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    How Many Lies Are Too Many?
    Stop Dancing in the Gaslight
    100 Red Flags in Relationships
    Ebook series4 titles

    Gaslight Survivor Series

    By Victoria Summit

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    About this series

    Are you walking on eggshells in valiant attempts to please your new kind-of- emotional friend?

    Is your dreamy summer fling turning into a nightmare of epic proportions?

    Do you always seem to end up in turbulent relationships?

    Do you always seem to end up with drama queens despite your best intentions to avoid them?

    Stop walking on eggshells around your partner and learn when enough is enough.

    How many lies are too many?

    What is gaslighting?

    It's never too soon to learn red flags about people. Toxic relationships happen at all ages and between all sexes. It's not just "all guys" or "all girls." There are "good" and "bad" people of both sexes.

    This short book is geared towards teens and young adults who are beginning to explore the dating world.

    Though navigating human nature is always trial and error, there are some basic qualities that so-called "bad boys and bad girls" have in common. This book points out what is normal and not normal in some familiar everyday dating life scenarios.

    It takes a really long time to truly get to know some one. Don't rush into a new romance. Relax, take one step at a time, and abide by your own set boundaries. If something doesn't feel quite right, trust your gut instinct. No one is worth wasting the summer over! If someone hurts you or you find you're hurting him or her, move on.

    Protect your heart (and bank account!) and trust your gut. Don't get trapped in a dysfunctional codependent relationship. Domestic violence never begins looking like domestic violence. Learn how to identify red flags and have the courage to take action.

    Other books in the Gaslight Survivor Series:

    100 Red Flags in Relationships
    How Many Lies Are Too Many?
    Dancing in the Gaslight
    Bad Boys, Bad Girls

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherScarlett Publishing
    Release dateAug 10, 2012
    How Many Lies Are Too Many?
    Stop Dancing in the Gaslight
    100 Red Flags in Relationships

    Titles in the series (4)

    • 1

      100 Red Flags in Relationships
      100 Red Flags in Relationships

      100 Red Flags in Relationships

      Victoria Summit
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      Do you have the knack for attracting the wrong guy? Have you ever felt like you've been sucked into a tornado and then spit out into the rubble at the end of a relationship? Do you have trouble trusting your gut instinct? Do you wish you had a secret weapon for spotting cheaters? 100 Red Flags is a collection of behaviour that could indicate there's a need to take a closer look at what is really going on in the relationship. Don't be too quick to forgive someone's "slip-ups." Learn how to be strong with recognizing that a lot of the flags listed in this manual seem simple. A few here and there may be nothing to worry about, stuff happens in life. A few adding up and more adding on as time goes on may mean a good hard look at what is really going on. Be true to yourself. Grow a backbone. Don't let any man or woman use you for sex, money, business, real estate, children, or anyting else any more. Realize that there are some people you can't change, you can't fix, you can't save, you can't help. They will put on a good show at first and it's very hard to see through their facade. But if you give it time, and pay attention, you will know soon enough whether your perfect soul mate really has YOUR best interests in mind? Think about what you want in life and how you're going to get it. Consider that being in love is addictive and should feel good. When a romance starts to get rocky, check for red flags. If you suspect deception, get out. Your partner will never change. If he or she can, it will take years of therapy and rebuilding YOUR trust. Once trust is gone from a relationship, it can be difficult to rebuild. Some people don't want to rebuild. Recognize that this isn't the relationship you need to have the proactive life you deserve and move on to the next one. Life is short to engage in unhealthy relationships. We all have lessons to learn and people to meet. Have fun but be careful out there! Red Flags are collected from years of listening to relationship histories from clients and friends.

