Psychologies

"I’m ashamed of my toxic rivalry with my rich sister,,

QI am not usually competitive, but I am jealous of my sister, who has made a lot of money and plans to retire soon and travel the world. We are both in our 40s. I have struggled for money all my life as a single mother. Envy has changed the way I think of her and I almost wish her bad fortune (only about money). I compete with her over silly things, such as how much exercise we do, who works harder and who is the better parent.

Help me accept that our lives followed different paths and, while I do meaningful work I love, I will never be rich. She owns houses, cars and has a

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