47 Highly Winning Attitudes for Happiness: Life Lessons for Human Happiness

By Dr. S.K. Babooa

47 HIGHLY WINNING ATTITUDES FOR HAPPINESS
With this masterpiece YOU will:
Unfold the life lesson of permanent happiness.
Uncover the amazing everlasting happiness in your family, personal, business, organization and professional life.
Receive outstanding advices on how to keep the wheel of happiness revolving throughout your existence.
Learn to slow down the pace of your life and deep drown in the nectar of happiness in the contemporary moment.
Realize your dreams of happiness and open a powerful happy living
Believe in your spouse, children or anyone connected to as core values of happiness.
and many more!
This book contains the most highly winning attitudes you ever dreamed of. After learning and applying the knowledge of this book in your life, you will be the most joyous, delightful, contended and happy person in the world! I wish you an everlasting happy journey in your life.

• Language: English
• Publisher: AuthorHouse UK
• Release date: Dec 24, 2013
• ISBN: 9781491887684

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47 HIGHLY WINNING

ATTITUDES for

HAPPINESS

Life Lessons for Human Happiness

DR S.K. BABOOA

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Published by AuthorHouse 12/18/2013

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Contents

1 INTRODUCTION

2 HAPPINESS AND UNHAPPINESS

3 CLARIFY YOUR VISION IN LIFE

4 GREED FOR MORE TIME

5 CRAVING FOR MORE MONEY

6 MIND AS THE SOURCE OF HAPPINESS

7 MAINTAIN POSITIVE THOUGHTS

8 HAPPINESS IS IN THE PRESENT MOMENT

9 EXCHANGE YOUR THOUGHTS EFFECTIVELY

10 NUTURE YOUR SOUL IN A CLEAN ENVIRONMENT

11 AVOID SARCASTIC REMARKS AND BACKBITING

12 AVOID POSTPONING EVERYTHING

13 DO NOT WAIT TO VALUE YOUR POTENTIAL

14 STICK TO YOUR PATHWAY

15 DO NOT NURTURE RELATIONSHIP THAT UPROOTS YOUR LOVE AND AFFECTION

16 GENERATE JOY IN THE PRESENT MOMENT

17 WATER THE TREE OF COURAGE IN THE GARDEN OF YOUR LIFE

18 AVOID THE HABIT OF ADVERTISING YOUR PROBLEM TO EVERYBODY YOU MEET ON YOUR WAY

19 AVOID THE NEGATIVE FEELING THAT THE WORLD WILL END TOMORROW

20 DO NOT INTERUPT YOUR INNER SILENCE WITH YOUR PHONE

21 STOP JUSTIFYING YOURSELF TO THOSE WHO DO NOT UNDERSTAND YOU

22 KNOW FOR CERTAIN THAT YOU ARE NOT THE MASTER OF EVERYTHING

23 DO YOUR DUTIES WELL

24 DO YOUR DUTIES WITHOUT ATTACHMENT

25 EMPOWER YOUR CONCENTRATION

26 WELCOME ANY PROBLEM OF YOUR LIFE

27 TAKE A WALK AMIDST NATURE

28 HAVE FAITH IN YOUR PRAYER

29 DO NOT GIVE UP IN FAILUERES

30 CHOOSE YOUR COMPANION CAREFULLY

31 REMOVE GREEDINESS FROM YOUR LIFE

32 INCULCATE POSITIVE MANNERS

33 AVOID OPENLY CHANGING OTHERS

34 BE HONEST IN ALL YOUR APPROACHES TO LIFE

35 PATIENCE AS THE ROAD TO HAPPINESS

36 AVOID UNNECESSARY REACTION TO REMARKS OR COMMENTS

37 MAINTAIN A HIGH LEVEL OF CONFIDENCE

38 USE HUMILITY IN ALL YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

39 BE COMPASSIONATE TO EVERYBODY

40 ADD A SMILE ON YOUR FACE

41 LISTEN TO GOOD MUSIC

42 KEEP FIT BY DOING REGULAR EXERCISE

43 AVOID SELF-CENTREDNESS

44 AVOID NEGATIVE EMOTIONS

45 APPLYING FORGIVENESS AND LETTING GO IN YOUR LIFE

46 PUT A BRAKE ON YOUR LIFE AND HAVE REST

47 DO NOT NEGLECT YOUR FAMILY

48 DO NOT NEGLECT THE GOLDEN PETALS OF GOD

—YOUR CHILDREN!

49 CONCLUSION

I dedicate this book to you, my dear reader. May you attain everlasting happiness in the journey of your life.

Waiting for happiness to come in your life, makes you unhappy. But bringing happiness in the current moment of your life, makes you happy everlastingly.

—Dr. S.K. BABOOA.