      Do you have the knack for attracting the wrong guy? Have you ever felt like you've been sucked into a tornado and then spit out into the rubble at the end of a relationship? Do you have trouble trusting your gut instinct? Do you wish you had a secret weapon for spotting cheaters? 100 Red Flags is a collection of behaviour that could indicate there's a need to take a closer look at what is really going on in the relationship. Don't be too quick to forgive someone's "slip-ups." Learn how to be strong with recognizing that a lot of the flags listed in this manual seem simple. A few here and there may be nothing to worry about, stuff happens in life. A few adding up and more adding on as time goes on may mean a good hard look at what is really going on. Be true to yourself. Grow a backbone. Don't let any man or woman use you for sex, money, business, real estate, children, or anyting else any more. Realize that there are some people you can't change, you can't fix, you can't save, you can't help. They will put on a good show at first and it's very hard to see through their facade. But if you give it time, and pay attention, you will know soon enough whether your perfect soul mate really has YOUR best interests in mind? Think about what you want in life and how you're going to get it. Consider that being in love is addictive and should feel good. When a romance starts to get rocky, check for red flags. If you suspect deception, get out. Your partner will never change. If he or she can, it will take years of therapy and rebuilding YOUR trust. Once trust is gone from a relationship, it can be difficult to rebuild. Some people don't want to rebuild. Recognize that this isn't the relationship you need to have the proactive life you deserve and move on to the next one. Life is short to engage in unhealthy relationships. We all have lessons to learn and people to meet. Have fun but be careful out there! Red Flags are collected from years of listening to relationship histories from clients and friends.

    • 2

      How Many Lies Are Too Many?
      How Many Lies Are Too Many?

      How Many Lies Are Too Many?

      Victoria Summit
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      Is your relationship a rollar coaster ride of highs and lows? Does your sweetie often lie to you? Do you find yourself in horrible fights and you're not even sure how they started? Does your lover try to trick you into thinking you're forgetful or stupid? Does your lover make promises and break them? Are you fooling around with a married man or woman and they STILL haven't left the spouse? Where is your personal breaking point for putting up with liars and cheaters? Why don't you care enough about your self to protect your heart from liars and cheaters? Some women and men are magnets for liars, cheaters, narcissists, con artists and psychopaths. These men and women are generally the type of people who are helpful, kind and nuturing. These people are prey for the predatory pathological liar. Liars lie. Cheaters cheat. Don't believe for one minute that if you love someone enough that you can "cure" him or her.

      Is your relationship a rollar coaster ride of highs and lows? Does your sweetie often lie to you? Do you find yourself in horrible fights and you're not even sure how they started? Does your lover try to trick you into thinking you're forgetful or stupid? Does your lover make promises and break them? Are you fooling around with a married man or woman and they STILL haven't left the spouse? Where is your personal breaking point for putting up with liars and cheaters? Why don't you care enough about your self to protect your heart from liars and cheaters? Some women and men are magnets for liars, cheaters, narcissists, con artists and psychopaths. These men and women are generally the type of people who are helpful, kind and nuturing. These people are prey for the predatory pathological liar. Liars lie. Cheaters cheat. Don't believe for one minute that if you love someone enough that you can "cure" him or her.

    • Stop Dancing in the Gaslight
      Stop Dancing in the Gaslight

      Stop Dancing in the Gaslight

      Victoria Summit
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      Is your love life a series of ups and downs? Are you walking on eggshells? Are you nervous and jumpy all the time? Are you doubting your own memory? Are you afraid to make decisions in your private life even if you have a powerful career? Gaslighting is a form of mental abuse that some types of people (narcissists, psychopaths, sociopaths) use to manipulate others. The victim of gaslighting may feel like he or she is slowly going crazy with paranoia and forgetfulness. The gaslighter delights in confusing the victim. Sometimes he or she is covering up affairs, gambling, drugs, rapes, serial killing, and other secretive activities. Did you used to be a happy, compassionate person but now your angry and frustrated all the time? Do you yearn for the "early days" of your relationship when everything was picture perfect? Do you wonder how your relationship crumbled so quickly and WHY? You may be dancing in the gaslight and not even know it. Everyone is guilty of gaslighting other people in minor ways, and media certainly gaslights everyone. The gaslighting discussed in Dancing in the Gaslight is focused on abusive romantic relationships.

