100 Ways to Love and Choose your Soulmate: A not so long life Journey of learning to find your Husband or Wife

By Sondag Haluka

00 Ways To Love and choose your Soulmate is filled with practical ideas for pursuing love, finding your soulmate, Choosing your Husband or Wife and appreciating the person when you find them. 

Finding someone is not about choosing the right Soulmate but is is about being the right Soul mate. 

Be patient and this book "100 Ways to Love and Choose your Soulmate" will equip you with everything you need to say I LOVE you to the Person you really Love! 

Single, Married or divorced this book will ensure you choose wisely or appreciate what you have! Marriage is not for the short term, It is one long term progression of Goals! 
Happy Finding the Love of your Life, You Husband, Your Wife, Your Soul Mate and Your life partner! 

Rock it, You have a 100 ways to Love and Choose!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Sondag Haluka
• Release date: Jul 9, 2016
• ISBN: 9781536531732

Book preview

Introduction - Choosing Wisely

For most people, finding the ideal mate is believed to be a spontaneous event which happens in a nostalgic vignette, complete with orchestral music playing and candlelight. In reality, however, finding the ideal mate, or in more romanticized terms, your soulmate, is a carefully crafted process. It isn’t usually as melodramatic and as ideal as those scenes that people cry to in the movies.

Of course, the biggest question here is, what assurance do you have that you will find the right mate?

Let’s put this in a more relatable perspective: When a person buys a pair of shoes, a person would scan a store and look for a particular style. Thereafter, he or she would meticulously examine the shoe based on a perfectly constructed mental rubric with criterias such as comfort, affordability, durability, and for those who are avid shoe fanatics, one may even base their decision of buying the shoe, on the particular brand or collection that the shoe is part of. Point is, people have become more meticulous when it comes to shopping for their footwear, than when it comes to finding their lifetime partners. This particular truth is not only ominous and worrisome, but it is a harsh reality that can still be changed, if and only if people decide to make better decisions through learning how to be the right person, in order to choose the right person.

The following words are here to guide you. They are here to help you omit a lifetime of suffering. Open your heart. Open your mind. Let God speak to you right now, and guide you.

Some of the things that you may find in this book will be, in a way, harsh. The truth can be harsh sometimes. It is, however, in my best intention, as one painful sentence to swallow is better than fifty years of misery after you make the big mistake of marrying the wrong person.

#1

Being in Communion with God Should Be Your Goal

If the goal of your relationship or you finding a relationship is to have someone to kiss and hold hands with, then you’ll eventually fall apart because the honeymoon phase will only last for so long before reality hits you both with challenges. Remember, your end goal will determine the success of your relationship. Your potential partner should also understand this. Aim to be in communion with God. This way, all your actions, thoughts and decisions will be guided by God, and not your worldly desires.

#2

Have A Group of Trusted People Around You

Since we, as human beings, are prone to emotional coloring, or having our own emotions cloud our judgment, we need other people who can watch from a third person’s perspective who can objectively tell you if you’re on the right track, or if you’re about to do a nose dive straight to an ocean of sharks. These people, particularly your parents and friends, will be the ones to guide you. They will be your