Love Your Own Life, Not Others: The White Wolf's Way, #3

By Kate Summers and Paul Rogers

Welcome to the third book of the successful white wolf's way.

 

"I am not perfect.  I just think that imperfections are beautiful" – Lady Gaga

 

"being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure" – Bob Marley

 

Now is the time to embrace "the gifts of imperfection and discover who you really are" – Brenna Brown

 

With these guiding concepts, we examine the battle of the white wolf vs. the black wolf.  Each of those has both forces inside of us.  Society has taught us to pursue I life of instant gratification and external approval. 

 

The façade of a perfect invulnerable lifestyle.  The type of life as portrayed by people on social media.  This is a constantly unfulfilling race to be and have the best and newest material possessions in order to give ourselves tangible rewards of our own pursuit our of perfection.

 

Vulnerabilities are stamped out of us at an early age by society and the various external parties.  Usually, it is only in our later years that the myth of invulnerability is exposed.  At this point the journey to find our own vulnerabilities commences.

 

Everyone can remember the silent and weird kid who never fitted in at school.  That kid was the smart one who was prepared to be vulnerable.  It is now ironic that this is what we out truly seeking.

 

This is no ordinary self-help book and is designed to show the conflicts of invulnerability, vulnerability, perfection and imperfection. I am guessing that the universe is asking and guiding you to find answers to the above questions.  Are you willing to trust the process?

 

As previous readers of the first two books are aware, they have now come to realize that there truly is a white wolf inside of us who guides us both emotionally and spiritually

 

 My final thoughts are that I thank you for your courage and bravery to take this voyage into your self.  To find the answers to the important questions that matter to you. It is now your turn to take the lessons and interpret them into your own white wolf.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Kate Summers, Paul Rogers
• Release date: Feb 12, 2021
• ISBN: 9781393979289

Kate Summers

A bit about me I am 35 years old.   I was originally a teacher so I have always been interested in learning and helping others. I have been actively working to educate men and women in the importance of mental health.  What started me in this area was being given a second chance at life.  As Brendon Burchard writes this was my “Golden ticket.”  In my 20’s I survived a tragic traffic accident.  My beautiful Husky Malamute gave his life to save mine and my family. My young son and husband were saved when my dog jumped on them to cover them and ultimately save their lives at the cost of his own.   It was after this tragic accident and his sacrifice that I really appreciated that my true purpose was to help others who are suffering.  I guess I have learned mental health the hard way from my own experiences with TBI and PTSD

Book preview

Love your own life, not other’s

Accepting Your Gifts.

by  Kate Summers / Paul Rogers

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Sikou

He gave his life to save ours. Run free and strong, my friend.

We will always love you.

Table of Contents

Introduction....................................................................

Introduction of the first two parts.................................................

How will this book help you?....................................................

How is this book different?......................................................

Who will this book appeal to?....................................................

Definition of Imperfect..........................................................

Chapter 1: Theory of 2 Wolves.......................................................

Definition....................................................................

Black and White Wolves........................................................

Which Wolf to Feed?..........................................................

Chapter 2: Conflict between Perfect vs. Imperfect and vulnerable vs. invulnerable...................

Introduction of both points......................................................

Perfect vs. imperfect......................................................

Vulnerable vs. invulnerable.................................................

How this conflict happens.......................................................

Perfect vs. imperfect......................................................

Vulnerable vs. invulnerable.................................................

The reason behind this phenomenon..............................................

Perfect vs. imperfect......................................................

Vulnerable vs. invulnerable.................................................

The Black Wolf is the main culprit................................................

How does the black wolf e. make you want to be perfect and invulnerable?.................

How to kill the black wolf?........................................................

Chapter 3: How to feel Happy being Imperfect............................................

Accept Imperfection...........................................................

Be patient with yourself....................................................

Learn from your failures...................................................

Understand that achieving perfection is unrealistic..............................

Do not try to stop negative thoughts..........................................

5 Ways to be happy being imperfect..............................................

Accept the Imperfection in Other People......................................

Accept Your Own Flaws...................................................

Accept the flaws in your life.................................................

Accept flaws as a part of your life............................................

Have patience during the process...........................................

Implementing these steps.......................................................

Stop Overthinking...............................................................

Concentrate on Your Breathing....................................

Try to think about your actions....................................

Try not to talk too much..........................................

Keep yourself busy...............................................

Try to look for solutions and then move on.........................

Chapter 4: How to develop the power of vulnerability.......................................

The nurturing of the white wolf...................................................

Practice absolution for yourself as well as other people..........................

Find the goodness in every situation.........................................

Be more confident........................................................

Do not engage in the gossip of other people...................................

Manage your feelings.....................................................

Get medical help from professionals.........................................

Accept your Weakness.........................................................

Perceive and acknowledge your shortcomings.................................

Seek help from someone you know..........................................

Plan ahead.............................................................

Hire people with different skills..............................................

Try to be good at tasks and not perfect.......................................

Search for strategies to serve others with a similar issue.........................

5 steps to develop this power....................................................

Try not to keep your feelings inside..........................................

Vulnerability takes mental fortitude...........................................

Start taking steps to face your fears..........................................

Look for greatness, not flawlessness.........................................

Set out to be true to yourself................................................

Conclusion.....................................................................

Book Description

Most of us believe that imperfection and invulnerability are parts of our personality that cannot be overcome. However, if you let them influence you, you will continue to face difficulties in your life despite implementing qualities such as self-compassion or good habits. Reading this book may help to remove the obstacles and problems that you have been facing. In order to be successful in your dreams and aspirations, you must learn to be proactive without setting your expectations too high. It is important to remember that life cannot be completely perfect, and if you aim for perfection, you will only be met with disappointment at one stage or another.

This book will teach you about the steps you can take to bring positivity into your life. You will understand why you are not able to lead a happy life despite trying your best to implement good qualities. You will learn how you