New Ideas From Old Habits

By Bridgett Handy

Talking is a good way to share behavior experiences. When we share life events with others, information not only goes forth, but people can receive help, be touched by love, and be inspired. I never dreamed to achieve a status or title. I always knew what I had to accomplish. However, I wasn’t always sure how to go about not falling into social norms. I grew up without parental guidance and had to figure things out on my own. Indulging in risky behaviors can lead to a life of discomfort and shame. I suffered from anxiety, had trouble retaining information, and became a teenage mom who built up a wall and would easily shy away. I could have allowed all my troubles and setbacks to stunt my growth by accepting the hand that was dealt to me. Instead, I prayed, read, became very observant and went to therapy. Creating "New Ideas From Old Habits" enhanced my creativity and kept me open to change and assessments. I grabbed hold to God’s unchanging hands, learned to behave my health, and subsequently I found a love for all of humanity. Like most people I am not bad; human beings just sometimes do bad things. God can turn a heart of stone as well as excessive thoughts into a smooth conversation among peers.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Bridgett Handy
• Release date: Apr 10, 2020
• ISBN: 9781733479097

Bridgett Handy

Bridgett Handy is an independent thinker, licensed Minister and organizer of Part-Two-Ministry. Bridgett advocates for transitional housing and she is a mother and grandmother who lives in Memphis, Tennessee.

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Introduction

Behave-Your-Health

Behave-your-health. We are not bad people, we just do bad things. Creating a lifestyle of bad habits when we are experiencing trials and difficulties can happen without having any intention. The good thing is, once we discover that we are acting out of order, we can change. Creating new ideas from bad old habits gives us a credibility deserving of our own judgment. When we are at our low point and can’t seem to help ourselves, seeking help from others is always a good option. Having a bad leak in our spirit doesn’t mean we can’t attune ourselves to living a better quality life. We perish in our transgressions and soar in liberation.

Sometimes risks are attractive, and it’s not until they are acted on that we are able to determine if it was a good or bad idea. Which one of us has never chased a desired sensation? Behave-your-health and others will sense that you do so and replicate. When we are treating ourselves well, we win. Therefore, when others are behaving badly to us, we just might overlook the offence if we are not gentle to self. The best way to handle an offence is to immediately check the behavior. We need to know what is and what isn’t acceptable behavior.

I used to behave in ways that wasn’t in my best interests. Once I sought to gain a peace and joy that have no death, focusing on redirecting my energy on positive things became addictive.

You might be in the habit of excessive thinking and start to work towards dealing only in facts and not fear. Remember a sticky thought can cause a struggle with the pages turning; that is to hinder you from moving on, moving away, moving forward and in some cases from disassociating or forgetting.

You might be in the habit of attaching to people who don’t appreciate you, and with careful observation you may adapt to vetting people and setting boundaries.

You might be in the habit of doing impulsive things and might need to slow down and consider the cost and consequences.

You might be in the habit of complaining then after considering the stress center around negativity; the benefits of being a solution provider will appear more attractive.

You might be in the habit of saying yes to everything; striving to do less to please others at the expense of you suffering and feeling bad will increase the overall scope of how to be loved without paying for it.

You might be in the habit of reacting without taking time to consider the matter; pulling back and responding with clarity and good intentions create good relationships.

You might be in the habit of wearing out your welcome; get used to just enjoying whatever that gets your attention and watch how much happier you’ll become.

You might be in the habit of needing to control; trust the process and be glad about it.

You might be in the habit of showing up to places you really didn’t want to be; take a stance, say what you mean and mean what you say.

You might be in the habit of stressing; be attentive and recognize triggers. That way you can be good at assessing when to file away those things that need no attention, to embrace those things capable of producing rare jewels.

You might be in the habit of compromising your self-worth; practicing a lifestyle of high self-esteem means no one will be able take away your dignity.

You might be in the habit of wavering your personal beliefs; remain solid.

You might be in the habit of attacking other’s character; respect people’s personality, judge not, and be kind.

You might be in the habit of repressing and suppressing; get right to the point, keep your head high and be assertive. Life is a big bucket of opportunities.

You might be in the habit of buying expensive things; seek after simple things and big ticket items will find you.

Chapter One: Societal Drama

Since the days of ancient civilization people have been dying. Some were hurt, others were ashamed, and many never got over the feeling of being defeated. Then there were those people who were full of love and compassion that possibly died without any type of prejudices. To be on this physical plane, whether you are well off, feeling broken and beat down, hurt, anxious, deficient, or even the biggest skeptic chances are, you have a desire for something. Whatever that something is, there will be twice as many annoyances attempting to keep you from obtaining it. Annoyances are tormenting impressions or triggers that we can go beyond. No matter how murky life may seem, nothing is worthy of a senseless death. Be sympathetic, heroic and most importantly, don’t be caught off guard; give extraordinary attention to life. A spirit vexed is a spirit broken but not destroyed. The soul belongs to God. Since the beginning of civilization God has been the only High-Priest or Priestess to heal and make right from wrong.

The highest form of excellence is the relationship we have with ourselves. Certainly, people do the opposite of good, and love from the storehouse of memory. We are free to choose our behavior, but make the wrong move and the consequences won’t be left to us. We read in the newspapers, on television, and over the internet just about everything that can be imagined. Wouldn’t it be amazing to die without any detriments? Imagine the feeling of spending every day as we exist, being equipped to zone in and out of issues without ever being stimulated by fear, worry or excessive anxiety. A life of peace and joy without chaos is feasible.

To know irrefutably that the only things dying are things, it is always possible to get along in this world safe. Who better than the person experiencing disorder can reduce or completely stop chaos and confusion from hurting them? Drama in the sense of disarray is a part of worldly living and if anything needs to quickly perish, it should be those demands and influences society places on us.

Living extremely comfortable is a matter of resolving one’s identity crises. Get settled with who you are and take care of those things that you can handle within your ability. Allow yourself a chance to experience unconditional love inwardly as well as outwardly. Without particular issues, the welfare of all people can be favorable. Remember, you cannot change anyone else. We must practice what we preach. We must preach love and give love; preach honesty and be honest; if simplicity marks are on your back then be upfront and always be ready to own your stuff. Some folks have been hurt so bad in life that holding back an apology can be entirely based on their conditioning. An avenger who identifies with pain as a normalcy in most cases can hurt people and not take it as serious as the victims they abuse.

The purpose of our God given defense system is to elevate us from persons or fear into