ASK DR LOUISE
HOW CAN I PROTECT MY SONS FROM THEIR FATHER?
Q I got divorced four years ago and my ex-husband and I have two sons who are now in their teens.
According to the divorce settlement, my ex has the right to see the boys occasionally and also to have them for holidays. The thing is he tends to pitch up and wants access to them whenever it suits him and without arranging it with me or the boys.
But the more serious problem is the stuff he talks about when they’re with him. He fought on the border and
