The Grinders: Why Few Succeed, Many Fail, and Most Die Average in Business and Life
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Kim is a stay-at-home wife who can no longer suppress her dreams of starting her own business. Her husband turns abusive after discovering her ambitions to become an entrepreneur.
Behind the scenes of Kim’s life are two forces that will battle each other to shape her destiny—Success and Failure. Success and his team are striving every hour to encourage Kim as she undergoes the success process to reach her full potential in life. However, Failure with her team cannot allow Kim to become successful until she experiences horrific physical and emotional abuse and constant personal setbacks designed to make her give up on her dreams.
As Kim cries and crawls through her success process, she befriends an alcoholic old man who is considered the world’s greatest failure and was cursed by Success and sent to the land of the has-beens. But if he helps Kim succeed, he might get a second chance to achieve his past dreams.
In everyday life, most people fail or die average. And Failure gets stronger every time someone gives up on their dreams. Who will triumph when Fear faces Passion, Doubt dares Hope, and Failure smiles at Success?
James Bird Guess
Homeless after high school and at rock bottom of his life, James Bird Guess discovered a success process called Grinding, in which a person creates success using ambition, vision, strategy and perseverance. Starting with only $1,000, poor credit, and a dream to become a millionaire, James single-handedly built a quarter million dollar enterprise selling products from the trunk of his car. Deciding to pursue his passion more than profit, he founded James Bird Guess International Success Academy, a leadership training and research company that trains thousands of managers and business leaders from organizations across the world, with one goal - to inspire the best performance out of people. From homeless to successful boot-strapping entrepreneur, to a world-renowned speaker and trainer, James is also the best-selling author of the book, How I Made a Quarter Million Dollar$ From the Trunk of My Car.
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The Grinders - James Bird Guess
The Grinders
Why Few Succeed, Many Fail, and Most Die Average In Business and In Life
James Bird Guess
The Grinders
Copyright © 2013 by James Bird Guess International Success Academy LLC. All rights reserved.
First Smashwords Edition: August 2013
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Dedication
To the 9-to-5 grinding workplace professional.
To the single mom who has not given up on her dreams.
To the unpaid student intern who grinds for experience over compensation.
To the entrepreneur about to begin and the entrepreneur about to quit.
I grind for all of you. Grind for greatness!
Acknowledgments
GOD!
God is watching you to see if you are willing to grind for what you keep praying about.
Grind for God!
Shashea Wifey
Guess
Maurice Big Bro Reese
Lewis
Introduction: The Failures
Her name is Failure. She is standing in the distance as an elderly man talks to a tombstone in a graveyard. The tombstone is where the man’s wife was laid to rest ten years ago. The man often comes to talk to his wife about his life. As he cries, he yells out, I’m sorry, but I just can’t do it. I can’t go on.
Before she died, his wife made him promise that he would live out his lifelong dream of becoming a published author. Over the past ten years, the man had written many manuscripts, but he feared sending them to publishers because of the stinging criticism he had experienced in the past. One publisher told him he should never write again and that he should try another occupation. As tears fall from the man’s face, he says to himself, It just wasn’t meant to be.
The man sheds his final tear and takes his last breath as he falls to the ground, dead.
Failure looks at the scene and immediately smiles. She walks toward the man, kneels down, and gently closes his eyelids. Looking up at the sky, she screams, Six billion and counting!
Failure gets stronger every time a person gives up or quits in life, and then she collects their goals and dreams like trophies. She loves to walk through graveyards, or what she calls her playgrounds. She says people don’t realize that graveyards are the most valuable places in the world, because most people die with their talents, gifts, and dreams still inside them. Great books, Failure insists, will never be published. Big businesses will never be started, and powerful singers will never be heard.
Looking down from the clouds of hope, far up in the sky above, is Success. As he shakes his head, he laments, She’s done it again!
Immediately, his associates scurry to his office. Their names are Passion, Vision, Strategy, and Perseverance.
Where were you guys when he was in the middle of quitting?
asks Success. Perseverance replies, It was over. He ignored me. I tried to get his attention in many forms, but Failure unleashed Fear and Doubt, and I could not get him to overcome them. He just ran out of hope.
Passion, Vision, Strategy, do you have anything to say?
With all due respect, sir, it has been ten years, and since he never developed Perseverance, all we could do is keep showing him what he already knew over time,
says Passion.
This is not good,
Success replies. She is getting stronger. Less than 20 percent of everyday people down there in that world actually achieve their dreams. She is making all of us more irrelevant by the hour. Why is it so hard for people to become me? I am simply joy, peace, and happiness.
As Success grills his associates for letting another person fall victim to Failure, Failure returns to her office, where her associates Procrastination, Fear, Doubt, and Hate are all celebrating another destroyed dream. As they toast with champagne, Doubt looks his partner Fear in the eyes and says, You and I are unstoppable. Do you realize that we are responsible for murdering more dreams than the Devil himself?
Fear laughs, raises her glass, and says, To us, the real Dream Team!
They’re both laughing as Failure walks in and stares all of them down with an unsatisfied glare in her eyes. The room falls silent, no one moves, they barely breathe. Failure pours herself a drink, sits down in her chair, and smiles. She raises her glass and exclaims, To mediocrity!
They all raise their glasses and repeat, To mediocrity!
and resume their celebration.
Chapter 1:
Success vs. Failure
You can be anything you want to be in life.
—Failure
Between the two worlds of Success and Failure continues everyday life. Failure gets weaker when everyday people work hard, persevere, have no doubt and no fear. Failure is afraid of becoming irrelevant and does not want everyday people to become successful.
Success wants people to work hard so they appreciate him, and when they become him, they will experience everlasting joy, peace, and happiness as a result of reaching their full potential. However, Success cannot allow people to become successful until they experience Failure. Failure and her team roam among everyday people in everyday life, while Success and his team observe from high above in the clouds of hope, and cannot directly intervene in the affairs of everyday life, until, that is, people start to seek him and aspire to become successful.
In the world of everyday life, people are born crying because they are born failures, since they begin