Ask Him if He Likes Dogs: Get to Know Him Before Falling into Bed and into Love

By Susie Mac

Even after a few weeks you can know whether your hunky new man is someone to take home to Mom and Dad, or marry and have babies with. And because of all the chaos and pain that passion can create in a woman's life, it makes sense to quickly end those relationships that have no future, or at best, a painful one.

Because once you fall in love, it's hard to leave a man no matter how many red flags dance before your blinded eyes, or how bad he is for you.

We can protect ourselves from making bad choices by waiting to have sex with that man who seems so perfect. No one is perfect! 

So before you lose yourself in his big strong arms, lose your head and lose your heart, find out if his flaws are ones you can overlook.

This short book gives thought-provoking and revealing questions to ask, and many things to do with each new man so you get to know him on a level that will expose his true self. 

Read this book, ask him these simple questions and find out who the real man is beneath his dating mask.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Susie Mac
• Release date: Jul 13, 2014
• ISBN: 9781516348596

Book preview

Be careful who you invest your time in. Nothing is worse than wasted time. It’s the one thing you can’t get back.

~Unknown

You’ve Met Someone

Okay, so you’ve met a man and he seems wonderful. He’s charming, seems intelligent enough, has a job and that wisp of hair that keeps falling over his soulful eyes makes your heart beat just a bit fast. You can even imagine bringing him home to Mom and Dad and not seeing Mom make that face she makes. The one where she raises just one eyebrow, then mouths, Really? to good ‘ole Dad.

He’s a very good kisser, this new man, and you’ve been foregoing shaving your legs. You’ve even been wearing your rattiest underwear just to make it easier to not end up in bed with him at the end of a date. You do this because he just may be the one and you don’t want him to lose interest because you were too easy.

You think you could fall in love with him.

Falling in love is easy to do with a guy like this, but you risk all the mess and pain that’s involved if he really isn’t right for you. You’ve been there before and it really, really hurt! So what should you do to keep from making a life-changing mistake?

What you should do is slow things down and really find out who the man really is behind that charming smile. And as you wait, ask him the ready-made questions posed in this book and do the many things I recommend you do with him before you let passion take over your body, heart and mind. And come up with your own set of questions based on who you are and what you want. 

I don’t recommend that you ask and do all these things in a week, or even two or three. If you try, he’ll feel like he’s being interrogated and you might not even get through the whole list before he takes off running. Keep it casual and keep your tone of voice light and conversational. Also, it’s important to be open with him as well. He needs to know the authentic you. Do you want to be loved for the real you, or for some unrealistic ideal a man has imagined you to be?

By the time you get through both of these lists, you will know enough about this potential man of your dreams to know whether you should proceed to the next level of intimacy, or, wisely, decide to pass.

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