Insecurity: 22 Amazing Lessons on How to Stop Being Insecure in a Relationship

By Joan Cruz

Insecurity in a relationship can be damaging in a number of ways. This eBook aims to help the reader confront issues of relationship insecurity with a series of insightful questions to help establish the causes of your insecurities, helpful advice to provide steps to address your insecurities and an overview of changes that can be made to improve your relationship by overcoming your insecurities. 

This eBook is a key resource for anyone struggling to overcome insecurities that are preventing you from having a happy and healthy relationship. If you can find the time to follow the steps and advice in these 22 Amazing Lessons, then you will be taking the first steps towards a stronger relationship free from issues of distrust, loneliness and low self-esteem.  

This book is divided into seven chapters to help the reader identify whether the root of his or her insecurities lies within or is caused by larger problems in the relationship. It then reviews some of the most common causes of insecurity within a relationship and gives simple, straight-forward advice on how to confront them. 
This is a must-have book for anyone struggling with issues of insecurity in a relationship. 

• Language: English
• Publisher: JVzon Studio
• Release date: Mar 8, 2017
• ISBN: 9781386469599

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Introduction

Insecurity in a relationship can be one of the biggest downfalls on the path to long-term happiness with your partner, yet many of us struggle with it daily. Those who have felt insecure in a relationship will recognize the symptoms of distrust, arguments and low self-esteem which come with it.

This eBook aims to offer some helpful advice for people struggling with insecurity in a relationship by inviting the reader to evaluate the roots of their insecurities and then follow some simple steps to help overcome them. Read on to learn more about how you can tackle your own insecurities and work towards a happier, stronger relationship with your partner.

Chapter 1 – Evaluation

Introduction

There are many reasons that a person might feel insecure in his or her relationship and the absolute priority for anybody wishing to overcome these feelings is to first identify the reason he or she feels insecure.

As feelings of insecurity are subjective, it can be difficult to assess the true cause of these emotions. However, broadly speaking, the causes of feelings of insecurity arise from two main roots.

The first is an internal root, which one might refer to as ‘personal demons’. Are you a person who has always suffered from feelings of worthlessness and self-doubt? Have you been cheated on before? Do you worry that you are not an attractive, interesting or successful person?

Personal demons can haunt relationships and the insecurities which arise from our own feelings about ourselves can be projected onto our partner. Feelings of insecurity that come from our own personal emotions and histories can often be dealt with by changing the way we feel about ourselves.

The second main root of insecurity is an external cause. Is your partner verbally abusive? Does your partner act suspiciously? Do you struggle to communicate? When an insecurity is caused by an outside cause then the key to resolving it is to address the cause directly, to open up lines of communication and to evaluate the value of the relationship as a