Did I Crush Your Male Pride?

By Ken Phillips and Wanda Lea

Breya, Didi and Erica are three ladies you will not want to miss! These are Breya and Didi's first interviews/profiles and both ladies open up about all aspects of their strength, skill and dominance. Breya's husband didn't grow up expecting to be weaker and a less-capable wrestler/fighter than his wife, but life led him in a surprising direction. Breya went from being overweight to being a genuine powerlifting powerhouse that learned to kick butt and became addicted to her own sexy capabilities. Her love of fem-dom is contagious as she takes you on this amazing journey which has plenty of excitement and male-humility.

Didi began as Breya's physical traiiner and their mutual love of female strength bonded these two beautiful, powerful women. Didi explains her love of man-taming and how she met Erica, who is the one that initially connected us to Didi and Breya. Erica was profiled a couple years ago and we were thrilled to catch back up with her in late 2020. Erica's mom is a dominant lady and her father is accepting of her mom's relationship with women and he loves his wife's dominance. While Erica grew up in this non-traditional environment, she never complained and always felt the authenticity, love and sincerity of her parents. She also bonded with her mom over her love of female strength and fighting. Later in this book you get to meet Erica's mom, Lori and her father, Kevin. You'll love the kindness and the girlpower in this family.

CJ and Emma are up next and these are two dynamite ladies. CJ is a blonde powerlifter and martial artist with thighs that have to be seen to be believed. She shares her life experiences and we get a close-up description of how she defeated a taller, lighter man who had aspirations (somewhat misguided, but he had a boxing background) of being an MMA fighter. CJ showed him her submission grappling skills and took a nice chunk out of his male ego. Emma then provides amazing insight into life as a Superior-Wife. What does it feel like to be stronger than your husband? How much fun is it to overpower and use your advanced skill set to grapevine and school-girl-pin your husband. Both male and female discuss their experiences and feelings about marital grappling when the lady holds all the cards! Fans of Woman-Power will love this one!

Arey and Wanda (my co-author) are our last two ladies to be profiled/interviewed in this ebook. Arey is just under 5'0" and just over 140lbs of gorgeous female power! This lady has a set of glutes than have to be seen to be believed! What's it's like for a 5'6" 145lb man to face a trained, dominant female like Arey? Well, it's exciting, but it certainly isn't all fun and games! If you like tight headscissors, thick thighs and a fun-loving, sassy attitude, then you'll love Arey!

Wanda has been my window into the world of strong, skilled, beautiful, kick-ass women. She has been teaching women how to lift, fix their diet, defend themselves, do martial arts and dominate the fellas for over two decades! Wanda is a beautiful, thick powerhouse with amazing power and a way of dominating and teaching that have helped and continue to help literally hundreds of women. Learn about Wanda's background and her secrets to success.

We end this ebook with some 14 blog links and 40 Facebook pages and groups you won't want to miss! Fans of muscular women, mixed wrestling and women kicking butt will find great value in the articles and in the pages/groups. These blogs, articles, pages and groups will expand your horizons and introduce you to exciting places on the web where you can satisfy your need for strong, kick-ass ladies!

If you like strong, beautiful, skilled, dominant women who defeat men, then this is the ebook for you! Please remember to check out all of our other ebooks as well and enjoy the world of mixed/intergender wrestling, female muscle and other related topics!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Ken Phillips
• Release date: Jan 19, 2021
• ISBN: 9781393415190

Ken Phillips

I have been making friends with strong, skilled women for two decades. I have met dozens of these women and others I have gotten to know quite well over the phone or online. The women featured explain why they started learning to kick butt and their favorite moments as an Alpha-Female. It's MY passion and you'll see why I love it so much when you read this boo!

Book preview

Breya

5’6" 214-222lbs 42yo

I got married to Elias when I was twenty-six-years-old and 285lbs. It shocked some people when I began dating him because as a native of Mali I was around mostly African and African-American people my whole life.

I arrived in this country, with my family, when I was thirteen-years-old. It wasn’t until I was at the university that I felt really comfortable with my new life in a new land. Elias was a classmate of mine and it surprised me that he was so nice to me. There weren’t many white men that flirted with me or seemed attracted to me. He was twenty-two-years-old when we met and so was I. Elias was about 5’10" 160lbs, so he was on the slim side with curly hair and glasses. There was something dorky but fun about him and I was in love pretty quickly. It was a mind-connection, but also a physical connection. I began enjoying Elias greatly in a physical sense and vice versa.

Elias loved my very big, strong body. As a matter of fact, he loved the fact that I could overpower him and literally squash him like a bug. Everything was going great until I began having knee problems to go along with more and more ankle soreness. My doctor told me to lose significant weight and I was not looking forward to it. I was thirty-years-old and had a big job to do!

