How Many Lies Are Too Many?

By Victoria Summit

Is your relationship a rollar coaster ride of highs and lows?

Does your sweetie often lie to you?

Do you find yourself in horrible fights and you're not even sure how they started?

Does your lover try to trick you into thinking you're forgetful or stupid?

Does your lover make promises and break them?

Are you fooling around with a married man or woman and they STILL haven't left the spouse?

Where is your personal breaking point for putting up with liars and cheaters?

Why don't you care enough about your self to protect your heart from liars and cheaters?

Some women and men are magnets for liars, cheaters, narcissists, con artists and psychopaths. These men and women are generally the type of people who are helpful, kind and nuturing. These people are prey for the predatory pathological liar.

Liars lie. Cheaters cheat.

Don't believe for one minute that if you love someone enough that you can "cure" him or her.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Scarlett Publishing
• Release date: Feb 16, 2013
• ISBN: 9781301203987

Victoria Summit

Victoria Summit is a life coach.

Book preview

How Many Lies Are Too Many?

How to Recognize Gaslighting in Your Relationship

Victoria Summit

Part of the Gaslight Survivor Series

Special Thanks to Suzanne B.

This e-book is licensed for your personal enjoyment only. This e-book may not be re-sold or

given away to other people. If you would like to share this book with another person, please

purchase an additional copy for each recipient. If you’re reading this book and did not

purchase it, or it was not purchased for your use only, then please purchase your own copy.

Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author.

Author: Victoria Summit

Photo: Dreamstime 2013 Lina0486

Published by Scarlett Publishing

Copyright 2013 Smashwords Edition April 24

Table of Contents

Why Write Another Liar Book?

How Many Lies Are Too Many?

How to Recognize Gaslighting in Your Relationship

Trusting Ourselves

Abusive Behaviour

Getting Gaslighted

At What Point Did the Relationship Grow Sour?

Gaslight is Everywhere

It’s a Gaslight World

Villains

Malignant Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Three Phases of Gaslighting

Spotting Cracks in the Armor

No Contact

Gaslight Shame

Examples of Gaslight Lies

Beware of Liars

About the Author

Why Write Another Liar Book?

There are dozens if not hundreds of books in the world warning people about liars and cheaters. It seems like no matter how many books are written, the liars and cheaters still have the power to destroy lives.

I’ve worked with hundreds of clients over the years, helping them to see the red flags in relationships and encouraging them to find the courage to leave a dysfunctional relationship.

It seems to me that people source out books when they have a gut feeling something isn’t right or they can’t put their finger on what exactly is wrong. Sometimes people know they are with a pathological liar and want to read as much as they can about the subject. People in pain often seek out stories from other people who have gone through the same thing. In the human experience, we want to know that we are not alone.

You are not the first person to be the target of a liar. You will always be a target as will I and anyone else. You have to get smart at not listening to lies, don’t believe tears and watch for actions not words.

Actions define who a person really is. Actions from how that person lives his life, to how he treats family and friends, how he treats animals and how he treats