      Is your love life a series of ups and downs? Are you walking on eggshells? Are you nervous and jumpy all the time? Are you doubting your own memory? Are you afraid to make decisions in your private life even if you have a powerful career? Gaslighting is a form of mental abuse that some types of people (narcissists, psychopaths, sociopaths) use to manipulate others. The victim of gaslighting may feel like he or she is slowly going crazy with paranoia and forgetfulness. The gaslighter delights in confusing the victim. Sometimes he or she is covering up affairs, gambling, drugs, rapes, serial killing, and other secretive activities. Did you used to be a happy, compassionate person but now your angry and frustrated all the time? Do you yearn for the "early days" of your relationship when everything was picture perfect? Do you wonder how your relationship crumbled so quickly and WHY? You may be dancing in the gaslight and not even know it. Everyone is guilty of gaslighting other people in minor ways, and media certainly gaslights everyone. The gaslighting discussed in Dancing in the Gaslight is focused on abusive romantic relationships.

    • Bad Boys, Bad Girls: A Teen Guide to Cheaters and Liars
      Bad Boys, Bad Girls: A Teen Guide to Cheaters and Liars

      Bad Boys, Bad Girls: A Teen Guide to Cheaters and Liars

      Victoria Summit
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      Are you walking on eggshells in valiant attempts to please your new kind-of- emotional friend? Is your dreamy summer fling turning into a nightmare of epic proportions? Do you always seem to end up in turbulent relationships? Do you always seem to end up with drama queens despite your best intentions to avoid them? Stop walking on eggshells around your partner and learn when enough is enough. How many lies are too many? What is gaslighting? It's never too soon to learn red flags about people. Toxic relationships happen at all ages and between all sexes. It's not just "all guys" or "all girls." There are "good" and "bad" people of both sexes. This short book is geared towards teens and young adults who are beginning to explore the dating world. Though navigating human nature is always trial and error, there are some basic qualities that so-called "bad boys and bad girls" have in common. This book points out what is normal and not normal in some familiar everyday dating life scenarios. It takes a really long time to truly get to know some one. Don't rush into a new romance. Relax, take one step at a time, and abide by your own set boundaries. If something doesn't feel quite right, trust your gut instinct. No one is worth wasting the summer over! If someone hurts you or you find you're hurting him or her, move on. Protect your heart (and bank account!) and trust your gut. Don't get trapped in a dysfunctional codependent relationship. Domestic violence never begins looking like domestic violence. Learn how to identify red flags and have the courage to take action. Other books in the Gaslight Survivor Series: 100 Red Flags in Relationships How Many Lies Are Too Many? Dancing in the Gaslight Bad Boys, Bad Girls

      Are you walking on eggshells in valiant attempts to please your new kind-of- emotional friend? Is your dreamy summer fling turning into a nightmare of epic proportions? Do you always seem to end up in turbulent relationships? Do you always seem to end up with drama queens despite your best intentions to avoid them? Stop walking on eggshells around your partner and learn when enough is enough. How many lies are too many? What is gaslighting? It's never too soon to learn red flags about people. Toxic relationships happen at all ages and between all sexes. It's not just "all guys" or "all girls." There are "good" and "bad" people of both sexes. This short book is geared towards teens and young adults who are beginning to explore the dating world. Though navigating human nature is always trial and error, there are some basic qualities that so-called "bad boys and bad girls" have in common. This book points out what is normal and not normal in some familiar everyday dating life scenarios. It takes a really long time to truly get to know some one. Don't rush into a new romance. Relax, take one step at a time, and abide by your own set boundaries. If something doesn't feel quite right, trust your gut instinct. No one is worth wasting the summer over! If someone hurts you or you find you're hurting him or her, move on. Protect your heart (and bank account!) and trust your gut. Don't get trapped in a dysfunctional codependent relationship. Domestic violence never begins looking like domestic violence. Learn how to identify red flags and have the courage to take action. Other books in the Gaslight Survivor Series: 100 Red Flags in Relationships How Many Lies Are Too Many? Dancing in the Gaslight Bad Boys, Bad Girls

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    Victoria Summit

    Victoria Summit is a life coach.

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