Fortunately, my physical trainer took me on a fun, surprising route. Didi was a power-lifter, wrestler and a very Alpha, Dominant woman! She was twenty-six when I was thirty and I took to her training right away and was soon absolutely addicted. The main surprise, for me, was the fact that I was doing a ton of weightlifting. I lifted very heavy three time a week. Each time I did cardio before and after the workout. But I also did an MMA class with Didi once a week to start and then twice a week. And then three times a week!

Meanwhile, life at home and at work were both terrific. Elias was extremely supportive of my efforts and he loved the changes to my body. He loved how I looked before, during and after the transformation which was awesome. With no children and a suportive husband I was able to dive-in head first into my workouts and into learning MMA skills. It felt great to be re-shaping my body instead of just trying to shed pounds.

When we began I bench pressed 155lbs, a pretty good starting point but then again I weighed 285lbs. I could squat 280lbs after practicing briefly and I could deadlift 280lbs once I learned how. After about three years I was benching 205, squatting 360 and deadlifting 390. Now, thirteen years later I can bench press 250lbs, squat 435 and deadlift 465lbs.

Meanwhile, Elias had gotten up to 210lbs and that was not healthy. He is now settled in at about 182lbs.. I outweigh my husband by about 35lbs, but that only tells part of the story. His top bench press is 125, best squat is 210lbs and top deadlift is 260lbs. But what is most exciting is the one-on-one combat we engage in. Our wrestling matches are an absolute blast!

But before getting into specifics, just a few more numbers for you; I have 28-inch thighs, 17-inch calves, 46-inch hips, 31-inch waist, 42DD-inch.

I have now been in hand-to-hand combat classes including boxing, kick-boxing, submission wrestling, jiujitsu for thirteen-plus years. Four years ago, at the start of 2017, I met Wanda through Didi and got formally into the world of Female Domination. I had enjoyed going up against and defeating men and once I spoke honestly and freely to Didi about my feelings and desire to dominate, she told me to embrace it because SHE feels the same way, and some work with Wanda will advance us both a ton toward our goals of utilize what we have to be the Fem-Boss!

When Didi and I went to work with Wanda it was a 500 mile journey that was well worth it! We left on a Thursday and the drive was definitely part of the fun! Meeting Wanda was amazing! It would be an amazing, life-enhancing situation for any dominant woman, but for me it had added significance. Wanda is built a lot like me. She’s a bit heavier, similar in height and her general body structore is so much like mine. Plus, she’s African-American. I found this to be helpful because when people see her they have much the same reactions as when they see me.

When we arrived in the afternoon Thursday, Wanda talked with us about our background, our goals, our present routine and a few other odds and ends. It was the most awesome introductory talk ever because it helped organize our days perfectly. This was an amazing opportunity to further blend my weightlifting, combat experience and my Femme-Domme hobby that I was now quite committed to.

Wanda switched some things about my weightlifting routine, but not much. The additions she made were exercises designed to help me gain more snap on my punches and kicks and more power on my leg squeezes. Basically it was all designed to make what I was doing as a fighter and grappler more effective.  Didi’s routine was also enhanced which she loved. I really respected and enjoyed the fact that even as my trainer/mentor, Didi was very open to learning new things and implementing them. It was also the first time I saw Didi kick severe ass! One of the main elements that myself and Didi learned was when to alter your routine and how to alter it. There was so much to learn and I definitely left knowing that I’d need to and want to keep learning about weightlifting, combat and Femme-Domme.

Wanda also proved to be the most knowledgeable fighter I ever met. Plus she has a knack for instructing. She made amazing observations, modifications and set fantastic goals for us. While I loved the grappling instruction the most since it’s my best mode of combat, the stand-up-fighting was actually the most useful. We all do what we enjoy the most so for me I fell behind on fists and kicks while embracing squeezing the sh*t out of people instead!

The Femme-Domme instruction was absolutely revolutionary. I never imagined that I’d get to have these discussions and learn from two experts about the male brain, the female brain and the artform of Femme-Domme. Wanda speaks very openly and freely about her background, her experiences, things she has tried, seen and noticed during her time defeating, dominating and Owning men. Wanda is about my age, so this lifelong pursuit has been a twenty-plus year process!

Wanda also loved learning from our us which was humbling and a true honor. Getting together with other powerful, skilled, dominant women is a blast and especially useful. Nobody should feel like they are alone with their kinks and fetishes. As long as everyone is consenting it’s all-fun. Plus, this particular area (women defeating/dominating men) is actually quite common even though it’s taboo generally speaking. This just means a woman wouldn’t say things are good, tied my husband to the basement pole last night after nearly knocking him out. And most guys don’t tell their friends and family that their girlfriend or wife made them tap out to a headscissors or pinned them and squeezed their balls.

Wanda was also amazingly generous in bringing in several men for us to beat-up-on after our instruction. It was the last thing we did Sunday morning before we left for home. Lo,