any prophet or prophetess either advise you, or says God has sent them to you to suggest you to do so, should you do polygamy. So then, with the support of your family—if you have one—consider it prayerfully. Don’t listen to your friends or ordinary church-goers if they suggest this.

Be warned if care is not taken—polygamy can enslave you as a vulnerable person in the hands of the man and his important wife, even when done with a close relative. This is especially when polygamy is done with a female stranger who can also be described as a strange woman—who, inevitably, makes that woman who is a stranger, her, and her husband strange people.

Strangers could be so-called best friends, in-laws, and anyone that’s not a close relative. You think you know these people but you don’t really know them. They always put on an act around you, but it’s all for show. Because the heart of man is desperately wicked, who can know it except when God reveals it to you.

When the devil wants to bind you with spiritual chains, like a slave in a polygamous home when you don’t wish to do polygamy, you go into prayers to your maker, God or Jesus Christ, to set you free from the bondage that wants to tempt you to be enslaved to a polygamous home. Bind, instead, the negative people or forces that want to cause you problems in life, with your prayers.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris UK
• Release date: May 18, 2017
• ISBN: 9781514498903

Ruth Aj

My name is Ruth Aj and I present my book titled: “Polygamy if God wills it, it should not be a form of slavery then!” I live in the UK, my ethnic Origin is Black African Nigerian; and I am a British citizen. I have a lovely 7-years-old daughter by the name of Grace, I love her so much just like God & Jesus loves me. I am separated from my first husband a while now, might not be much of good news for some, but I am happy and God understands best. I am 35 years of age; and todays date is wed 10th of May 2017; and I am most certainly looking forward to the end of the year. I was born in 1982 and I am glad to proclaim that I am a believer of Jesus Christ and I gave my life to Christ as a born again Christian back in 1998 in a small community Church Called Redeemed GWC when I was 16 years of age. God has shown me his loving hand to redeem my soul from destruction; and when I accepted this, my life changed for good, so I believe he can do the same for you also.

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Who are you, who is responsible for your difficulties in life? Also, I don’t think it is right that the government should force women with Mental health issues, to take contraceptive not to have children if they want to have children. In the first instance, if a Christian Pastor, tells a woman, God doesn’t want her to have children, then it is the woman’s choice to accept this or not. But the Authorities in that country she lives in, has no right to force their contraceptives on her do they know what those form of contraceptives can do damage to the female body if administered unnecessarily?

First and foremost, who are we in Christ, a lot of us walk around in life not knowing who we are, not knowing our worth, so then we take whatever life throws at us.

Some even go as far as committing suicide, why, because nothing they do works, their boyfriend keeps using them and dumping them, some after two weeks of dating without having sex with the men, the men leaves them, mind you no sex before marriage is your goal, some their marriage broke down, because their husband is not fulfilling their needs, he won’t look after them and their child, he doesn’t seem to care. Some people they are an opportunist, if they get the chance to take your life, they would do it.

In essence what I am trying to say is that, tell yourself every day that you are important to God and God loves you. Don’t lower yourself to people who are not on the same level as you. E.g. don’t date Someone you don’t know very well and all that.

We need to stop for a minute, and look at what God thinks about us and what God has to say about it all. I think we need to start by being born again, because if you are not born again, all the blessings of the God of Jesus cannot follow you.

If you worship Buddha, then be rest assured that is who is going to be your God.

We cannot have the greatest comforter in our lives without this, and this is the Holy Ghost / Holy Spirit. He is the comforter of peace, when everything around us is falling, no friends to be found, no family just you and your boyfriend or your fiancé or only you and your husband, then believe me it is the work of the holy spirit that comforts, in that he the spirit of truth will give you an understanding of the word of God and will remind you the words of God that are in the bible, that will comfort you when you are feeling down. This is the power of the salvation of God.

This is the power of the salvation of God. Also, you need to find a bible believing church and get baptised as well.

KJV (King James Version) Bible.

Hosea 4:6My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children. This simply states that we need the God of Jesus Christ in our lives.

(John 3:6-8) 6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.

7 Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.

8 The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whither it goeth: so is every one that is born of the Spirit.

(John14:6 -7) 6Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.7 If ye had known me, ye should have known my Father also: and from henceforth ye know him, and have seen him."

I pray that as you Read this writing, God will give you and Me (Temperance: - meaning discipline one thing and another thing it can also relate to, is the choice to resist sin. The choice not to deliberately sin.)

The basis of salvation is Jesus Christ, Jesus said I am The Way the Truth and The Life, no man cometh to God without me. When John the Baptist, baptized Jesus we learn that Jesus is the son of God, but he was empowered to be like God on earth. Mat3:13 Then cometh Jesus from Galilee to Jordan unto John, to be baptized of him, Mat 3:14 But John forbad him, saying, I have need to be baptized of thee, and comest thou to me? Mat 3: 15 "And Jesus answering said unto him, suffer it to be so now: For thus it becometh us to fulfil all righteousness. Then he suffered him. Mat 3:16 And Jesus when he was baptized, went up straightway out of the water: and, Lo the heavens were opened unto him, and he saw the spirit of God descending like a dove, and lighting upon him. Mat 3:17 And Lo a voice from heaven, saying, this is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased.

John 3:16 For God so Loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

The Pastor, a man of God, is supposed to do what is said in Mat 28:19 Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the son, and of the Holy Ghost.

We are Flesh & spirits St John 3:6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.

1John 1:10 If we say we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us. This is why we need to be born again because we will sin if we don’t listen to the word of God IN THE HOLY BIBLE.

Psalms 20:7 Some trust in chariots, and some in horses: but we will remember the name of the LORD our God.

SHALL THE WICKED prosper, No! I hope they won’t.

1Pet 5:8 Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour: 1Pet 5:9 Whom resist steadfast in the faith, knowing that the same afflictions are accomplished in your brethren that are in the world. 1Pet 5:10 But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you. 1 Pet 5: 11 To him be glory and dominion for ever and ever. Amen." (KJV)

I Pet 2:9 "But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a perculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light:" (KJV)

We need to stand out from the world, leave sin behind, don’t lie to hurt others, if you make a mistake to lie to conceal something in your life