Slow down the pace of your life by adoring the lessons of each day through reflection, vision and imagination of every moment spent as it contains its own beauty, glory, joy and happiness.

—Dr. S.K. BABOOA.

Happiness is like a holy water which purifies your body, mind, heart and soul. It brings divine rays of lights in the dark corners of your soul. Happiness is the most powerful anti-dote to your stress, strain and pain.

—Dr. S.K. BABOOA.

1

INTRODUCTION

Are you still waiting for happiness to come in your life? Have your tastes and wishes attain real happiness in this changing environment? Are you authentically happy at this stage of your life? Well! I honor you for picking up this book and I dedicate it to you, for everlasting happiness in your life.

Whatever you have done, are still doing and will be doing with your life; revolves around your ultimate wish—happiness. Since your first breath, you have noticed the radical changes going on around the globe at breakneck speed. Life on earth has become a mad scramble for the survival of the fittest. In this ultra—modern society, the pace of your life has speeded up as if an oxcart has been hitched to an electric engine. Your eyes open in the morning with the buzzing sound of the clock. Your inner silence gets upset with the artificial ear-rending noise of the world. Time seems to be jumping like monkeys and speeding like lightening. You find yourself amidst the racing clock. Struggling to catch up and run with the accelerating clock. Internally, your pulse, blood pressure, mind turmoil, stress and heartbeat are getting closer to complete breakdown. In this mad rat race, you find yourself clamoring for more money, possessions, self-interests, self-motives, status, recognition, name, fame and relationship to attain happiness.

The massive and unprecedented advancement in new technologies around the world has added more fuels to human wants and wishes which were hitherto unknown. Yes! Your life is connected in one way or the other with materialism. Material progress in your life is important to certain extent, but not for everlasting happiness. The challenges of the external world have made human beings internally weak. Today, we have a weak heart, fragile relationship and inner fear. Although we live very close to each other, in the same house, locality or country, yet, we are still aloof in human relationship. Many people in their own houses do not talk whole heartedly with their own family members. Husband and wife keep on fighting or struggling for their own ego. The family life has become very fragile and weak. Children are neglected in their own houses.

Many parents are not looking after their own children. Everyone in his own house appears to be a foreigner. Development in communication technologies has enabled human being to communicate faster round the globe. Today, the world seems to shrink into a series of villages because of the speed of human interaction with all forms of technology gadgets. You can move and communicate faster in today’s world. This interaction of human beings with their own children, husband, wives and fellow close relatives through digital communication has reduced physical distance. Yet, we are still remote in human relationship. How many families we have seen living distant in their own houses? There are many houses where you can find husband and wife leading a mute life. Children are the worst to suffer. Lack of communication between family members during the breakfast, lunch or dinner, has uprooted the seed of happiness. Sometimes, we wonder, has the advancement in technologies made our family life happier? Disruption, divorce, conflict, fight, stress, negative emotions and competition among family members keep one awake in the middle of the night. It seems that self-centeredness and selfishness have taken firm root in many family lives. Negative attitudes, lack of compassions, lack of humidity, solitude, negative thinking, negative emotions and pursuing selfish interests are some of the ailments that our families, children, societies, organizations and businesses are facing today.

You find yourself very busy in this world. Yes! You are really busy. At times, you feel as if you have no time to stand and stare. You are overworked, restless, pressured and exhausted each second, minute, day, week, month and year. You wonder whatever you are doing will make a change in the course of your life. You ask yourself. ‘Has it been worthwhile doing all these, cutting your connection with your own family life, longing for new aspirations and neglecting yourself in your commitment of being busy?’ You may have attained a certain degree of success or achievement in your professional life, but internally you keep on eating out your own heart. You wonder why you feel such a way? You have attained physical possessions, new jobs, higher pay and congratulations for your success!

But why you still feel jealous of other’s success? Although, you do not mean it, still, internally, you are grumbling and eating out your heart when seeing other’s achievements. You wonder why and why this feeling? Externally, many people put an artificial mask of smile on their faces for other’s success. Although you want real and down to the bottom of your heart happiness to pour out for other’s success, yet, you are not able to make it happen. Why are you pinging and eating your own heart inwardly. Why such a feeling emerges in many human beings like you? Very often, people congratulate others with an artificial smile and enthusiasm. It is a very annoying and uneasy feeling when we see such artificial expressions on people’s face. We wonder where has gone the real and true feeling of happiness! Why do people not smile with their hearts?

Laughter is the nectar of true happiness. Learn to express your laughter with your full heart. Do not be a miser in your smile and laughter. It seems that many people have forgotten how to smile and laugh. Everywhere we find more and more people tensed, stressed and depressed with their own lots. Aspirations for new jobs, higher salary, new house, new husband, new wife,