Finding Sane Relationships in a Crazy World

By Cynthia M. Ruiz

In the fast pace of modern life, there is a lot of craziness and stress. We are social creatures and need unconditional love and support to make it through.

The key to finding sane relationships in your life is you. You are the common denominator in your relationships. If you are happy, your relationships will be better.

This book gives you the tools to unlock your true potential and clear the way for sane relationships. All rewards in life take work. Isnt your happiness worth the effort?

Through self-evaluation and exercises, the book walks you through the steps necessary to feel happy, whole, and complete. Releasing the obstacles that prevent you from being happy is part of the path to finding sane relationships.

This book discusses all types of relationships including family, work, and significant others. You can make a choice to have positive relationships work for you.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Balboa Press
• Release date: Apr 4, 2012
• ISBN: 9781452547671

Cynthia M. Ruiz

Vivir la vida al máximo y su compasión por la gente ha ayudado a Cynthia llegar a la cima en su campo. Sus grados en la consejería le han dado la base para ayudar a las personas a desarrollar todo su potencial, lo que ella ha estado haciendo durante más de dos décadas. A lo largo de su viaje de la vida, se ha desarrollado y ha evolucionado hasta convertirse en un verdadero líder. Recibir muchos elogios y premios por su liderazgo y capacidad para inspirar a otros, ella siempre se esfuerza por seguir siendo humildes. Cynthia sabe la importancia de dar la espalda y se ha comprometido a ayudar a los demás con un porcentaje de las ganancias del libro ir al Centro Agape Internacional Espiritual y will.i.am "s fundación ángel i.am. Ella apareció en Descubre la regalo (película / libro) con notables como su Santidad el Dalai Lama, Michael Bernard Beckwith, y Jack Canfield, y muchos más. Viniendo de culturas mezcladas (Latina y Cherokee), que goza de una pasión por la vida y una apreciación de los dones de la Madre Naturaleza. Cynthia vive en Los Ángeles, donde se disfruta de la diversidad de una ciudad metropolitana.

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Finding Sane Relationships

in a Crazy World

Cynthia M. Ruiz

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Balboa Press rev. date: 2/24/2012

Contents

Acknowledgments

Chapter 1:

Relationships in a Crazy World

Chapter 2:

Foundation for Sane Relationships

Chapter 3:

Self-Love and Happiness: It Starts with Me

Chapter 4:

Release & Let Go of What Holds You Back from Your Happiness.

Chapter 5:

Relationships with Significant Others

Chapter 6:

Be Empowered by Choices

Chapter 7:

Families and Friendships

Chapter 8:

Relationships in the Work World

Chapter 9:

Sustainable Relationships

Chapter 10:

Your New Beginning

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The story of your life is written by you.

—Don Miguel Ruiz

Acknowledgments

First and foremost, I must acknowledge God. I believe that God is Omnipresent; I believe that God is good and God resides within each of us.

This book is dedicated to two of my exceptional friends who are no longer in this physical world, though they have touched my life and taught me about the value of relationships.

My aunt, Shirley Roberts, has blessed me with her loyalty and wisdom. Though not related by blood, we choose to be family and to be in each other’s lives. Our experiences together created many wonderful memories and her courageous spirit lives in my heart.

The second is my beloved friend of twenty-five years, Tad Emery. We spent endless hours talking about life, relationships, and God. Tad’s life was an example that miracles do happen. He touched my life in so many ways; I can truly say I have been touched by an angel. He will never be forgotten.

The biggest blessing in my life has been my son, Arturo D. Chavez. Experiencing his unconditional love as a mother has allowed me to experience the joys of happiness and ultimate fulfillment.

As a mother, I am proud of the man he has become. Arturo is intelligent, compassionate, and lives his life with integrity. He has character, is handsome, and can light up a room with his million-dollar smile. Keep smiling.

I also want to give a special thank you to my friend Shawn G. He is the person who gave me the idea for this book because he thought I had a great perspective about relationships. With that suggestion, I meditated; when I woke the next morning, I had the outline for the book. Shawn, you are a very special person, and the differences we both bring to our friendship have made our conversations interesting and thought provoking. I am happy that you have found that sane relationship in your life! I wish you and your family a lifetime of love and happiness.

While on my spiritual journey, I had the good fortune to find the Agape International Spiritual Center (Agape) under the leadership of Reverend Michael Bernard Beckwith. Attending services and classes at Agape has enriched my life. Agape has taught me to say yes to the universe.

As an expression of my gratitude to Agape, a percentage of my proceeds will be donated to the Agape Youth Ministry program. Investing in our youth is a cause that is near and dear to my heart. I believe that it is the responsibility of a leader to turn around and help the next generation.

I send a big hug to Reverend Michael Bernard Beckwith. Your wisdom and teachings have guided me on a path of spiritual empowerment, which has enhanced all areas of my life. The music at Agape has lifted my soul. Rickie Byars Beckwith and the Agage International Choir have allowed my spirit to soar. Once I found Agape, my life was changed forever. I have also committed to donate a percentage of my royalties to the i.am angel foundation. will.i.am is not only a musical genius but is making a positive difference on this planet.

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